In 2005, Gao Xiumin, who had intervened in other people's families and lived with He Qingkui for 14 years, unfortunately passed away at home due to myocardial infarction, which ended his 46-year life.
thought that why Qingkui would be in a slump, but he didn't think that he would return to his wife Zhang Yanru with a few sadness, but when everyone scolded him for 19 years, an ordinary photo washed away his grievances and made him reverse his reputation again.
However, what makes everyone deeply puzzled is why Zhang Yanru is not the wife of Qingkui who is extremely resentful of Gao Xiumin, and why does he still set up a mourning hall for the "little three" at home?
Romance that goes against the world
This year's Qingming Festival is really lively, Feng Gong posed to pay tribute to his teacher, and then He Qingkui visited his lover with tears. It has been almost 20 years since Gao Xiumin passed away, and He Qingkui still can't let go of the love in his heart.
On the day of the Qingming Festival, some netizens took a photo of He Qingkui going to sweep the tomb, only to see him dusting off the statue of Gao Xiumin with his hands in grief, his eyes were full of tenderness and love, and the once beautiful memories seemed to resurface in front of him.
Maybe some people can't understand He Qingkui's actions, or maybe some people can't agree with Gao Xiumin's desperate love before his death, but no matter how loving they are, after all, it is against the world's view of marriage, after all, it is not a glorious thing for Xiao San to get involved.
As early as when Gao Xiumin met He Qingkui, he already knew that he already had a wife. At that time, He Qingkui had a lot of skills but was not appreciated by Bole, so he could only make a living by selling fish, and occasionally write scripts for others to earn extra money.
It is precisely because of this that he and his wife Zhang Yanru were able to support their three children.
It's just that Maxima will always meet Bole, and Gao Xiumin, who is already famous, attaches great importance to his writing, and after understanding him, he learned that the two of them are fellow countrymen, so Gao Xiumin wants to pull him in his career no matter what.
So He Qingkui also successfully came to work in the troupe, with this platform to display his talents, he cherished it very much, and also created a lot of excellent works, which not only realized his own value, but also successfully let Gao Xiumin walk on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
It can be said that one of them can write and the other can act, and they are definitely a good pair in their careers, but with the development of time, the previous relationship between the two began to deteriorate and gradually sublimated to love.
This kind of involuntarily makes them fall into the whirlpool of love and can't extricate themselves, but the world also knows that He Qingkui's wife is also the one who accompanied him all the way, even if she lives to the point of eating chaff vegetables, she still does not give up.
What's more, there are three children between them, which is destined to make the relationship between Gao He and the two unable to be recognized by the world, but He Qingkui seems to have made up his mind to divorce his wife and be with Gao Xiumin.
However, Zhang Yanru loves him too much, it was at the beginning, and it is still now, no matter what conditions He Qingkui talks about, she never agrees, but the fact that her husband cheated on her, she couldn't keep people by force, so she left this place with her children in desperation.
He Qingkui was full of incomprehension when he saw this scene, he didn't know why he didn't love her anymore, why she never divorced, so his wife ran away from home, He Qingkui didn't feel the slightest guilt.
Next, he ignored his wife and children, turned his head and lived with Gao Xiumin, and even lasted for fourteen years until Gao Xiumin died.
It is worth mentioning that Gao Xiumin also had a failed marriage and a child, but He Qingkui likes to take care of this child very much, and can say what he wants to buy.
It was also with Gao Xiumin that He Qingkui's career ushered in a climax.
The pinnacle of the career, back together
In 1994, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui founded a joint venture together, although this relationship was not favored by the world, but the two of them didn't care, and they swaggered to live their own small life.
Although He Qingkui is a person with "bad morals", he is first-class in terms of talent, because the script is well written enough, and he was still favored by Zhao Benshan, the king of sketches who was all the rage at that time, and intended to cooperate with him.
