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(Sun Tie's stills from "Xuanwumen")
In March 2024, the 41-episode historical drama "Xuanwumen" will be broadcast on Beijing Satellite TV, iQiyi, and Tencent Video at the same time, with an audience rating of more than 2.
The well-known actor Sun Tie played the "Big Knife King Five" in the play, which left a deep impression on the audience.
Sun Tie is the son of Siqin Gaowa, and his biological father is Sun Tianxiang, the director of the Inner Mongolia Film Studio. After his parents divorced, Sun Tie's father got married twice.
His father's bumpy marriage and violent temper hurt people and went to prison, which shattered Sun Tie's normal life and made him a little more suffering and vicissitudes than his peers......
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(Sun Tie with his mother and sister when he was a child)
Sun Tie was born in Inner Mongolia on July 11, 1972, and has been a lucky child since he was a child. This is mainly due to the fact that he has a star mother Siqin Gaowa and a director father Sun Tianxiang, who have attracted much attention since childhood.
But Sun Tie is another unfortunate child. The father was irritable, an alcoholic, often quarreled with his mother at home, and even had domestic violence.
Sun Tie grew up to 4 years old amid the quarrels and fights of his parents. In 1976, his parents divorced, Sun Tie was sentenced to his father, and his sister Sun Dan, who was 3 years older than him, was taken away by his mother.
Sun Tie misses his mother and often cries at home, and Sun Tianxiang beats his son when he sees him crying. Grandma protected Sun Tie and quarreled with her son.
After his parents divorced, Sun Tie lost his mother's love and father's love, and he felt very inferior in his heart.
(Siqin Gaowa and Pan Hong)
In 1978, when Sun Tie was 6 years old, his father remarried his colleague Xiao Yang. Xiao Yang is a lighting engineer at the Inner Mongolia Film Studio and is unmarried.
She had heard of Sun Tianxiang's violent temper, but she still had a beautiful fantasy about the future, so she married Sun Tianxiang despite her family's opposition.
After his father remarried, Sun Tie lived with his grandmother and rarely went to his father's house.
In 1979, Sun Tianxiang and his remarried wife gave birth to another son. Sun Tianxiang also wants to live a good life, but he can't control his temper, even if it is an inconsequential little thing, he will be angry at home.
Sun Tianxiang's temper was very terrifying, not only his words were sharp and hurtful, but he also threw things and beat people, and his wife lived in terror all day long.
(Sun Tianxiang's early work, "Mother Lake" was filmed in 1982)
In 1981, his wife decided to divorce Sun Tianxiang, and her son was also taken away by her.
At that time, Sun Tianxiang was only in his early 40s, and he was in the prime of a man, and he couldn't live the life of a bachelor. In 1982, he remarried a woman with the surname Fang.
The other party also has a history of marriage, and the children are not around. Sun Tianxiang originally wanted to have another child, but after marriage, the quarrel turned upside down, and the third wife refused to conceive and give birth to a baby for him.
When Sun Tianxiang quarreled with his wife at home, his grandmother often took Sun Tie to persuade him to fight. The grandmother scolded her son while cleaning up the messy living room. Sun Tie looked at his angry father and was very scared.
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(Sun Tie (front) and mother (back))
In 1985, Sun Tianxiang and his wife had a conflict over trivial matters. He was peeling apples with a fruit knife and stabbed his wife with a knife in impulse.
Ms. Fang called the police, and Sun Tianxiang was taken away by the police. Subsequently, Ms. Fang sued for divorce, and the court ruled that the two were divorced.
Not long after the marriage was dissolved, Sun Tianxiang was sentenced to five years in prison for intentional injury.
Overnight, Sun Tie's fate took a sharp turn: his mother Siqin Gaowa was married to Switzerland at this time, his father was in prison, and his grandmother was old, crying at home every day, and her eyes were almost blind.
(Siqin Gaowa and Chen Liangsheng)
At that time, Sun Tie was in junior high school, and his father was in prison, which made him suffer discrimination at school. His classmates rejected him, and his teachers looked at him differently.
Sometimes classmates bullied Sun Tie, and as soon as he resisted slightly, the other party scolded him as "the son of a criminal".
In such a difficult environment, Sun Tie had no heart to study, and his grades dropped sharply. He resented his father in his heart, because he completely shattered his life and subjected himself to discrimination.
In the snowy winter, Sun Tie stood in the snow and looked up to the sky and shouted: Why do I have such a father? Why does fate treat me like this? His eyes were full of tears, and the snowflakes fell on his head.
Grandma rushed out crying and pulled Sun Tie into the house, and the grandparents hugged each other and cried.
