<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > nowadays, everyone seems to use WeChat to communicate with each other. If there is a good, old-fashioned love letter— especially a handwritten love letter— it has extraordinary meaning for feelings. Love letters are souvenirs that can be collected, reread and treasured, and they are the perfect gift for your loved ones. Writing a love letter isn't hard, but it takes some time and thought to express your true feelings. </h1>
First, the preparation before writing a love letter
1. Adjust your mood.
Go to an intimate place, close the door, try to eliminate as much noise distraction as possible, create an atmosphere, and inspire you with candlelight or music.
Maybe there's a song that reminds you of someone you love, find that song and play it while you're thinking.
You can also bring a picture of your lover to see.
2. Use memory to guide your feelings.
We all have moments when we feel deeply about the person we love, imagine that feeling – the moment when all your attention is focused on that person, you are completely immersed in your love. To experience the physical and emotional sensations of that moment as deeply as possible, be sure to write down descriptions of your feelings, as well as any words that come to mind to describe your feelings.
Think of the story of the two of you meeting for the first time or feeling the sparks splashing around. There's a moment when you know you want to be with that person. Write down that story and everything you remember.
3. Think about the people you love.
You're in love with him/her for a reason. They have something that attracts you first, and something that helps you fall in love and keeps you there. They have special attributes that you want them to know that you appreciate, such as appearance, personality, character, temperament, humor.
Think about what your significant other is for you? Your best friend? Your soul mate? Make a list of everything you admire and adore your partner.
Create a sentence. "I love the soft feeling of your hand in my hand," or "I love the way you look at me and let me know that everything will be fine," or "Your smile makes it easy for me to get through the whole day." ”
Don't focus only on physical characteristics, which can make the letter feel superficial and incomplete, love letters should be tasteful and respectful.
2. Draft a love letter
1. Write a rough draft.
Don't worry too much about grammar and spelling mistakes at this point, the information is the most important thing, and once you've written it down, you can flip through the letter and fix any mistakes. Your letter is a certain confession of how you feel.
Take your time and don't rush. If this is the first love letter you've ever written, keep this in mind: everything has a learning curve, so accept that you may run into some difficulties or make mistakes.
Express your feelings with your own voice, don't imitate the way others write or speak, you want this letter to be unique to you, it must be sincere and reflect the real you on paper.
2. How to write at the beginning.
Tell your loved one why you wrote this letter and what made you decide to write this letter. You can start by writing, "I've been thinking lately about how much I love you, and I want you to know how much I value you." ”
3. The contents of the copy.
Your memories, stories, and everything you appreciate about your partner will come in handy. Tell your loved ones what you like about them, why you love them, how they feel to you, and remind them of a story that is unique to your relationship. Tell him/her how your life has gotten better and how your life would be incomplete without him/her.
The purpose of love letters is to express very deep feelings that you have a hard time expressing yourself, taking the opportunity to say more than you usually do and take it to a deeper level.
If you don't write poetry, consider including poems from your favorite poets or quotes that express more of what you want to say.
Even if it's cheesy, as long as it's true, if your partner loves you, he/she will like your letter.
4. Write the ending.
Try things like, "Now, ten years from now, when you smile at me, I'll still think of you," or "I love you now more than ever." ”
You can also say, "Your love has changed my existence" or "I can't live without you."
Talk about the future you want to have together. Remind you how important it is to deal with your relationship and how long you want it to last.
You can end your love letter with a sentence that briefly describes how you feel about your love. You can write something like, "I wish I could dream of you tonight, or "I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you." ”
Third, wrap the love letter
1. Choose beautiful paper.
It is best written on paper with a simple (such as white), calm (such as cream color), or sensual (such as flesh color) color. Choosing high-quality paper will add a good touch and show how attentive you are when writing a letter.
If you don't have these, a regular piece of paper or notebook paper is fine, and the information is definitely more important than the type of paper you're writing.
If you want to do something interesting, you can make the regular paper look old and even make your own paper.
Use black or brown ink to keep writing basic and elegant. Avoid using blue, green, and red, which can look like you're marking up homework.
2. Signature and date. Love letters are a souvenir of your love and will be treasured for years to come, so signatures and dates are important. Suitable signatures include "yours", "you forever", "kiss you", "all my love"...
If you want to be a little more romantic, try a simple but passionate goodbye. "With immortal love" or "forever with you" will work.
3. Put love letters in envelopes.
Fold the love letter and put it in an envelope with an address. You can choose envelopes that match your love letters for best results. If you want, you can make an envelope.
Roll up the love letter and tie it with a nice ribbon or string.
Affixing a romantic stamp can add a cute touch to your envelope. If you want, turn the stamp upside down, which usually means "I love you".