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In the extremely wonderful year of 2005, with the birth of a classic called "Red Clothes Square", Dong Jie and Pan Yueming, two extremely talented actors, also became acquainted. At this time, Dong Jie was already blue and white, but she always held a humble and studious heart, and looked forward to greater breakthroughs and progress in the new crew.
The moment he met Pan Yueming for the first time, Pan Yueming's handsome and extraordinary appearance and calm and elegant temperament instantly attracted Dong Jie. Pan Yueming's image is like a personable prince, his words and deeds are elegant and decent, which makes people excited.
As a well-known actor from a scholarly family, the innate bookish atmosphere exuded by the 31-year-old Pan Yueming undoubtedly makes him more eye-catching.
In the face of such an excellent Pan Yueming, the excitement in Dong Jie's heart was surging like a tide, as if she was gently touched by an angel. When Pan Yueming treated her with a sincere and friendly attitude, Dong Jie could no longer suppress the fiery emotions in her heart, and Pan Yueming's meticulous care for her made her deeply trapped and unable to extricate herself.
So, they gradually developed from knowing each other to knowing and loving each other, and began a sweet and beautiful love journey.
Whenever the news about their relationship comes out, it always arouses warm attention from all walks of life, and people have sent their most sincere blessings to this pair of "golden boys and girls". Finally on September 26, 2008, in the sound of blessings from the world's attention, Dong Jie and Pan Yueming walked into the sacred wedding hall hand in hand, and jointly composed a happy marriage movement.
Dong Jie's artistic career is like a starry star, shining brightly.
At the age of eighteen or nineteen, Dong Jie has appeared on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala twice, and after playing a supporting role in Zhao Lirong's sketch, she performed on the same stage with Nicholas Tse.
Just the year before, with her outstanding appearance and fresh and refined temperament, Dong Jie was favored by director Zhang Yimou and successfully starred as the heroine in his new film "Happy Times", becoming the "Mou Girl" in one fell swoop.
This was undoubtedly the most glorious moment of her life, which not only established her high status in the film industry, but also won her many important awards at home and abroad. Behind these honors, Dong Jie's hard-working, tenacious and unyielding spiritual qualities have been cherished since childhood.
After marriage, Pan Yueming's care for Dong Jie was meticulous, making her feel endless warmth and happiness, as if she had become a well-cared for princess. Whenever she talks about family life, Dong Jie is always grateful from the bottom of her heart for being able to spend the rest of her life with such a careful and thoughtful husband, and her heart is full of happiness.
A year later, they ushered in the crystallization of their love - the birth of their son "Dingding". The young parents, who love each other deeply, are indisputably a small warm family, happy and content.
Dong Jie is full of ardent expectations for a better life in the future, and if possible, may this sweet marriage continue forever.
Although Pan Yueming's acting career suffered some setbacks later, and his appearance opportunities and excellent works were greatly reduced, Dong Jie always firmly believed that this was only a short period of difficulty, and she was convinced that her husband would definitely regain his former glory.
Her unwavering love for Pan Yueming and her beautiful vision for the future make the family full of happiness.
Dong Jie won the trust of director Zhang Yimou and the opportunity to appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala
Before entering the marriage hall, Dong Jie had already made a name for herself in the film industry. When she was eighteen or nineteen years old, she stood on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala twice, played a supporting role in Zhao Lirong's sketches, and then performed on stage with Nicholas Tse, undoubtedly one of the brightest new stars at that time.
Just the year before, Dong Jie was favored by director Zhang Yimou for her excellent appearance and fresh and refined temperament, and stood out from 50,000 candidates to successfully play the heroine of his new film "Happy Times".
This is known as the highest honor of "Mou Girl", which not only laid a solid foundation for her in the film industry, but also won her many important awards at home and abroad, all of which are inseparable from Dong Jie's spirit of hard work since childhood.
It is precisely because of these outstanding achievements that Dong Jie was able to walk side by side with Pan Yueming and create an enviable marriage story at that time. They were once hailed as "golden boys and girls" by the outside world, and they were ideal model couples.
In the past few years after marriage, Dong Jie's career has been in full swing, starring in the TV series "Deep Love and Rain" ratings and word-of-mouth, and she has also won the warm praise and love of the audience with the role of Leng Qingqiu in the play, and has become the coveted goddess in the hearts of countless men.
However, just when her career was at its peak, Pan Yueming's career was in trouble, and a situation of strong women and weak men gradually appeared in the family.
