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He is a national first-class screenwriter and an excellent actor and producer.
During his four years of working at CCTV, 6 sketches won the first prize and 5 sketches won the second prize.
He is He Qingkui, who is known as the "ghost screenwriter" and "godfather of sketches".
Everyone thought that he and the "sketch performance artist" Gao Xiumin were husband and wife, and the two had shared a bed for 14 years.
However, after the relationship was exposed, they actually said that the two were just an "ordinary" couple.
Until Gao Xiumin closed his eyes, he couldn't get a proper name.
He Qingkui was even "scolded" by the audience for being incomplete.
Now that it has been 19 years since Gao Xiumin passed away, He Qingkui has achieved a "reputation reversal" because of the tomb sweeping.
Is there still a "secret" between them that we don't know?
1. Dreams from the depths of the "mountains".
He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin's fate is destined by God, both of them were born in Fuyu City, Jilin Province.
The difference is that the age difference between the two is 12 years, and there are many gaps in life experience.
He Qingkui's family is not wealthy, and he used to be a fisherman.
Later, when I grew up, I realized that I should use knowledge to change my fate and make my life better.
So he helped his father with fishing while studying hard.
Maybe it's because you have to put a lot of thought into fishing, and you have to be flexible.
I don't know when it began, He Qingkui's thinking became very "strange".
When he solves a problem, he always thinks of something that others can't understand, but it works unexpectedly well.
As he grew older, He Qingkui discovered his talent in screenwriting.
So he decided to do his best to get a suitable job.
It is said that "Huang Tian lives up to his hard work", He Qingkui entered Dongliao County as a full-time screenwriter after unremitting persistence and hard work.
It was from then that He Qingkui officially came into contact with screenwriters.
He knows that this job is not easy to come by, and he must cherish it.
So during his work, he takes every minute seriously and keeps learning from the people around him.
But the reality was always cruel, and he didn't stay there for long.
No matter how hard he tried, there was no way to see his results, and no one knew of his existence.
In order to let more people see his script, he had to quit his job and strive for more opportunities on his own.
In order to support his life, he had to do his old job, creating while fishing.
However, the ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, and things are not as simple as he imagined.
Until He Qingkui was 30 years old, he failed to achieve anything.
If it weren't for the fact that he met "Bole" Gao Xiumin, we wouldn't know the person "He Qingkui".
In 1988, He Qingkui met sketch actor Gao Xiumin while fishing.
That year, Gao Xiumin was already a national second-class actor and won a lot of awards.
While the two were chatting, Gao Xiumin learned that He Qingkui was a screenwriter.
It just so happened that Gao Xiumin at that time encountered a bottleneck period and needed someone to provide her with inspiration.
So he spent money to "buy" He Qingkui's script, and the two became friends since then.
Maybe it's because both of them have complete families, and they didn't have other feelings when they first met.
But as time went on, the two communicated more and more closely at work.
The air between them has also become more ambiguous, and many people have begun to doubt their feelings.
Finally in 1992, He Qingkui became popular all over the country with "Burden".
At the same time, his relationship with Gao Xiumin has also gone to the next step.
2. "Little Guo Lanying", "Ghost Screenwriter" and the original "Dog Blood" plot
He Qingkui is already a blockbuster, and he has stood firm in the sketch class with only one sketch.
For this, he also won the first prize in the National Sketch Competition, which also opened up a new avenue for his acting career.
In the entertainment industry, you often encounter people who are proud in the workplace and frustrated in love, but He Qingkui is different.
While the screenwriter's career is successful, sweet love has also come to the door.
In 1992, Gao Xiumin ended her 14-year marriage and was alone with her daughter.
After seeing Gao Xiumin resume his single life, He Qingkui's heart also changed.
His feelings for the current one became erratic and he didn't know who to choose.
Perhaps because of work, He Qingkui is often away from home.
Gradually, there was an estrangement between him and his wife, and he had no time to spend with his children.
He had no choice but to push his wife Zhang Yanru on the grounds that he was busy with work.
But He Qingkui has always had a voice in his heart: It was Gao Xiumin who made herself, and he couldn't live up to her.
After a long period of hesitation and wandering, He Qingkui still chose Gao Xiumin.
Although Gao Xiumin's daughter is 7 years old and she has never called her father, He Qingkui doesn't care.
If you can be with Gao Xiumin, it doesn't matter what happens.
It's a pity that his wife Zhang Yanru is an "infatuated species", and she swears to defend her love.
Such a "hard" triangular relationship made He Qingkui very big, which made him in a dilemma.
In desperation, he chose Gao Xiumin.
Since the wife is unwilling to divorce herself, then they have been in a stalemate and ignore it.
Later, netizens also discovered the relationship between He Qingkui and his wife and Gao Xiumin.
Because of this incorrect choice, He Qingkui was accused by netizens for a long time.
At the height of the situation, I almost suffered from "emotional illness".
But He Qingkui still persevered, as long as he could make Gao Xiumin happy, it didn't matter how others "attacked" him.
There are still many netizens who don't know the truth who think that he is very infatuated and wholeheartedly treats Gao Xiumin.
Even on the stage, you can see his love for Gao Xiumin.
Such days have been insisted on for 14 years, and Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui have brought many excellent works to everyone.
Now we can still see Gao Xiumin's shadow in the sketch.
But everyone has to face birth, old age, sickness and death, and Gao Xiumin is no exception.
In 2005, she died of a myocardial infarction forever.
Went to a far away place and never came back.
However, the saddest thing is not her daughter Li Xuan, but He Qingkui.
He Qingkui lived with her for 14 years, and did not give her a name.
Even if outsiders ask about their relationship, it can only be said that it is a "couple relationship".
Even Gao Xiumin's daughter said that she was very optimistic about the relationship between her mother and her "uncle".
It's a shame that they didn't get their marriage certificates.
From Li Xuan's point of view, He Qingkui loves his mother very much.
Even more than their own biological father, there are very few people who can do this.
The marriage of He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin has also become a big regret in the hearts of the audience.
Perhaps out of guilt for Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui would "visit" her every year and sweep her grave.
During the Qingming Festival in 2024, we saw He Qingkui in front of Gao Xiumin's tomb.
It turned out that he would visit Gao Xiumin every year, and he insisted on it for 19 years.
Now that he is 76 years old, he can still strengthen his feelings, isn't it worth learning from everyone?
As for those who are not optimistic about their feelings, it is also time to let go.
Life is a short few decades, so why not choose the way you like to spend your life?
I hope everyone can live their ideal life.
The nameless relationship between Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui has touched countless people.
Love aside, Gao Xiumin has been contributing to his acting career all his life.
She deserves everyone's respect and admiration, and is an example for everyone to follow.
It is said that after getting older, the person who "walks" is more painful.
Seeing He Qingkui's personal experience, I found out that this is the case.
We should enjoy life while the people we like are around.
In the event of a conflict between husband and wife, they should communicate in time to avoid leaving regrets in life.
I hope that everyone can be united with their loved ones forever and grow old.
Information sources:
[1] Gao Xiumin Baidu Encyclopedia
[2] He Qingkui Baidu Encyclopedia
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