Whether you have given birth to a child or not, people who have come over will know at a glance that these 4 places can't deceive experienced people

Overheard, I overheard a few moms talking.

A young mother said with emotion that after giving birth to a child, even if she recovers well, she can't see too many traces on her appearance, but there are some details that she still keeps reminding herself that she is no longer a girl but a mother.

Another mother also agreed, saying that she was always energetic and dressed up to keep up with fashion. It's just that every time I get together, as long as there are children present, I can't help but turn on the "mother mode", and I pay special attention to the bits and pieces of the children, and that kind of maternal instinct is about to be triggered.

Don't say it, many mothers can't tell that they are already the mothers of their children, but there are some details that they really can't hide.

Whether you have given birth to a child or not, people who have come over will know at a glance that these 4 aspects can't deceive people.

I: Material

Before and after giving birth, the biggest change for mothers is their figure.

Although many mothers recover well after giving birth, they still leave some traces on their bodies when they have conceived life.

Like my sister, every time she goes out, she has to dress up carefully. But the cropped tops she liked before giving birth were never worn again.

When I asked her, she would regretfully say that the flesh on her stomach was a little loose and not firm enough, and there were faint stretch marks. No matter how good those short tops looked, they didn't suit her anymore.

I have to say, the mother is really great.

Mom uses her small body to support a life, and after giving birth to life, the changes in her body are borne by her alone, and she even has to give up her favorite things before.

Two: attitude towards children

We can take a closer look at the fact that when we hear a child crying, most of the women who don't react much have never had a baby.

And those who seem to be very concerned and anxious, and can't help but step forward to support and comfort, are generally already mothers.

Because women who have given birth to children will become particularly sensitive to the attention of their children.

Why is that?

First of all, from a physiological point of view, after giving birth, women will experience a series of hormonal changes, especially the increase in oxytocin and prolactin.

These hormones stimulate the mother's desire to protect the baby.

Therefore, as soon as she hears her child crying, the mother who has given birth to a child will want to protect and comfort the child out of maternal instinct.

But women who have never given birth to children are because they do not have such a strong maternal instinct. So even if the child cries, it may not cause a big change in her.

Secondly, from a psychological perspective, after becoming a mother, women's sense of responsibility will also be significantly enhanced.

In the process of raising children, mothers will unconsciously pay more attention to the needs of their children. When she hears the child crying, she unconsciously thinks, "Is this child hungry?

Like a friend of mine, Linlin, after giving birth, she is particularly sensitive to the child's reaction.

Even in crowded places, as long as she hears a child crying, she can immediately notice it and subconsciously check what is happening.

This sensitivity to children's emotions and safety is something she has cultivated through her daily experience with a baby.

Therefore, judging whether a woman has given birth to a baby from the reaction to the child's crying is generally not wrong.

Three: Eyes

You may not believe it, whether a woman has given birth to a child or not, you can also judge one or two from her eyes.

This is because having a baby has a huge impact on a woman's life, and these changes may be indirectly reflected in their eyes and facial expressions.

Especially for mothers who take care of their babies in person, when they take their babies, they are often tired and lack of sleep.

As a result, mothers will have obvious signs of fatigue around their eyes, such as dark circles and bags under their eyes, and they will always look tired.

My cousin, before giving birth, had the innocence of a girl in her eyes. And after giving birth, there was more tiredness in her eyes, and there was more tenderness as a mother.

The difference in that kind of look is really big.

Because she often stays up late to take care of the children, the fine lines around her cousin's eyes and slightly dull eyes can't hide her tiredness.

But the joy of a new life gave her a unique tenderness in her eyes. Especially when she looks at her children, her eyes often reveal endless love.

Many of our relatives have lamented that there is a world of difference between women having children and not having children.

Four: Response to emergencies

When you see a child encountering an unexpected situation, such as falling and bruising, or accidentally spilling water on their body.

If a woman is in a hurry and at a loss, then she has little experience with a baby, and may not have given birth to a child, or has not taken care of a child herself.

But if a woman treats her child's wounds in an orderly manner, or wipes him with water and changes clothes, then this woman may be an experienced mother who has accumulated a lot of parenting experience in her daily life.

Therefore, although appearance may be deceiving, these small details in life really can't deceive people.

But whether a woman has given birth or not cannot be judged from the above points alone. Mom's greatness in every aspect, not just a few points.

After having a baby, what do you think will change?

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