As a traditional woman, Dong Jie naturally breeds a sense of insecurity deep in her heart. She longs for her husband's love and support, hoping that he can become the breadwinner of the family, but Pan Yueming seems unable to meet her expectations.
Although his opportunities to appear on the camera have decreased sharply, and excellent works are as scarce as rare, his acting career has fallen into an unprecedented downturn, and the heavy financial burden has also crushed the originally happy and harmonious family.
Similarly, Pan Yueming's deep anxiety and inferiority complex have become more and more intense, exacerbating the gap between them. His irritable personality and the boredom he often showed made Dong Jie feel troubled.
Mixed with this growing contradictory pressure, the rift between them became more and more difficult to repair, and finally made the decision to part ways in 2012, announcing the end of the marriage.
Although Pan Yueming tried his best to redeem and try to revive this precarious marriage, for Dong Jie, the former relationship could no longer be recovered.
For her, the source of the contradiction seems irreparable.
Pan Yueming's career has fallen into an unprecedented low period, and the accumulation of contradictions has made his life full of challenges. After the divorce, Pan Yueming's career fell into a state of complete stagnation, the chances of appearing on the camera have decreased sharply, and there are only a handful of excellent works.
The low point of his career hit him hard, and his anxiety and low self-esteem increased day by day.
However, in stark contrast, Dong Jie's career is advancing all the way, and the dominance of the family has gradually shifted to her alone.
Pan Yueming's position in the family has also become more and more embarrassing, and excessive inferiority complex and anxiety have deepened the estrangement between them, which has become the last straw that led to the breakdown of the marriage.
His irascible temper and impatient attitude often troubled Dong Jie, and the seeds of conflict in family life accumulated silently.
When the news of the divorce was made public, it immediately caused an uproar in all walks of life. Many people feel deep regret and regret for this pair, who was once known as the "golden boy and girl" on the screen and was regarded by countless people as an ideal model couple.
However, things turned out far beyond what one might expect. Soon after, Dong Jie publicly accused Pan Yueming of a series of crimes such as gambling and violent tendencies, portraying him as an extremely irresponsible husband and father.
She claimed that Pan Yueming not only wantonly squandered the family's property, but even used violence against her and her children at home on many occasions, causing great distress to the whole family.
In the face of such a serious accusation, Pan Yueming naturally resolutely denied it! He did not hesitate to declare that he had never committed the slightest misconduct, that he had not caused any harm to any family member, and that he had only quietly shouldered the heavy responsibility of providing for his family.
However, at this critical moment, Wang Dazhi suddenly intervened, publicly expressed his agreement with Dong Jie's position, and went all out to ignite the fire, so that the trend of public opinion galloped away in the direction of violently attacking Pan Yueming.
In the face of such strong social pressure, Pan Yueming had no choice but to launch a lawsuit against Dong Jie's brokerage company in an attempt to clear his name. Although he finally won two appeals, the majority of netizens still firmly sided with Dong Jie, believing that she was the real victim in this divorce turmoil.
The power of public opinion is so strong, and under such circumstances, Pan Yueming's explanation and the outcome of the lawsuit seem so insignificant. He had to endure doubts and reproaches from all sides on his own, and his career suffered a huge blow as a result.
In order to defend his dignity and, more importantly, to keep the job he relied on for his livelihood, he had no choice.
: Dong Jie cheated on Wang Dazhi, and the paparazzi revealed the inside truth
Just as the frenzy of public opinion swept in, the paparazzi Zhuo Wei exposed a 30-second video, showing Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi's intimate kissing picture, which made the whole incident more and more complicated.
It turned out that long before the divorce, Dong Jie had secretly communicated with Wang Dazhi, and there was an unknown intimate relationship between the two.
This shocking reversal news instantly ignited the fuse of public opinion. People exclaimed, it turned out that the source of the whole thing was that Dong Jie took the lead in betraying her marriage, not being hurt and abused by Pan Yueming as she said.
After the truth was revealed, although Pan Yueming cleared his grievances, after experiencing such a deep injury, his reputation was irreparably damaged.
Pan Yueming, who was tormented in his heart, finally chose to leave this controversial place, getting rid of the endless war of words and gossip. Despite the devastating blow to his career, he was gratified by his principled behavior.
And this action of the paparazzi Zhuo Wei is undoubtedly of far-reaching significance, bringing a dawn of hope for fairness and justice.