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As soon as the 2017 hit drama "Chasing the Murderer in the White Night" came out, it quickly won a high score of 9.0 from the audience on Douban, a well-known domestic film review website! The number of online broadcasts broke an astonishing record, easily exceeding 800 million views! The play is starring the famous actor Pan Yueming, whose superb performance in the play is unforgettable, and he has successfully completely subverted himself from the image of a "handsome young man" in the past, and turned into a high-profile powerful actor.
The hit of this masterpiece undoubtedly injected new vitality into Pan Yueming's acting career and made him climb to the pinnacle of his career again. The short trough period after the divorce seems to be just an episode in his life, and now he has finally achieved self-transcendence again, showing a more mature and stable demeanor.
In addition to his busy schedule, Pan Yueming is also happy to maintain close interaction with his fans and share the details of his daily life through social media. He occasionally shows his paintings, and his delicate and graceful brushstrokes are full of admiration.
Despite the luxury of life, Pan Yueming always adheres to the innocence and simplicity of his heart, and the whole person exudes a calm and quiet temperament.
However, it is this innocence and tranquility that often makes Pan Yueming fall into deep pain and regret. Although his career has been reborn, Pan Yueming has never been able to forget the ten-year separation from his beloved son.
Whenever he recalls the past, Pan Yueming can't help but shed tears, feeling deeply guilty for not being able to witness his son's growth process.
Looking back on the hard years in the early days of divorce, Pan Yueming still has lingering palpitations. "It was a horrible experience, and it's heart-pounding every time I think about it. He was overwhelmed with emotion in an interview.
At that time, the entire Internet world was full of malicious attacks on him, and the image of "jade-faced Xiaosheng" he had created collapsed in an instant, and no one was willing to co-star in any film and television works with him for several years, and his career suffered a heavy blow.
The root cause of Pan Yueming's career trough and torture can be traced back to the divorce turmoil between him and his wife Dong Jie ten years ago. Everything is because on the eve of the divorce, Dong Jie was suddenly exposed to the scandal of having an intimate relationship with actor Wang Dazhi.
A certain blogger bluntly broke the news that "Pan Yueming and Dong Jie have officially broken up, and Dong Jie has a new love, Wang Dazhi" In the face of this shocking news, Pan Yueming's heart was full of shock and pain, he resolutely denied the rumors that the two had broken up, and even separated from Dong Jie for this reason.
However, what is surprising is that Dong Jie herself did not give any explanation or clarification, but openly launched a personal attack on Pan Yueming with the help of his agent! In an instant, Dong Jie's team frantically spread negative rumors about Pan Yueming to the outside world like a storm, claiming that he had extremely bad behaviors such as "gambling addiction" and "frequent affair cheating."
Such a bad method is obviously to make Pan Yueming lose his armor on the battlefield of public opinion.
In this ugly divorce battle, Pan Yueming failed to get the fair and just treatment he deserved. Although he finally had the last laugh in the whirlpool of legal proceedings, the price he paid was extremely painful.
The entire online world is full of abuse and blame for him, and he has won the respect of a part of the audience with his sincerity and perseverance, but in the eyes of the mainstream media, he has been portrayed as a "scumbag".
Life after the divorce put Pan Yueming in a more difficult predicament. Dong Jie successfully won the right to raise her son "Dingding", and since then, Pan Yueming has never been able to see his child with his own eyes.
Every time it is his son's birthday, he can only silently send blessings to Dingding on social platforms, and use the familiar childhood photo of his son with the emojis of "cow" and "balloon" to express his deep thoughts about his son.
Faced with his son's desire, Pan Yueming was helpless. Even when his elderly father was dying, his wish to be able to see his grandson again at the last moment of his life was ruthlessly rejected by Dong Jie, completely severing the family bond between their father and son.
This has undoubtedly become a scar in Pan Yueming's heart that will never be erased.
