People live for a lifetime, it can be said that everyone is eager to succeed, who doesn't want to live a life of scenery?
There are many kinds of people's success, of course, in the cognition of the vast majority of people, career success, can make a lot of money, this is the first concept of success in many people's cognition.
In fact, a happy marriage is also a kind of success, if you can run your own small family well, the husband and wife are loving, the children are successful, the family is healthy and happy, and the family is happy, which is also an invisible great wealth.
It is often said that marriage pays attention to the right family, and the marriage of two families must not only have a good relationship between the husband and wife, but also match the family in the world, economically and even culturally, so that the family will be stable.
That being said, there is some truth to it, but when you really fall in love with someone, all the rules and regulations become decorations, and there is no need for them.
The following woman shared an interesting story about her life, she said that her husband is a doctor of medicine, but she is a scumbag from a rural area, in the eyes of many people, they do not match each other at all, where is the common language?
However, they have been married for ten years, and they still love each other very much, the woman often goes to the unit, brings all kinds of delicious food, picks up her husband from work, and the two of them seem very happy.
Somewhere in Jiangsu, the woman drove to her husband's unit and told him that she had brought him something delicious, and soon, a man in a white coat walked out of the elevator.
The man is of medium stature, with an average appearance, wearing glasses, looking polite, full of bookishness, and at first glance he is a scientific research talent who is rich in learning.
Seeing her husband walking towards her with a smile on his face, the woman hurriedly handed the delicious gifts she had bought in advance to her husband.
"What did you buy again?" the husband opened the red bag expectantly, and it could be seen that his eyes were full of surprise.
The man was satisfied with the gifts, and then extended his thumb to his wife and praised his wife: "My daughter-in-law understands me and knows what I like to eat."
The woman was happy, looking at the back of her husband's departure, she said quite proudly: her husband is a talented student in medical school, graduated from a prestigious university with a doctorate, but she is a proper scumbag, she has not studied well since she was a child, and she graduated from an ordinary college and has not had a good job.
And her husband's colleagues and daughters-in-law are basically good units, iron rice bowls, compared with them, she is really weak and useless.
But such a diploma gap, does not affect the relationship between them at all, the woman does not feel that there is anything wrong, she often comes to pick up her husband from work every once in a while, and the husband is also very useful, very satisfied with the daughter-in-law's pay, often in front of colleagues to praise the daughter-in-law for her beauty, capable people, so that other colleagues are envious.
The woman also said that in order to give her husband a long face, she often sent supper to her husband, and wholeheartedly helped the family and supported her husband's work and career.
Looking at the man's heartfelt smile, he was very satisfied and sweet, netizens said: Little sister deserves to be loved, such a virtuous and smart girl, who wouldn't love it?
Some netizens also said: I am in high school, my husband has a master's degree in 985, I am lying flat at home, my husband is an engineer of a central enterprise, and he does not delay him to bring me food from the canteen every day.
The words are full of pride and superiority, and it is truly blissful.
Some netizens said that marrying a wife does not necessarily have to be highly educated, first of all, a woman must be kind, reasonable, filial piety to her in-laws, take care of children, understand her husband's hard work, and not lose, such a woman is a good wife.
In fact, the way of getting along with husband and wife is very subtle, many husbands and wives in the eyes of outsiders, they are somewhat incompatible, but people are still happy, because they provide each other with mutual emotional value, each takes what they need, complements each other, marriage is like a pair of shoes, worn on their feet, suitable or not, they know in their hearts.
Maybe this medical doctor married a highly educated scholar, the girl is also very powerful, has her own brilliant career, and is busy every day, where does she have the time to send food and drink to the doctor's husband?
Therefore, many couples who seem to be a good match on the surface may not live happily, marriage is like this, there is no need to blindly compare, what suits you is the best.