(Sun Tie (back) and his mother (front right))
When my father was serving a prison sentence in Inner Mongolia, my grandmother took Sun Tie to visit him twice. Sun Tie didn't want to see his father, so he stood at the door and didn't go in. The father called Sun Tie's name inside, he ran out crying, and when he walked to no one's place, Sun Tie squatted on the ground and cried bitterly.
In 1988, Sun Tie graduated from junior high school, but because of his poor grades, he was not admitted to high school and technical school. He was in a gloomy mood and longed to go to a place where no one knew him.
In October 1988, Sun Tie ignored his grandmother's dissuasion and went south to Shenzhen to work.
He didn't dare to mention that he was Siqin Gaowa's son, fearing that others would implicate his imprisoned father. Sun Tie did not say that he was from Inner Mongolia, and no one knew which northern province he was from.
(Sun Tie (right) when he was a doorman)
At that time, Shenzhen was at the forefront of reform and opening up, and there were many employment opportunities, but Sun Tie had no academic qualifications and no skills, so he could only engage in the lowest work in Shenzhen. He worked as a hotel doorman, a security guard in a factory delivery room, and delivered goods.
For a while, Sun Tie lived in the company's warehouse in order to save rent. For a few days, the warehouse was full of goods, and Sun Tie slept under the overpass.
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One day in 1990, Sun Tie had a high fever and had no money to go to the hospital. A Sichuan couple worked in a factory, and their income was also very low. Worried that Sun Tie would be in danger of having a high fever, he sent him to the hospital and paid him 600 yuan in advance for medical expenses.
(Sun Tie attends his sister's wedding)
600 yuan was not a small amount of money at that time, Sun Tie worked hard to earn money after being discharged from the hospital, and wanted to return 600 yuan to the kind couple.
But soon the couple went back to their hometown, and Sun Tie could no longer contact each other, and it is still a knot in his heart that he can't untie. In an interview, Sun Tie said with tears in his eyes: In my lifetime, I hope to find this kind couple.
In 1991, Sun Tianxiang was released from prison and returned to the Inner Mongolia Film Studio. But because he has a stain on his life, he has no chance to direct again. Due to poor health, Sun Tianxiang went through the retirement procedures ahead of schedule.
At that time, he had to take medication, support his mother, and he was not yet of retirement age and could not receive a pension. So Sun Tianxiang wrote a letter to Sun Tie, hoping that his son would come back, and the father and son would open a small restaurant.
(Sun Tie)
Sun Tie returned to Inner Mongolia from Shenzhen, and he and his father did not have start-up capital, so Sun Tie borrowed 30,000 yuan from his mother Siqin Gaowa.
Soon a small restaurant opened, Sun Tie stir-fried and made noodles, and his father was responsible for collecting money, washing dishes, and cleaning. Sun Tie's grandmother also often went to the small restaurant to help.
However, in 1994, the small restaurant closed down. At this time, Sun Tie was a 22-year-old man, and it was impossible for him to be unemployed at home, so he went to work as a salesman in a pharmaceutical factory in Chenzhou, Hunan.
This pharmaceutical factory produced gynecological pills, which was very popular at the time, and Sun Tie made some money.
(Sun Tie and his mother)
In the process of breaking into society, Sun Tie found that his junior high school education was too low. So in 1997, he went to study in Brussels, the capital of Belgium. During the day, Sun Tie attended classes at school and went to a Chinese restaurant to wash dishes at night.
In order to save money, Sun Tie rented a basement with six Chinese students. It was dark inside, there were mold spots in the corners, luggage and miscellaneous items were piled all over the floor, and rats crawled over their faces at night.
Switzerland is very close to Belgium, Siqingova went to see her son, and her son's living conditions made her can't help but burst into tears: if her son lived in a normal family, maybe he would have graduated from college and joined the workforce, and he would not be as embarrassed as he is now.
Siqin Gaowa tearfully gave her son some money, but Sun Tie didn't take it, and deep down he also had a grudge against his mother.
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(Sun Tie attended the press conference of "The Legend of Donggui Heroes")
In 1999, Sun Tie returned to China after studying abroad. At this time, his father, Sun Tianxiang, was old and haggard, and he had a hard time walking. Sun Tie's grandmother is old and incapable of taking care of her son, and the life of the mother and son is a mess.
At that time, Sun Tie was very confused and couldn't find his place in life. In 2001, under the recommendation of his mother, Sun Tie began to enter the film and television industry.
Although he was not born in a professional class, Sun Tie inherited his parents' excellent artistic genes. As long as he puts on the costume and the lights are played, he can quickly get into the role.
After going around and around for so many years, Sun Tie really realized that acting was the most suitable for him. Since then, Sun Tie has regarded acting as his profession.
