Written by / First Psychology Writers
Editor / Tommy
For many men, it is often a challenge to get something out of their relationship.
The reasons for this phenomenon are varied, some of them because of the lack of material resources such as real estate, cars, etc., while others are due to the inappropriate way of communicating with women.
The combination of these factors has led to these men remaining single.
However, in the opinion of gender psychology or emotional counseling experts, the failure of these men to win the love of women is largely due to the fact that they do not understand the psychology of women when communicating with them.
In real life, women are often considered to be elusive and difficult for the outside world to accurately grasp their thinking, mainly because these men do not know how to observe and interpret women's actions and words.
In fact, if the woman shows the following behaviors, she is actually expressing her acceptance and consent – she is expressing "I do".
1. I will take the initiative to contact you every day
Many people may have the experience that when a man becomes interested in a certain woman, they usually take the initiative to communicate with her.
However, as the relationship between the two gradually deepens, the party who actively contacts often becomes a woman.
From this phenomenon, we can deduce that when a woman frequently reaches out to you, it usually means that she may have taken an interest in you or started to have a deeper intention towards you.
WeChat, as the current mainstream social media platform, has become an important tool for people to meet their social and workplace needs.
We know that the maximum number of friends on WeChat is 10,000 (this includes official accounts, but not group chats and WeCom contacts), and the vast majority of people will not be able to add so many WeChat friends in their lifetime.
Usually, having 500 WeChat friends is already considered quite a lot.
In our daily lives, we are used to receiving a lot of information, and sometimes it can be difficult to find someone special in a busy contact list.
WeChat offers a feature that pins important contacts to the top, ensuring that these people's messages are always at the top of the message list.
For example, if Alice pins Bob's WeChat dialog box to the top, and whenever Bob sends a message, Alice will reply quickly.
This behavior can be explained in psychology as Alice's emotional investment in Bob beyond that of a normal friend.
Alice's behavior shows that she not only wants to stay in touch with Bob, but also wants to respond immediately to Bob's every attempt at communication, which reflects the importance she places on Bob's emotions and time.
According to the "social exchange theory" in psychology, interpersonal interaction can be seen as a social exchange process in which individuals seek to maximize their own interests. Alice subconsciously looks forward to a deeper connection with Bob, which may be based on an emotional investment in each other and hope for the future of the relationship.
Another explanation is that Alice may see Bob as a secure attachment object, and she may exhibit more attentive and responsive behaviors, which in a digital media environment is a way to maintain a sense of connection and intimacy with an attachment partner.
In short, when you find that your female friends often reach out to you, you should understand the deeper meaning behind this.
2. Show concern frequently
As the saying goes, there is nothing to do without going to the Three Treasures Palace.
If you notice that a female friend often acts very friendly to you, sharing delicious food and drinks with you, then this is usually a sign that she may have special feelings for you.
In real life and TV dramas, we can also see that some people appear very clumsy in their social skills, and they may appear indifferent even if the other person frequently makes overtures.
This behavior often makes their relatives and friends anxious, because although these people may not be inferior in appearance and education, the main reason why they distance themselves from love is because they appear too cold in interpersonal interactions.
3. Be able to successfully invite the other party
In a relationship between a man and a woman, whether or not one party accepts the invitation of the other can often indicate the progress of the relationship.
Typically, if a woman is responsive and willingly receptive to a man's invitation,
This usually means that she has a positive attitude towards the man and may have a crush on him, so she is usually happy to respond to his requests.
Fourth, look around for news
When you notice that a woman is starting to actively learn various information about a man, it is usually a clear sign that she is interested in the man.
Generally speaking, if you don't have an interest in someone, you won't pay attention to everything about them, let alone get information about them through other means.
Zhang Tao (pseudonym) is a very attractive person, and he is also considered a "factory grass" in the factory, but he seems a little ignorant of love, so there are often some embarrassing situations.
In the past, a lady often came to Zhang Tao's workshop to inquire about him, and although his colleagues told Zhang Tao about the situation, he thought that the other party was just bored.
This attitude illustrates that it is not for nothing that some people have difficulty finding love, despite the fact that they may be attractive on the outside.
Fifth, frequently appear around
Many people may have memories like this from their school days:
Some boys with handsome appearance and outstanding ball skills are often accompanied by girls. Whether it's on the basketball court, in the cafeteria, or in the classroom, they can be seen in these places.
In this case, wherever the boy goes, the girl will follow, which shows that the woman highly appreciates and identifies with the man, and they are willing to show their support for him through practical actions.
Therefore, if you always have a girl around you, it already shows that she has a certain crush on you.
If this happens, and both parties are single, you can feel safe and bold to act.
Sixth, women are pleasing to themselves
If you have a woman next to you who is often well-groomed in front of you and looks relatively casual in front of other people, this old adage is very apt.
In order to make a good impression in front of the person of their heart, women usually pay great attention to their appearance and makeup.
Identifying these traits, whether young or middle-aged, can usually be considered that they are interested in you, or at least not hateful, if they exhibit the above behaviors.
If you can understand these signals, your success rate in love strategies will increase dramatically.
Middle-aged women, in particular, are generally more mature and experienced in terms of relationships and have a deep understanding of male psychology.
When they show you these behaviors, it's a sign that they've accepted you.
At this point, usually, the woman chasing the man is just separated by a window screen, and you only need to push it gently.
Therefore, when courting middle-aged women or women of other ages, it is important to keep an eye out for these subtle signals and potential messages.
If you can capture and understand these signals, your efforts will often be multiplied with half the effort.
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