In those years when he was spurned by public opinion and his career fell into a trough, Pan Yueming's whole person fell into painful struggles and contradictions. His image has changed drastically, his originally handsome and dashing face has become haggard and melancholy, and his figure has gradually become thin and hunchbacked.
Even his agent was anxious and running around looking for a gig for him, but in vain in the end.
Despite suffering such unfair treatment, Pan Yueming still adhered to his principles and never publicly accused his ex-wife Dong Jie. On the contrary, he used his sincerity and perseverance to win the respect of a part of the audience.
It was only in a TV interview that Pan Yueming finally couldn't bear it anymore and expressed his strong indignation at Dong Jie's behavior of hindering his reunion with his son with the toughest attitude.
Although this sentence was short and powerful, it became the most intense and angry words he said to Dong Jie after the divorce. It is only because he still has deep feelings for this former lover in his heart that he can show such magnanimity and endless love.
However, it is a pity that Dong Jie did not give any response or explanation for this. On the contrary, not only was she resolutely opposed to allowing Pan Yueming to visit their children, but even before Pan Yueming's elderly father died, her desire to see his grandson at the last moment was ruthlessly rejected by her.
This undoubtedly left Pan Yueming with eternal psychological trauma.
In the early days of the divorce, Pan Yueming once fell into the abyss of despair. In an interview, he candidly poured out his inner pain: "This experience was so horrific that it still makes people palpitate when I think about it.
Back ten years ago, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie's marital crisis originated from an unexpected work accident.
At that time, Pan Yueming was on a high-intensity shooting mission. Due to the fact that the crew was located in the middle of nowhere, and because of the long distance, when the rescuers arrived at the scene, a full two hours had passed.
At this critical moment, Pan Yueming unfortunately fell from a steep slope as high as 30 meters, and his lungs were seriously damaged, and his life was in danger.
At the time of life and death, Pan Yueming's only spiritual sustenance is his deep love for his wife and children. He supported himself with this most sincere strength from the bottom of his heart, and finally survived the most dangerous moment and successfully survived the great difficulties in his life.
However, just when people were expecting the couple's relationship to become stronger, a sudden upheaval completely shattered all hopes. A blogger suddenly broke the news: "Pan Yueming and Dong Jie have officially broken up, and Dong Jie has found a new lover - Wang Dazhi."
This news was like a thunderbolt from the blue, and Pan Yueming instantly hit the bottom. He never thought that at the critical moment when he almost lost his life and Dong Jie took care of himself wholeheartedly, her heart had turned away from this marriage.
The shock and pain in his heart could not be described in words, Pan Yueming immediately issued a statement firmly denying the matter, and even separated from Dong Jie because of this.
Time flies, time flies, and the divorce turmoil has quietly gone through ten spring and autumn ups and downs. Today's Pan Yueming has risen in the field of career and radiated new brilliance, realizing the sublimation of personal realm and the transformation of soul.
However, whenever he looks back on the past, there is always endless emotion and deep regret in his heart.
As a man who always has a beautiful vision for his family, Pan Yueming is naturally difficult to let go of the breakdown of his marriage. In an interview, when he talked about the difficult years before and after the divorce, his tone was full of heavy sighs: "This experience is so terrifying, every time I think about it, it makes people feel palpitations."
At that time, he was forced into a dirty divorce lawsuit, and under the malicious attack of public opinion, he was once pushed into the abyss. The entire Internet world is flooded with invective against him, and although he has won the respect of some viewers with his sincerity and perseverance, his image has been derogatory to the public eye as a "scumbag".
What's even more distressing is that in this silent battle, Pan Yueming lost the opportunity to meet his son, and even couldn't fulfill his elderly father's last wish.
All this is like an eternal wound in his heart, which will forever be imprinted in the depths of his heart.
However, it is precisely because of such a huge ordeal that Pan Yueming cherishes the little time that their family of three once spent together. Whenever he recalls the sweet love years with his wife Dong Jie, and the happy time after the birth of his son "Dingding", he will be surrounded by a strong sense of happiness, as if returning to that sunny and beautiful era again.