Families with daughters are no longer popular, and they may face these 4 problems in the future, and the more they look at it, the more heartbreaking they become
For a long time, men have been the main labor force in society, and in this case, the idea of "patriarchy" naturally extended. But with the rise of women's status, the idea of preference for sons over women has also been greatly improved, and it is believed that both boys and girls are the same. But if you can choose, many young people are now more eager to have daughters, and they also compare daughters to their parents' close-fitting padded jackets.
Why do so many people want to have daughters? Actually, the reason is very simple. Because girls are naturally very well-behaved, they can also be better managed than boys when it comes to management. In addition, girls' innate delicate minds and reproductive talents can also make them deeply understand the difficulties of their parents, so that they are more filial to their parents than boys. Although the saying is so, families with daughters may also face these 4 practical problems in the future, each more heart-wrenching than the other.
After getting married, his mind leaned towards his in-laws.
For a daughter, she can still live in her parents' house before she gets married, and her parents' home is also his home, but after she gets married, it is different, and after getting married, it means that she has two families. In this case, their focus will be biased towards their own small family, and after a long time, their minds will gradually tilt towards their in-laws.
A son-in-law is not a son, and he can't make friends.
It is said that a son-in-law is half a son, but a son-in-law is not a son after all. Therefore, when treating his son-in-law, he can't be as strong as his son, most of them hold him in the palm of his hand and take care of him like a baby. In the eyes of parents, as long as they are good to their son-in-law, the son-in-law is naturally no worse than their daughter. To put it bluntly, he feels sorry for his daughter, and is afraid that she will be wronged in her in-law's family, so he will try his best to be good to his son-in-law, for fear that his son-in-law will wronged his daughter.
No one has told you about the grievances suffered by distant marriage.
For families with daughters, if daughters choose to marry far away when they grow up, it is not only the daughters who are lonely, but also the parents. After all, her daughter married and lived alone, and if she encountered any grievances, she couldn't tell her parents in time. For those sensible daughters, they don't even want their parents to know what happened to them, and in order not to let their parents worry about themselves, they would rather swallow all the grievances in their stomachs.
After marriage, there will be less support for parents.
Although the parents feel very good when their daughter is around, they are both considerate and caring. But a daughter is a daughter after all, and sooner or later she will face the problem of getting married, and once she gets married, her daughter will have her own small family, and she will also put all her energy into this family, and she will not be able to take into account the feelings of her parents in time. The emotional bond and intimacy between the two parents will decrease over time, which does not mean that the daughters forget their parents after marriage, but that they do not have so much energy.
After all, there is a family behind them to be wary of, and it is impossible to be by their side as often as before. If her daughter goes to work to earn money, she can also use her own money to supplement her parents. But if the daughter is at home with the children and has no income to speak of, then don't think about supplementing the parents' affairs. Because all the money comes from his son-in-law, it is already very difficult for him to make money to support his family alone, and if he uses money to supplement his parents again, the son-in-law will feel uncomfortable.
What are your thoughts on this?