Which is more important, family and friends, or career?
When you are in the middle of a problem, you may not be able to make a good choice
But if we take the perspective of a bystander, look at the legendary Zhao Benshan who has experienced the death of countless friends.
Can everyone feel the meaning of "parting" from Zhao Benshan's grief?
Although his son died and his friend had a sudden accident, Zhao Benshan was heartbroken.
But there have been times when he faced death, and he untied the knot with his friends for many years......
The white-haired people who have experienced countless times send the black-haired people, and we don't make too many comments on other places.
But in terms of emotion, Zhao Benshan can also be regarded as a hard-working person.
Most of everyone's impressions of Zhao Benshan's family only stay on his pair of children. Especially his daughter Qiuqiu, although she is not engaged in her father's industry, she is also thriving in the circle of Internet celebrities.
But what everyone doesn't know is that before having their pair of dragon and phoenix twins, in his last marriage, there was a son and a daughter. You may wonder why you rarely hear from your ex-wife, even if they are also biological children?
It turns out that behind all this, there is a sad story.
The eldest son born to Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen should have been favored by the whole family, but he didn't expect that God didn't seem to be very fair to him.
As soon as he was born, he found that the child seemed to be unable to respond to the calls of adults, and later found out that he was a deaf and dumb child.
And this period is not the worst, in addition to being born deaf and dumb, Zhao Benshan's eldest son Zhao Tiedan has also been diagnosed with hypochondria and emphysema.
For all this, Zhao Benshan had no choice but to increase the frequency of performing outside to make money to see a doctor for his children.
But later, for some reason, the marriage of ex-wife Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Benshan came to an end. Although Zhao Benshan did not fight for the custody of the two children, he also tried his best to compensate the mother and son.
He left his house, car and other property to his ex-wife and children, and also gave them a lump sum of alimony and money for their son's medical treatment.
But I didn't expect these to last to the end, in the cold winter of 1994, Zhao Benshan's eldest son still couldn't survive looking for iron eggs, and finally left forever because of a sudden heart attack.
Although Zhao Benshan has not lived with his ex-wife and the children born to his ex-wife for so many years after the divorce, it is his own blood after all. It must be very painful.
It's just that I don't want to see this possibility, but I have expected it for a long time. But the unexpected death of a friend around him, Zhao Benshan also experienced a lot.
Zhao Benshan has received countless apprentices in his life, and all of them are also malleable talents, although they are slightly inferior under the cover of the light of the master Zhao Benshan, but if they are brought out alone, they will be able to break out of the sky.
And Zhang Xiaoguang, an apprentice that Zhao Benshan attaches great importance to, starred in TV series under the leadership of his master, and appeared in the movie to brush his face.
What everyone didn't expect was that with the efforts of his master, Zhang Xiaoguang was still tepid and failed to let more audiences recognize him.
But who knew that the accident in 2016 made the people of the whole country feel sorry, and at the same time, Zhang Xiaoguang also paid for his own careful thinking and paid his precious life.
In 2016, Zhang Xiaoguang rode his motorcycle in a chic manner and ran on the road.
Who knew that when he was about to pass through an ETC channel, he inexplicably had the idea of taking advantage. When the vehicle in front of me has not passed through the consumption station, he sneaks to the side and prepares to escape the order when the staff is not paying attention.
Who ever wanted to be smart but was mistaken by being smart, and before he could leave completely, the pole of the toll gate fell down and smashed on Zhang Xiaoguang's body. In the end, he died because of his injuries, and his departure surprised too many people.
No matter how popular he is, after all, he is an actor, and he really doesn't even have dozens of yuan for travel expenses.
Now it's good to lose his life for this little bit of petty profit, and it's really not worth it to let his relatives and friends grieve for him.
is also a car accident, if Zhang Xiaoguang is to blame, the death of the well-known "Xie Dajiao" Yu Yuexian is even more pity and sorrow.
Yu Yuexian, as an actress who has been underestimated by countless Chinese audiences, was outstanding in her early years and participated in the filming of countless TV series, but she has always been unknown.
Coupled with personal personality reasons, in this huge entertainment industry, he is unwilling to deliberately please others, so as to gain the support of others.
But all this is not worth mentioning in front of his family, although Yu Yuexian was tepid in his career back then, he could say that his life was also bearable.
Unexpectedly, one day, her mother called and cried that Yu Yuexian's younger brother was unexpectedly sick and needed a sum of medical expenses.
It may not be worth mentioning now, but at that time and Yu Yuexian's living situation, he only had tens of thousands of yuan in his hands, how could he have extra money for his younger brother to see a doctor.
So he was forced to find another way, because he was an actor, and his brother-in-law Zhao Benshan's fame was not small, so he went to ask for help.
