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Growing up
The story of Siqin Gaowa originates from the vast grasslands of Inner Mongolia. She was born into a cross-ethnic family, with a Han father and a Manchu mother. In that vast prairie, Siqin Gaowa spent her childhood and accepted the simple and simple influence of nature.
However, fate is often good at making jokes. Just when Siqin Gaowa's youth was not yet fully blooming, her father left the west and left her. As the only seedling in the family, Siqin Gaowa can only be sad alone, trying to endure the pain of losing her father's love.
In order to reduce the burden on her family, she learned to run the housework and take care of her family from an early age, showing independence and strength beyond her years.
The years flew by, and Siqin Gaowa gradually grew into a slim girl. Although her appearance can hardly be regarded as a country and a city, her unique temperament is as attractive as a magnet and difficult to ignore.
It is with this trait that she was successfully selected for the local song and dance troupe and embarked on the first step to pursue her artistic dream.
After entering the song and dance troupe, Siqin Gaowa did not stop there. She still worked hard as before, painstakingly honed her acting skills, and finally waited for her own fate - to start her career.
In a blink of an eye, Siqin Gaowa has been in the art world for 45 years.
Although she did not win any awards in the first few years on the track of major domestic awards, this did not dampen her confidence and enthusiasm. On the contrary, Siqin Gaowa has created a variety of classic character images on the screen, from the dignified and noble Queen Xiaozhuang to the spicy and bold tiger girl, all of which are amazing.
Her delicate portrayal of the character's personality and her skill in presenting it perfectly are highly praised.
In general, Siqin Gaowa's pursuit of art is based on a unique and persistent heart. Although fate gave her a heavy blow when she was young, she was not crushed, but relied on tenacious perseverance to swim against the current and step by step towards the glorious stage.
Twists and turns in marriage
Siqin Gaowa's emotional road can be described as full of thorns, full of ups and downs and twists and turns. Her first husband, Sun Tianxiang, was a director at the Inner Mongolia Film Studio.
At the beginning, Siqin Gaowa's unique personal charm deeply attracted Sun Tianxiang, and the two met and fell in love, and finally entered the marriage hall.
However, the happy newlywed life was soon clouded. Siqin Gaowa gradually discovered that Sun Tianxiang was an extremely patriarchal man. Soon after marriage, she gave birth to a daughter Sun Dan for Sun Tianxiang.
Who would have thought that when her body had not fully recovered, Sun Tianxiang would force her to give birth to a boy again. Three years later, Siqin Gaowa finally gave birth to Sun Tie, she thought that the marriage would regain its brilliance, but she did not expect Sun Tianxiang's inferiority to become more and more serious at this time.
The quarrels between husband and wife continued one after another, and what made Siqin Gaowa feel extremely painful was that Sun Tianxiang often couldn't help waving his fists in those angry moments, showing his domestic violent side.
His mania affected not only Siqin Gaowa herself, but also the young children from time to time. Siqin Gaowa couldn't bear it anymore, and finally made up her mind to divorce Sun Tianxiang at the age of 26, but Sun Tianxiang hurt her again when she broke up.
It turned out that this patriarchal man handed over the custody of his son Sun Tie to Siqin Gaowa, but forcibly left his daughter Sun Dan behind. Siqin Gaowa had no choice but to take her daughter Sun Dan and leave the trampled homeland.
Since then, she and her son Sun Tie have fallen into a long estrangement.
After the divorce, Siqin Gaowa devoted most of her energy to career development. She has starred in a number of wonderful works, including the well-known TV series "Ode to Occupation", which has grown to fame.
At the same time, she also developed a high-profile "sister and brother love" with actor Ao Xingchen of the same age.
On the surface, Ao Xingchen is young and handsome, who would have thought that deep in his heart, there is also a stubborn machismo emotion, which is not inferior to Sun Tianxiang in the past.
Especially when Siqin Gaowa attracted a lot of attention because of the successful creation of the image of "Tiger Girl", Ao Xingchen felt pressured and was always vigilant whether Siqin Gaowa would get out of his control.
What's even more surprising is that when Ao Xingchen boldly proposed to Siqin Gaowa that she should be a surrogate, Siqin Gaowa refused without hesitation. This undoubtedly seems to have added a new trouble to Siqin Gaowa, who is already at the peak of her career.
She already has beloved children and doesn't want to waste precious time on the tedious process of giving birth.
Fierce conflicts and quarrels continued, and in the end, the marriage could not be maintained and went to an irreparable breakdown. Many years later, Siqin Gaowa admitted that she no longer has the vision of a happy marriage, because the road of affection is often full of thorns.
But fortunately, the man who really knew how to cherish and love her finally appeared in her life.
