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Time flies, time flies, and decades have passed in the blink of an eye. He Qingkui sat on the chair, his face was haggard, and his eyes could not hide his sorrow. Recalling the entanglement with Zhao Benshan and Gao Xiumin many years ago, he couldn't help but sigh.
That period of time full of joys, sorrows and sorrows, like a wonderful drama, slowly unfolded in He Qingkui's mind. None of the three of them could have imagined that a breakdown of their friendship would turn them from close partners into rivals.
Zhao Benshan's eyes were full of apologies, and he slowly spoke: "Actually, there is no real contradiction between us, just because each other's tempers are a little irritable, and it is difficult to turn the corner for a while.
As soon as the words fell, he turned his head and looked at He Qingkui warmly, and his tone was sincere: "Don't dwell on this issue, let's stop writing and ink for a while, rest assured, I will take care of you until you retire."
Hearing this, He Qingkui's eyes couldn't help but moisten. Yes, how meaningless the grievances of the past were, if we had woken up today, why did we have to come to such a point in the first place? But everything has passed, and the important thing is to let go of the mustard and regain friendship.
In 1982, Gao Xiumin, a talented 23-year-old female artist, joined the Buyeo Civic Art Troupe. Since she was a child, she has shown extraordinary artistic talent, practiced diligently in the troupe, humbly sought advice, and soon made a name for herself in the art world with her outstanding acting skills.
In less than a few years, she was promoted to the deputy head of the art troupe in one fell swoop, and won the glorious title of national second-class actor.
Since then, Gao Xiumin has paid close attention to He Qingkui's development, and the two have formed a deep friendship. It is with Gao Xiumin's encouragement and support that He Qingkui finally opened up his popularity in the industry with his self-written script "Who Marries Whom".
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, in 2005, Gao Xiumin, who was a household name, passed away unexpectedly, and she passed away at the age of 43. This bad news undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to Zhao Benshan.
On the day of Gao Xiumin's funeral, Zhao Benshan burst into tears, his tone was choked, and he sighed: "Sister, my brother is too late."
Back in 1997, Zhao Benshan, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui were called the "Golden Triangle" of the sketch industry, and they were at the golden peak of their careers.
At that time, their masterpieces such as "New Year's Greetings", "Selling Abduction", "Selling Cars" and "Heart Disease" all shined in the Spring Festival Gala.
These works have won the highest first prize in the small category of the Spring Festival Gala for many years, which can be described as a powerful situation.
However, just as their careers took off and fame and fortune were reaping, cracks began to appear in the relationship between the three. The crux of the matter lies in the distribution of income. Gao Xiumin was deeply dissatisfied with Zhao Benshan's practice of giving Fan Wei a meager remuneration, frowned, and accused with hatred: "I earned 35,000 yuan by cooperating with Fan Wei, and I am willing to share 15,000 yuan equally."
Zhao Benshan retorted confidently: "What I gave him is already rich enough! Don't worry about it."
Similar disagreements continued for several years, and finally ignited the fuse in a dispute in 2003.
The situation escalated, and Zhao Benshan had a serious problem with Gao Xiumin. In 2004, although he initially arranged for Gao Xiumin to play the heroine of "The Water Deliverer", he soon betrayed his word and handed over this role to Song Dandan.
In desperation, Gao Xiumin could only reluctantly cooperate and play a small role as a green leaf. When faced with questions from the media, she explained with grievances: "Originally, the heroine was Song Dandan, but Brother Benshan said that he wanted me to play it, and as a green leaf role, of course I fully supported it."
In this way, the relationship between Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan broke down completely. He Qingkui also followed, and the three parted ways and never cooperated again.
Faced with the heavy blows of Fan Wei and Gao Xiumin's departure one after another, Zhao Benshan unexpectedly seemed calm and calm. He knows that he already has unrivaled market appeal and influence, just like a banner fluttering in the wind, and will set off a crazy pursuit boom wherever he goes.
With this self-confidence, he is not too worried about the problem of brain drain.
As a result, Zhao Benshan began to actively recruit rookies and formed the "Zhao Family Class", which later attracted much attention. Every year, he attaches great importance to the disciple recruitment activity and prepares it very grandly.
Zhao Benshan will sincerely and respectfully worship the master, offer the fragrant and fragrant tea, and give a variety of precious gifts, treating every new apprentice as his own.
To outsiders, he was like a kind father, courteous and polite, teaching these rising stars step by step. It is rumored that Zhao Benshan has a very close relationship with his apprentices, and everyone affectionately calls him "father".
Sure enough, under the leadership of Zhao Benshan, a master in the sketch industry, a number of new stars such as Xiao Shenyang, Yadan, Song Xiaobao, Wang Xiaoli, Sun Chunrong and other talents came one after another, all of them showed extraordinary talents, and won widespread love and popularity among the audience in a short period of time.
Even if some apprentices, such as Cao Yunjin, once chose to run away irresponsibly, Zhao Benshan was never annoyed and angry because of this, and still responded generously and gently: "Although I have many apprentices, I have never been willing to reprimand or give up any of the students until today.
However, as time passed, the contradictions within the Zhao family class gradually surfaced. The actor's wife, who played the role of "Liu Neng", publicly confided in her dissatisfaction, bluntly saying that even if they appear in TV series, they can only get a fixed salary every month, and there is no additional remuneration.
Ge Shanshan, an outstanding actor who plays "Wang Yun", also complained about living in poverty, with a monthly salary only enough to maintain basic expenses, and even struggling to repay the mortgage. What made Zhao Benshan most helpless was that Xiao Shenyang, who was regarded as his most proud protégé, also began to have some contradictions and estrangements with his master.
In the blink of an eye, in 2009, Zhao Benshan suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and was on the verge of death. This crisis undoubtedly dealt him a heavy blow, and also gave him a new understanding and thinking about life and career.
This experience seemed to put him in a ghost gate and gained a new understanding and understanding of life.
Just as Zhao Benshan was gradually coming out of the trough of his life, the mourning day for the fourth anniversary of Gao Xiumin's death was also belated. On this special day, he and He Qingkui regained the opportunity to cooperate in a few years, and the two took the opportunity of cooperating in the TV series "Country Love 3" to alleviate the estrangement and mustard accumulated over the years.
On the other hand, the relationship between Zhao Benshan and his former good partner Fan Wei has finally begun to take a turn for the better. Time flies, and finally in 2020, the old friends worked together again and co-starred in the TV series "Liu Laogen 3".
Although the pain of clutch cost the three of them dearly, in the end, they let go of their former mustard and regained the spark of friendship with understanding and tolerance.
For the three of them, the grudge entanglement was indeed a psychological baggage, but fortunately, after going through difficult years, they finally regained their original friendship and tacit understanding.
Resolving the former hatred with tolerance and empathy, and regaining the opportunity to cooperate in an understanding way, is the best way to untie the knot.
Looking back, conflicts of interest are often the root cause of grievances. The three of them were able to finally put down the mustard and regain their old friendship. Looking at the countless readers, it is not difficult for us to find that everywhere is full of competing interests and wrestling, people will do whatever it takes to pursue interests, and eventually everything will turn into a gossip in the world.
In this difficult and touching time, the three of them supported each other and spurred each other on, and they came through this long road. As Zhao Benshan said: "People often need to know how to forgive and tolerate each other.
"Yes, empathy, hatred, and love to resolve contradictions, right and wrong, this is the most precious quality in life.