(Sun Tie "Brothers and Brothers" stills)
In 2002, Sun Tianxiang had a cerebral infarction and was admitted to the hospital with the help of his neighbors. After first aid, Sun Tianxiang turned the corner, but his lower limbs were paralyzed, and since then Sun Tianxiang has been accompanied by a wheelchair and cannot take care of himself.
Two years later, Sun Tie's grandmother died of illness, and he had to pay for a nanny to take care of his father. When he is not filming, Sun Tie will rush back to Inner Mongolia to take care of his father.
Sun Tianxiang, who was in a wheelchair, became very vulnerable, and looking back on his bad life, he painfully realized that it was his character flaws that pushed him to this point. He not only hurt 3 good women, but also broke his son's life and made him taste the pain of life.
(Sun Tie and actor Liu Jinshan)
Sun Tianxiang tearfully apologized to his son: I'm sorry, I'm not a good father, and I didn't let you enjoy the warmth of the family. If my father had a better personality, you wouldn't have taken so many detours, and I regret it! If I could start my life all over again, I would definitely be a good husband and father, so that you could grow up in a loving family.
My father has a violent personality and never bows his head, even if he is wrong, he has to use strong words. Sun Tie was very surprised by his father's words, he couldn't believe that it came out of his father's mouth, and he couldn't help but burst into tears.
Sun Tie's support for his father was very financially burdened, and Siqin Gaowa supported her son financially many times. Sun Tie understood his mother's good intentions, and he used the money given by his mother to help his father treat his illness and buy medicine.
(Siqin Gaowa and daughter Sun Dan)
In 2004, Siqin Gaowa returned to Inner Mongolia to visit relatives and took her daughter Sun Dan to visit Sun Tianxiang. Sun Dan left her father since she was a child and did not enjoy her father's love, but seeing her father's old and haggard appearance in a wheelchair, her heart felt a tearing pain.
After that, Sun Dan and his younger brother Sun Tie supported their father and covered his various expenses.
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In 2007, Sun Tie was 35 years old. Because of filming and taking care of his paralyzed father, he didn't have the heart to fall in love and get married, and he was still single.
Sun Tianxiang was worried about his son's personal problems and often urged Sun Tie to find a partner.
(Sun Tie))
The breakdown of the original family made Sun Tie afraid of marriage, afraid that his marriage would be unhappy. After his father peeked into Sun Tie's heart, he confessed to him many times with tears.
Two years later, Sun Tianxiang died of illness. Bidding farewell to his father, Sun Tie couldn't help but burst into tears when he recalled his father's life.
In fact, Sun Tianxiang's fate was very sad, he was not born yet, and his father was killed by the Japanese invaders. Sun Tianxiang's mother was only 20 years old at the time, and she never got married again, so she raised Sun Tianxiang alone.
Sun Tianxiang grew up in such an unsound family, and his personality has obvious flaws. He has low self-esteem, a sensitive personality, and a short temper.
(Sun Tie)
Thinking of this, Sun Tie felt sympathy for his father, and his resentment towards his father disappeared in his heart.
After experiencing a lot of things, Sun Tie can better understand his father and understand his various difficulties and hardships. Every Father's Day, Sun Tie misses his father on Weibo, thinking back to the troubled years that the father and son have gone through, and there is an indescribable pain in his heart.
After his father died, Sun Tie transplanted all his love for his father to his mother. When the mother and son were filming together, Sun Tie worked as a life assistant for his mother.
（孙铁、斯琴高娃《房战》剧照）
When the mother and son cooperated in film and television dramas such as "National Lawsuit", "Blue Flower", "Mother", "My Best Mother", "House War", Sun Tie not only played his role well, but also took care of his mother's daily life. Sometimes Sun Tie has no drama, and he will go to the crew to take care of his mother.
Siqin Gaowa often enlightens her son to have a beautiful yearning for marriage, after all, there are still many happy couples in the world. She also told Sun Tie about her happy marriage with her daughter, hoping that her son would fall in love and get married as soon as possible.
A few years later, Sun Tie married a girl outside the circle and had a son of his own.
(Sun Tie)
(Sun Tie and his mother Siqin Gaowa)
After reading his father's love, Sun Tie no longer complained about it, and his heart was filled with emotion and gratitude. In 2024, Sun Tie will be 52 years old and will enter middle age in his life.
The competition in the workplace and the chaos of trivial matters in life make Sun Tie and his wife also have entanglements and contradictions. But Sun Tie can treat it calmly, in his opinion, there is no husband and wife in the world who do not quarrel, and every family will have small contradictions and small entanglements.
It is precisely because Sun Tie has experienced a lot of ups and downs and sadness in the process of growing up, that he will carry out his marriage to the end and not let his children repeat his mistakes.
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