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Ms. Yu Feihong, with her unique attitude, calmly faces all kinds of challenges in life and career, creates many screen images with different personalities, and even boldly sets foot in the field of directing, but always adheres to a low-key and simple lifestyle.
As for the reason why she has always remained single, Yu Feihong once said frankly that she will neither reject marriage nor pursue excessively, because she believes that even if she is single, she can also live a wonderful life.
As soon as this remark was exposed, it immediately aroused widespread attention and heated discussions in the online world.
In the face of public curiosity and doubts, Yu Feihong did not respond directly, but only expressed her position in concise and clear words, emphasizing that her choice was deliberate, and there was no violation of law or discipline or improper relationship.
At the same time, she hopes that all sectors of society can give her sufficient understanding and respect to protect her personal privacy.
However, such a seemingly prosaic response has only stimulated a stronger desire for public inquiry.
It turns out that the origin of it all dates back to thirty years ago. At that time, Yu Feihong, who was only 22 years old, was studying for a master's degree in the United States, and although her family education was strict, she experienced for the first time a love of knowledge and a free life.
In that strange country, Yu Feihong met a man with a special identity. This middle-aged man is in a high position and has already entered the palace of marriage. However, none of this stopped Yu Feihong's fiery heart from gradually beating faster.
The two date frequently, and although they know that this relationship is destined to be fruitless, they are still intoxicated and unable to extricate themselves. Yu Feihong longed for a solid and reliable shoulder, and the man found a long-lost passion in her.
However, good times are always short-lived. After completing his studies, Yu Feihong had to return to China to develop his career. At the time of parting, her heart was full of melancholy and loss. In order to leave the last traces of this relationship, she proposed to conceive the man's offspring through artificial insemination.
At first, the man was quite troubled, and this was indeed controversial given the medical ethics. However, seeing the loneliness and helplessness in Yu Feihong's eyes, he couldn't bear to refuse after all.
So, they each secretly donated germ cells, and with the help of IVF technology, Yu Feihong successfully gave birth to this man's bloodline.
Although the relationship eventually came to an end, this decision was deeply imprinted in Yu Feihong's life. She chose to raise the child alone, rarely mentioning his biological father.
This has also become a secret that she has been hiding in her heart for many years.
As early as when he returned to China with secrets, Yu Feihong quickly established his status in the film and television industry. Whether it is among the many heroines or on the edge of the supporting actress Xiao San, she is able to give her unique vitality.
At first, Yu Feihong chose to return to his homeland for further study and taught at a university for a year. However, the irresistible enthusiasm in her heart finally made her unable to give up her love for acting and chose to devote herself to it again.
In the 1997 play, she made her debut as a junior, and unexpectedly won universal praise from the public, rather than criticism. Since then, she has made a name for herself and her career has flourished.
Yu Feihong, who has portrayed many classic roles such as the Amazing Fairy and the Evil Altar Master, has established the status of a first-line actress in the entertainment industry. However, as time flies, she gradually realizes that her own glory may be about to be replaced by the new generation of flowers.
At an important turning point in his life, Yu Feihong made a brand new decision. On a plane ride, she stumbled upon a novel that struck her heart. So, she decided to write and direct the novel herself, and put this novel on the big screen.
However, the high investment did not pay off the expected returns. This work, which has poured countless efforts, suffered a painful failure in theaters. However, Yu Feihong has no regrets about this, on the contrary, she has gained unprecedented spiritual satisfaction from the entire creative process.
Yu Feihong has an introverted personality, which is closely related to his growth environment. Her strict parents were always expressionless and rarely praised her appearance and accomplishments. This environment has made her develop the habit of suppressing her inner emotions.
It wasn't until the three years she went to the United States to study that this always calm woman really learned how to release herself. Freed from the shackles of her parents, she was able to freely unleash the vitality of her youth.
There, she met the man who changed the trajectory of her life, and finally opened her heart and experienced the taste of love.
However, the good times are always short-lived. The pain of parting and the blow caused by the failure of the movie made Yu Feihong taste sadness again. The once frozen lake of heart begins to melt, and she learns to face and accept these unbearable emotions.
Whenever she stood in front of the window of her room, she would quietly watch the raindrops outside the window without saying a word. All anger and reluctance have vanished, leaving only an endless emptiness.
She finally realized that when the most undesirable thing finally happened, her heart could remain so calm. After experiencing a low point in her life, Yu Feihong realized that her love for this career was so deep.
As the classic line says, only when you are accustomed to fighting against the odds can you show your bright light in despair.
The current Yu Feihong, after years of tempering, shows a detached and open-minded temperament. The once joyful and sorrowful young girl has drifted away. She savored the bits and pieces of life with a peaceful and tranquil attitude, and learned to laugh heartily.
All kinds of past have become magnificent landscapes in her life journey.
For every woman, choosing to obtain the right to have children through medical assistance is not an easy task. This is undoubtedly equivalent to handing over the most important decision of one's life to cold technology and probability.
Not to mention, it also involves another man who already has a family.
Why did Yu Feihong make such a choice? What kind of intense psychological struggle did she go through in the process of deciding to undergo medical conception? In fact, she simply longed to have a partner who could rely on and support each other.
She is introverted and often suppresses her emotions. Coupled with the loneliness and helplessness of being in a foreign country at the time, the appearance of that man was like an oasis revealed in a mirage, and Yu Feihong desperately wanted to cling to it.
The birth of a child temporarily filled the hollowness and loneliness in her heart. However, this also makes her have to take on all the heavy responsibilities of conception and upbringing alone, carefully hiding the identity of the biological father of this child.
Now that the truth is revealed, Yu Feihong no longer deliberately hides it. In the face of doubts from all sides, she calmly endured it, without any intention of explaining or refutating. She just wants to quietly watch her child grow up and accompany him through every critical moment in his life.
A fortuitous choice comes with a long-lasting cost. However, Yu Feihong has never regretted it. In her own unique way, she guards the precious oasis in her heart. Although it is insignificant, it carries all her maternal love and tolerance.