It is also providential, at that time, "Country Love" was in the preparatory stage, Zhao Benshan was very satisfied with Yuexian, but there was only one point, Yu Yuexian's appearance at that time was too good-looking, I am afraid that it does not meet the temperament of the characters in "Country Love".
For Zhao Benshan, it may be a concern, but for Yu Yuexian, it is a hurdle that must be crossed.
So Yu Yuexian deliberately gained weight in order to get closer to this role, and wore some old-fashioned clothes.
After feeling that he was almost adjusted, he contacted Zhao Benshan again, and finally won the role of "Xie Dajia".
This appearance not only solved the urgent needs of Yu Yuexian's family, but also allowed everyone to meet such a good actor.
Because of her wonderful portrayal, the role of "Xie Dajia" took root in the hearts of the audience, and "Country Love" was also filmed one after another.
But I really didn't expect that in 2021, the new one had not yet started filming in a hurry, and Yu Yuexian left us forever.
It was late for Yu Yuexian to finish working in Inner Mongolia that day, and the driver took her and other staff to drive on the deserted road at three o'clock in the morning.
Suddenly, Yu Yuexian's car and the two camels that came out of the country collided, and he died because of his injuries, while the other staff members were more or less injured.
As soon as this incident was issued, there was a pity on the Internet, after all, Yu Yuexian was only 50 years old this year, and there were still infinite possibilities in life.
Zhao Benshan, as Yu Yuexian's cousin-in-law and colleague at work, is also quite regrettable.
However, for this sudden accident, the pain seems to be more tormenting.
In 2008, Li Damei and Zhao Benshan had an opportunity to cooperate at the Spring Festival Gala of Liaoning Satellite TV. Although Zhao Benshan was already famous at that time, Li Damei also relied on her housekeeping skills to let everyone recognize her.
After that, as a two-person actor, Secretary Geng starred in many TV series. Although it may be just some relatively small characters, it is also very brilliant.
She and Zhang Xiaoguang, Zhao Benshan's beloved apprentice we mentioned earlier, also performed on stage together, which shows that the two have a deep relationship.
Her usual personality is the same as that of most Northeasterners, warm and cheerful. Unexpectedly, such an eternally optimistic Li Damei died of illness in her fifties.
As a mother, what she was most worried about before she passed away was her son "Red Child", that is, Zhao Benshan's No. 35 disciple.
Coupled with his relationship with Zhao Benshan, he naturally entrusted his son to Zhao Benshan.
In addition to finding Damei, Zhao Benshan also had a good friend and good partner who died of illness, which became the unease of his own life.
The name Gao Xiumin is familiar to everyone, especially the sketch "Selling Abduction" with Zhao Benshan in 2001, even today, the audience still remembers the lines in it.
But in fact, she and Zhao Benshan had already performed together as early as 1997.
After years of tempered tacit understanding, Gao Xiumin, Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei are known as the iron triangle on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala. In the past few years, all the works starring the three of them have been praised by the audience without accident, which can be described as a quality assurance.
Unexpectedly, slowly, everyone seemed to have never seen the three of them perform in harmony again.
Some people say that it is because the income of the three people is not clear, which has caused some unhappiness in the hearts of the three people, and they are also laying mines for the future relationship.
It is also said that Zhao Benshan's first choice in "Water Delivery" was not Gao Xiumin but Song Dandan, and finally because of Song Dandan's work, he chose Gao Xiumin as the second best choice.
Although he didn't say anything on the surface, and when he was asked about it, he made it clear that he was willing to be a green leaf, but if we let the audience think for ourselves, this series of things will be like a thorn, permanently pierced in our hearts.
As for the specific reason for the dislike between the two, we are not the parties, and we can't speculate, and for the contradiction between the two, everyone still prefers to think that it is just a misunderstanding, and maybe everything will be fine.
Who would have thought that the world was impermanent, and before this day came, Gao Xiumin died of a heart attack one night in 2005.
At the time, she was only 46 years old, and she had just begun to try her hand at becoming a producer in TV dramas, showing her skills in other fields.
Before she died, she participated in the filming of three TV series, but she didn't expect God to make such a big joke, and Zhao Benshan could only see her for the last time at Gao Xiumin's memorial service.
Information sources:
Baidu Encyclopedia - Zhao Tiedan
Baidu Encyclopedia - Zhang Xiaoguang
[2016.9.21 Zhao Benshan's apprentice died in a car accident, and the photos of the scene were exposed (picture)]
Sina APP——@新浪娱乐 2021.8.19 [Police report Yu Yuexian car accident]
Sina Entertainment - 2017.11.20 [The two-person actor Li Damei passed away, and his son was Zhao Benshan's No. 35 apprentice]
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