Gao Xiumin's name is well-known in the sketch world, since the Spring Festival Gala in 2001, she has entered this stage with her sincerity every time, making us all laugh!
As the saying goes, "Behind every successful man there is a great woman." But in Gao Xiumin, it's the opposite, and the man behind her success is He Qingkui.
He Qingkui before meeting Gao Xiumin
He Qingkui is a well-known talent in the screenwriting industry today, and this title is not easy to get. When he was a child, he was naughty and mischievous, and he was proficient in everything.
He was born in a rural family in Jilin, and his father was old and fond of him, but his body has always been very thin and weak, and he does not grow meat when he eats anything.
And he is very naughty, often disappearing in the middle of class, running outside to catch crickets, and when he grows up a little, he will work with the production team.
In the production team, he was still the one who couldn't do anything, he couldn't carry it on his shoulders, he couldn't lift it in his hands, and in the end he could only be arranged to mow the grass, and he couldn't cut the grass well, and he almost let the sickle poke his chin.
Don't look at his bad work, but He Qingkui has had a literary heart since he was a child, and he is particularly interested in the troupe's acting and script creation.
When his father found out, he didn't oppose him, but found a way to send him to the local theater troupe and let him perform and study everywhere with the troupe.
During this period, He Qingkui began to try to write scripts and create jokes, and his talent was soon discovered, and his works were also liked by everyone, and they were also published in newspapers.
Later, He Qingkui enlisted in the army and became a soldier, and three years later, he transferred home and continued to perform and create in a small troupe.
It was also at this time that he met his wife Zhang Yanru. Back then, He Qingkui was still a young man in the troupe, while Zhang Yanru was a female intellectual.
These two people, one can act, the other is smart and capable, just looked at the right eye and sparked a spark of love.
After getting married, their lives were very hard, but Zhang Yanru's support for He Qingkui never decreased. She knew that He Qingkui had a screenwriter's dream in her heart, so she encouraged him to continue creating, even if the family couldn't open the pot, she never complained.
Until one day, Gao Xiumin went to the vegetable market to buy fish, saw He Qingkui, and learned that the two were fellow villagers, He Qingkui was also very good at writing scripts, so he offered to let him help write the script, and gave him a high salary.
In this way, He Qingkui took out his "housekeeping skills" to write the script for Gao Xiumin's team, and slowly, He Qingkui made great achievements in creation, and his reputation became bigger and bigger.
At this time, He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin communicated more and more frequently, creating and performing together, and their relationship became deeper and deeper.
All this was seen by Zhang Yanru in her eyes and hurt in her heart, He Qingkui decided to give up this wife who accompanied him to endure hardships in order to pursue his love with Gao Xiumin.
She knew that her husband's heart no longer belonged to hers, but she still insisted on not divorcing, but took her children to live in another city.
Before Gao Xiumin met He Qingkui
Since she was a child, Gao Xiumin has been a Northeast girl, bold and humorous, she loves singing and dancing, and stands on the stage to show her talent whenever she has the opportunity.
At that time, she was like a bright star, shining in the crowd.
In a selection opportunity, Gao Xiumin joined a local folk group and began her two-person acting career, and her acting talent and unique style were quickly recognized by the audience.
However, on the way to pursue her dreams, she also experienced repeated failures.
Because of the poor family conditions, she dropped out of school very early and started working to earn money, because she was too thin, she was always rejected by the regular literary and artistic groups, and after several twists and turns, she began to emerge.
Gao Xiumin also met her first husband Li Yunqi, and the two gave birth to a lovely daughter - Li Xuan.
But Gao Xiumin's fame is getting bigger and bigger, her career is thriving, and she wants to seize any precious opportunity to realize her dream of acting, which makes her unable to balance her family and career.
After a period of time, the emotional rift between Gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi gradually expanded, and the two finally chose to divorce.
It was at this critical moment that He Qingkui walked into Gao Xiumin's life.
The two are like soul mates, they have a common pursuit and concept in art, and they are both attracted by each other's talents, and they have begun an extraordinary emotional journey.
He Qingkui, Gao Xiumin, and Zhang Yanru have a complex triangular relationship
On the one hand, there is the original wife who is in the same boat through thick and thin, accompanying He Qingkui to live a hard life, and on the other side is the soul mate who has a common heart and attracts each other, how should He Qingkui choose?
He still chose Gao Xiumin, his soul mate, and decided to divorce his wife, Zhang Yanru was really heartbroken, but she resolutely refused to divorce, and finally left with her children.
In this way, He Qingkui put aside the world and lived with Gao Xiumin for 14 years, and this relationship was a common thing to be judged by everyone at that time.
They withstood all kinds of public opinion, and still presented a good work to the audience, but Zhang Yanru was not so lucky......
She lived a hard life with her children alone, she couldn't afford to pay the tuition, and the children could only drop out of school early, but no one expected that Gao Xiumin would help them.
When Gao Xiumin went to find Zhang Yanru at the beginning, the two were very unhappy, Zhang Yanru hated her very much, but Gao Xiumin went several times and helped her children arrange work.
Slowly, their relationship seems to have eased, and the children began to accept Gao Xiumin, but this "good scene" lasted for a short time......
Because He Qingkui was reported for plagiarism, he hurried back to solve it, and his son hurried home to help when he learned the news, but on the way, he was taken away by a ruthless car accident.
After Gao Xiumin learned about it, she rushed to help as soon as possible, but the high-intensity work and arrangement knocked her down, and the sudden heart attack made the 46-year-old Gao Xiumin leave forever.
In just ten days, He Qingkui lost his eldest son and confidante, and this continuous blow also made him sad.
After grief, He Qingkui still chose to return to his family with Zhang Yanru, even so, he still misses Gao Xiumin, which has not changed for so many years.
Zhang Yanru has achieved real "greatness"
Many people said why He Qingkui treated her like this, and in the end he still accepted He Qingkui's return to the family?
It is not so much that Zhang Yanru forgave him, but that she did not close the door and waited for her husband who was away from her home for many years, is it really worth it? The person who won He Qingkui never won his heart.
It can only be said that even a mediocre-looking man has talent, humor, and women's popularity. For the sake of a man, two women both acquiesced to each other's existence, and others couldn't easily judge it.
In fact, love is sometimes like this, I believe that He Qingkui really loves Gao Xiumin, and he really feels that he owes his wife, so he can only say that he is a person with deep affection.
After He Qingkui was tired of returning to the nest and living with his original partner for ten years, Zhang Yanru was gone, and since then, this person who has written wonderful scripts and has wonderful stories has begun to live in his old age.
Although he is old, he looks more comfortable than when he was younger. He will remember Gao Xiumin every year, which is really worthy of awe, maybe love is supreme in his heart.
It can only be said that some people can always get a good script, but the two women who are linked to He Qingkui are not considered to have a good script.
In the previous era, there were many women like Zhang Yanru, and many netizens felt worthless for her, but this is Zhang Yanru's own choice, there must be her own reasons, what do you think?
Text/Editor: Crayon Xiaoxi
Resources
Gao Xiumin - Baidu Encyclopedia
CCTV - Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui are guests of artistic life
CCTV Network - CCTV - Variety Channel - Art Life
China News Network - He Qingkui has never divorced his wife Zhang Yanru and once wanted to repair a monument for Gao Xiumin