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In the 2016 episode of the talk show, Yu Feihong sat upright under the bright lights of the studio, fearless of the host's sharp gaze, showing extraordinary courage. During the interview, when the host boldly raised the question about her as a "near-destined old but still single", Yu Feihong showed unusual calmness and firmness.
This need is as indispensable to each of us as it is to eating, drinking, and lazing in daily life, and in women, it is often entangled with emotions, but in men, it is often able to separate it. She responded in a categorical tone, full of confidence and boldness.
The host originally thought that this question could be used to easily play tricks on the 52-year-old single lady, but unexpectedly, she suffered a humiliation instead. Yu's words seem to imply that men often make decisions based on physiological instinct.
In the face of doubts, she remained calm and looked directly at the unfamiliar face in front of the camera. At this moment, Yu Feihong's unique views on marriage and childbirth have triggered an in-depth discussion of her otherworldly attitude towards life.
Yu Feihong, who has been born beautiful since he was a child, has won countless praises and love from his neighbors. Kind-hearted neighbors offered to take her to and from school, and even knitted gorgeous sweaters for her, dressing her up like a little princess who had been carefully cared for.
After entering the university, this phenomenon of attention has not decreased. In that campus, where many handsome talents and beautiful women gathered, Yu Feihong still exudes dazzling light and is eye-catching.
Not only the classmates of the same school fell for her, but even students from other schools came to see her.
There are even some boys who like to raise pet dogs, and they even raise pet dogs in the dormitory collectively, and their wish is only to be able to have close contact with Yu Feihong and share a good time.
"At that time, I was still young and a little playful, so I would lead these puppies to play and play," Yu recalled, his tone full of nostalgia.
However, deep down in her heart, there is a hidden arrogant character. The enthusiasm of the young students did not impress her, on the contrary, she preferred to devote herself to her studies and immerse herself in the ocean of knowledge all day long.
Yu Feihong is very strict with himself, he will practice his homework seriously every morning, and he must go to bed on time at 11:30 p.m. It is this high degree of self-management that has enabled her to achieve excellent results in various disciplines and have been awarded several scholarships in a row.
However, Yu Feihong's inner qualities of independence, self-improvement, self-confidence and elegance quietly faded in front of a self-proclaimed extraordinary man "Sixth Brother". Unlike many men who blindly pursue and behave frivolously, "Sixth Brother" has unique insights and firm beliefs, and will do whatever it takes to realize his dreams.
It is this unswerving spirit that makes Yu Feihong's heart ignite a different kind of emotional spark.
The relationship between the two stemmed from an unintentional campus turmoil. As students of the School of Drama, they are often arranged to co-star in plays. Maybe it's because they're too emotionally involved, or their acting skills are superb, their tacit cooperation on stage always gives people a sincere feeling like a couple.
As a result, rumors about whether the two were emotionally entangled spread quickly on campus.
In the face of all kinds of speculation from the outside world, Yu Feihong not only did not feel disgusted, but secretly rejoiced. It wasn't until the "sixth brother" confessed frankly that the two officially confirmed their relationship and fell in love passionately.
At first, the love was as hot and passionate, and both parties regarded each other as an important part of their life ideals.
However, as time passed, contradictions gradually emerged. The "sixth brother" expects Yu Feihong to become a virtuous housewife, while Yu Feihong sticks to himself and longs for a free and easy lifestyle.
In the face of his repeated persuasion, she has long been firm in her heart, and would rather die alone than become an accessory of others.
The pain of the breakup almost plunged Yu Feihong into the abyss of despair. However, her father's words were like a lifesaver that saved her life: "Daughter, you must keep your inner world rich and complete, and you must not become an embroidered pillow straw bag with a gorgeous appearance but an empty heart!"
Just when her career was booming, Yu Feihong made an eye-popping decision - she resolutely gave up the honor and wealth at her fingertips, chose to close the door to customers, and devoted herself to script writing.
Once, during the filming of the TV series "Holding Hands", director Yang Yang intended to invite her to be the heroine. However, when Yu Feihong finished reading the script, he unexpectedly asked to challenge him to play the controversial female number two "Wang Chun", a role that was labeled as a "little three".
In the face of everyone's advice and encouragement, especially for the rare heroine role, Yu Feihong firmly chose to take on this controversial small role.
In the face of admonition and concern from his family and friends, Yu Feihong resolutely decided to rely on his outstanding acting skills to challenge this difficult role.
In the end, under her superb acting skills and excellent interpretation, the image of this small character who originally had a poor reputation in the play was completely renewed, which attracted people's attention. Many well-known brands have thrown olive branches to her, and even invitations from the film industry are endless.
If this trend continues, Yu Feihong's acting career is undoubtedly likely to create brilliance again and usher in another peak in his life. However, just when everyone was expecting Yu Feihong to take advantage of the momentum and continue to climb the peak on the road of acting, she made a shocking decision - she chose to give up this low-hanging success opportunity, closed herself at home, and devoted herself to the creation of the script.
Deep down in her, a voice was telling her, "Don't put yourself under too much pressure and consume your talent too soon." She is well aware that geniuses often carry heavy burdens, and she prefers to live an ordinary and ordinary life and enjoy that moment of peace.
In the entire entertainment industry, the only person who can have such an independent personality and attitude to life like Yu Feihong is probably the highly praised diva-level singer Faye Wong. Whether it is criticized because of her emotional entanglement with Dou Wei, or the disintegration of her acting career due to her insistence on pursuing her personal ideals, whether it is dealing with emotional problems between Nicholas Tse and Li Yapeng, Faye Wong has always faced the doubts and judgments of the outside world in her maverick way.
However, she was never shaken by this. She still maintains that proud independence, and no matter how things change in the world, she can face them with a calm heart. Just as she expressed with her soulful singing, even though the outside world is full of storms, she has always maintained that calmness and calmness in her heart.
Yu Feihong and Faye Wong, two women with completely different destinies, their life trajectories are destined to encounter criticism and accusations from the outside world at some stage. One has sparked controversy because of his unique choice to stick to life and never marry, while the other has been ridiculed by the world for his complex and changeable love life.
It is gratifying to see that they have shown remarkable courage and wisdom, and have always met the endless challenges with a broad and inclusive mind, while at the same time possessing a positive and optimistic attitude towards life.
Perhaps, on a quiet night, the decisions made and the paths chosen, the experiences that have not been accepted by the world's eyes, will emerge in front of us like an old jump-cut movie, clear and profound.
Today, the actress Yu Feihong, who is over half a hundred years old, still sticks to her single life.
"Why haven't you yet entered the palace of marriage? You are no longer young, and you can no longer be willful. Some may be skeptical.
"Can a woman still be called a complete woman if she fails to conceive offspring?" and some people would even accuse her of such a narrow point of view.
"As a woman, it is my duty to be content with the status quo, to take care of the household for my husband and to educate my children. This is perhaps the most traditional of all notions.
These deep-rooted concepts will undoubtedly bring a heavy mental burden to Yu Feihong. However, no matter how the outside world criticizes and blames her, she can deal with it calmly and face it all with ease.
In her calm and confident eyes, there is a unique understanding and perception of life.
Tenacious and independent, this is the true portrayal of Yu Feihong's life. She bravely pursued true interests and happiness, and used her life's practice to interpret what is a truly free life and what is the highest state of self-worth.