After receiving Zhao Benshan's invitation, He Qingkui did not immediately agree, but had to add one, that is, to accept Gao Xiumin as well. Fortunately, Zhao Benshan admired Gao Xiumin's ability before, and he immediately agreed to this agreement.
After that, He Qingkui wrote the script, Zhao Benshan cooperated with Gao Xiumin and Fan Wei many times, and they brought a lot of laughter to everyone on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, such as "Selling Abduction", "Water Delivery" and "New Year's Greetings" and other excellent works.
At the same time that Zhao Benshan was on fire, it also made Gao He and the others earn a lot of money, it can be said that He Qingkui has completely turned over this time, and Gao Xiumin has also successfully jumped to the national first-class actor, and his future is immeasurable.
But on the other hand, Zhang Yanru and her children's lives, they have been running around all these years, and their lives are very poor, because they really have no money, and the three children dropped out of school early to work hard in society.
Maybe it's because of the guilt in her heart, after Gao Xiumin learned the news, she would often visit Zhang Yanru, give money and gifts desperately, even if she was thrown out by Zhang Yanru and the children, she would be the same as always.
At first, Zhang Yanru and the children were very repulsive to Gao Xiumin, after all, if she was not in it, their lives must be a little better, but as Gao Xiumin funded the three children to start their own companies and introduced famous art masters, they gradually accepted her when they saw that life was getting better and better.
When He Qingkui learned about this, he was also very relieved, feeling that he had returned to before, but the roles were reversed. Unfortunately, these good days soon came to an end.
Set up a mourning hall for the "little three".
In 2005, He Qingkui was sued by his fellow countrymen in court, so he had to rush back to his hometown overnight to deal with the matter, and as his eldest son, He Shuchun, also heard the news and thought about going home to see if he could help.
Who knows, he died in a car accident on the road, which made He Qingkui, who was having a headache in the lawsuit, have to withdraw from Zhang Luo's eldest son's funeral, and he has to prevent Gao Xiumin from knowing.
But there is an impermeable wall, Gao Xiumin still knew in advance, because she has a serious heart disease, she has to be busy dealing with work these days, and why Shuchun Zhang Luo's aftermath, a few days of continuous rotation, the body can't bear it.
On August 18, Gao Xiumin finally arrived, had a recurrence of heart disease, and died before He Qingkui could be by his side. A few blows in a row made He Qingkui have a lot more gray hair overnight.
But after calming down, he thought that there was a woman who was as painful as himself, and after thinking about it again and again, he decided to take on the responsibility of a husband and return to Zhang Yanru to take care of her.
Zhang Yanru did not feel joy when she learned the news of Gao Xiumin's death, on the contrary, she was also grief-stricken, to say that she was a "little three", it was better to say that she was a relative, Zhang Yanru had already put down the past to accept Gao Xiumin.
For this reason, she also asked the child to wear linen and filial piety for her, and even set up her mourning hall in her own home to show comfort. Although Zhang Yanru has never been able to win her husband's heart, seeing her children have won a bright future may also be another sense of happiness.
Now that Gao Xiumin has been dead for 19 years, He Qingkui still hasn't forgotten it in his heart, but he has swept his grave in Qingming to relieve the pain of lovesickness, and it is not in vain that Gao Xiumin loved him desperately before his death.
The author thinks
Although He Qingkui was ashamed of his wife in his life, he finally took on this responsibility in his own way, buried his lover in his heart, and took care of his wife and children, which is worth celebrating.
It's just that I still have to remind everyone that marriage is not love, just divide it, and take on the responsibilities that should be borne in the role of marriage, and not only care about your own joys and sorrows, especially if you have children, it can't affect their lives.
Resources
Gao Xiumin - Baidu Encyclopedia
CCTV - Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui are guests of artistic life
CCTV Network - CCTV - Variety Channel - Art Life
China News Network - He Qingkui has never divorced his wife Zhang Yanru and once wanted to repair a monument for Gao Xiumin