Nationality抉择
The man who really regarded Siqin Gaowa as a rare treasure was Chen Liangsheng, a wealthy businessman from Switzerland. It all started with a conversation between Siqin Gaowa and the well-known director Ling Zifeng.
Under Ling Zifeng's matchmaking, Siqin Gaowa and Chen Liangsheng became acquainted.
Who would have expected that when they met for the first time, Ling Zifeng would belittle Siqin Gaowa so much and confide in Chen Liangsheng about her various "shortcomings". He joked: "Although the lady in front of you is seventeen years younger than you, she has a very strong personality, her appearance is mediocre, and she has a bad habit of drinking and smoking, and has two failed marriages.
After hearing these words, any ordinary person may stay away from Siqin Gaowa. However, Chen Liangsheng was unexpectedly deeply attracted to her. In his eyes, Siqin Gaowa's unique and individualized temperament is far more valuable than her mediocre appearance.
As for her two divorced marriages and her habit of smoking and drinking, what does it matter?
What surprised Siqin Gaowa even more was that when she bluntly expressed her determination to give up giving up childbearing to Chen Liangsheng, the other party did not have any trouble, but on the contrary, said: "The child is not the core for me, all I care about is you, and I am willing to accept everything from you."
In this way, a poetic exotic love affair began. A year later, Siqin Gaowa and Chen Liangsheng tied the knot and entered the marriage hall. And on this special day, Chen Liangsheng made a promise to his wife Siqin Gaowa affectionately: "No matter when and where, I will love you for the rest of my life and be with you."
It is worth mentioning that Chen Liangsheng has lived in Switzerland for a long time and has already changed his nationality to become a Swiss citizen. In order to be able to better accompany her husband, Siqingova made a major choice - she resolutely renounced her Chinese nationality and followed her husband's example to become a Swiss citizen.
In this way, with her beloved daughter Sun Dan, Siqin Gaowa started a new life in Switzerland.
Surrounded by Chen Liangsheng's deep love, Siqin Gaowa regained her happiness and radiated unprecedented vitality. Her career has also achieved new breakthroughs and development in this marriage.
However, the good times did not last long, and when Siqin Gaowa returned to China to shoot a new work, she found that her son Sun Tie, who had no news at all, was trapped in the quagmire of poverty and lived a life of hard work and poverty.
Mother and Child Separation
Among Siqin Gaowa's two children, her relationship with her daughter Sun Dan has always been very harmonious. When she made the fateful decision to renounce her Chinese citizenship, Sun Dan did not hesitate to follow in her mother's footsteps and move to Switzerland with her.
The relationship between mother and daughter is so close.
However, in stark contrast is the relationship between Siqin Gaowa and her son Sun Tie. At the moment when Siqin Gaowa divorced her ex-husband Sun Tianxiang, she had to make a cruel choice - to take her daughter Sun Dan with her, and leave her son Sun Tie to Sun Tianxiang.
This decision laid the foundation for the relationship between the mother and son.
Since then, Sun Tie has buried a deep resentment towards his mother, Siqin Gaowa. Sun Tie, who was only 13 years old, had to live a helpless life.
In order to alleviate the financial pressure on his family, he even had to drop out of school early and step into the society to make a living. At the same time, Sun Tie saw that his sister Sun Dan's quality of life was much superior, which made him feel more and more aggrieved and angry.
In Sun Tie's impression, his mother Siqin Gaowa is a woman who has always been ruthless and unrighteous, she cruelly abandoned herself, but she loved Sun Dan a lot. This resentment hidden in the depths of his heart has accompanied Sun Tie for many years.
Many years later, when Siqin Gaowa learned the truth, she took Sun Tie back to her side. However, the estrangement and wounds that have accumulated for too long are like appendages, which cannot be easily removed.
No matter how Siqin Gaowa explained and comforted her, the pain in Sun Tie's heart had already been deeply imprinted.
After a long time, Sun Tie gradually grew up. He saw that his sister Sun Dan was married to a French gentleman, lived a prosperous life, and even opened a restaurant with a good reputation.
In contrast, his situation is bleak, and grievances and frustrations arise spontaneously. His resentment towards his mother is also accumulating, and it is difficult to smooth the scars in his heart.
Fortunately, Sun Dan has been trying to mediate between her mother and younger brother. After all kinds of twists and turns, Siqin Gaowa and Sun Tie finally made some breakthroughs.
Under the guidance of his mother, Sun Tie got involved in the business world, and occasionally made cameo roles in the crew. Until Sun Tie's wedding day, Siqin Gaowa bought a mansion for him in Beijing as a wedding room, and personally hosted a luxurious wedding.