Qian Zhongshu said: "Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to enter, and people in the city want to come out. ”
That's true.
Marriage is like a besieged city, those who are inside want to go out, and those who are outside want to come in.
Some people are desperate for love, and some people are desperate for bread;
Some people work hard for their careers, and some people are tired of life.
In this long journey of life, each of us has our own state of life.
Some people are happy and sweet in their marriage, and some people are struggling in their marriage.
But no matter what, as long as you can live happily, it is the best state of life.
- The heart is one inch wider, and the happiness is boundless
In life, many people get angry and even quarrel with others because of their behavior, words, attitudes, etc.
But in fact, everything in the world is like this, and it is all relative.
No matter how good someone else is, there will be someone who does it better than him, and no matter how bad someone else is, there will be someone who is worse than him.
When you look at the good in others, you will find that everyone is good, and when you look at the shortcomings of others, you will find that everyone has their faults.
Therefore, instead of dwelling on it, it is better to look down on everything.
There is no perfection between people, the true perfect relationship is that I love you but do not ask for you, and I do not love you but ask of you.
As long as the heart is one inch wide, happiness is boundless, if the heart is as wide as the sea, why worry about no happiness?
Many times, the reason why we feel miserable, anxious, and unhappy is actually because we are bound by things in the outside world.
Only by relaxing one's mind can one transform the constraints of the outside world into inner freedom.
- Go with the flow and go with the flow
Some people say that life is a long journey, you don't have to work too hard, as long as you are willing to go, it will accompany you all the way.
If life is compared to a journey, then each of us is a traveler in our own life.
As the years go by, we always go to different intersections.
Some people can't move forward for various reasons;
Some people have a smooth road since they met the noble people in their lives;
Some people have lived happily ever since they met their lover.
Whatever the outcome, we should embrace it.
There are always things in life that catch us off guard, but that doesn't mean we have to complain.
Since we can't change what has happened, let's just let it be!
After all, life is your own, and the road is also your own choice, no matter how sad or unwilling you are, you can only grit your teeth and stick to it.
No matter whether the front is full of thorns or thorns, as long as we have firm faith and move forward bravely, we will definitely reach our destination.
Only in this way can we live up to the ups and downs along the way.
- Be a simple person and be honest with yourself
The best state of a person's life is simple and exquisite.
Simplicity is not a simple life, but being sincere to oneself and gentle to the world.
True happiness is not to live as others see you, but to live as you like.
The best state of a person's life is to know how to be sincere with himself.
You have to know that you have to be kind to yourself whenever and wherever you are.
Because only in this way can you become a simple, lovable, and likable person.
As Ernest Hemingway said, "A man is not born to be defeated, you can destroy him, but you can't defeat him." ”
Those who have a strong heart will never deliberately please others.
The reason why they can live so easily is because they are sincere and kind enough.
Even in the face of life's hardships and the complexity of human nature, they can always maintain their original intentions.
Be honest with yourself! Be simple and lovable!