I am a mother who likes to read and write. Today is the 39th day of my book sharing in Toutiao, and an article costs more than 31 yuan, why don't you work hard?
People get up early to study, you don't wake up and can't afford it, the first thing you do when you get up is to touch your phone, a morning of confusion has passed, and in the afternoon you continue to brush all kinds of videos aimlessly, and the day is over.
When you know how much others pay, you may not envy the lives of those people, and you will find that you are not worthy of it at all.
Change starts with pushing yourself, how can there be so many talents, it's just a matter of doing your best. Success won't come to the door by itself, but it won't be difficult to climb to the sky, since you want it, go all out!
But what's scarier than not trying is fake effort
Read a book for two minutes and swipe your phone for two hours.
Go to the gym and take a photo and send it to Moments, then lie flat.
Work hard at night and fish during the day.
Fake effort consumes your time and numbs your nerves. I can deceive myself and the leader, but I won't act with you in the end.
If you work hard, you will only get to go in circles, never leaving the starting point.
What is a fake effort
The essence of fake effort is to use formal diligence to cover up the laziness of thinking, and it seems as if you are working hard every day. There is no efficiency, just superficially making others feel like they are working hard, but in fact there is no substantial progress.
You think you're trying,
Actually, you're just pretending to try.
How many of the 8 performances of fake effort did you hit?
But I don't know what to work for, I don't have a goal or a plan
After the bronzing, they just let them eat ashes in their favorites, and they are always hot for three minutes when doing things
Thinking about it is a play
But my mind went blank
In fact, it is not suitable for me at all
As a result, most of the time is spent taking pictures, retouching, and hair circle formalism.
But I only learned it for a few minutes
Self-motivated efforts, don't learn when you should learn, and study hard when you should sleep
If you don't work hard, it's actually yourself who is perfunctory
How to get rid of fake efforts?
1. Be goal-oriented
Why do you always set a false goal? Because you may have set a "false goal".
When it comes to execution, you don't know which direction to work in, so it's easier to fall into the trap of fake effort.
2. Stop being anxious
In "Cognitive Awakening", it is said that there are two causes of anxiety, I want to do many things at the same time, and I want to see the effect immediately.
In other words, ability is not worthy of ambition, and there is a great lack of patience in the heart.
The more mismatched abilities and desires become, the more anxiety will grow, and whenever you see the excellence of others, the anxiety will get out of control.
3. Be at your own pace
Don't act for others to see,
Everyone's situation is different, so don't do what you do just because everyone around you is doing.
4. Be wary of "punch-in" efforts
It's like I copy books and punch in and share every day, but gradually I find that the joy of completing the task at the beginning is gradually replaced by the anxiety of worrying about not being able to punch the card.
I started clocking in for the sake of punching in, and I stopped paying attention to the content of the punch in itself.
Even in order to complete the task of copying books and punching cards, I copied it casually, not only did I not really learn anything, but also wasted time to complete the task.
There is nothing wrong with the act of punching in, and it can also play a certain role in motivating. It's just that we can't equate punching in with effective learning.
Therefore, if you want to be successful, you need to work hard, and any effort that is not heartfelt is a show. Real effort is down-to-earth, false effort is skyrocketing, the former brings gains, and the latter brings confusion. Give up the fake effort, and you will meet a better you.
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