#记录我的2024#孩子大学毕业找工作难, in my heart, it's really mixed. But then again, no one can guarantee that the major he chooses will definitely lead to a good job, and no one can say for sure that the world is changing rapidly.
My son, Xiaogang, just graduated from university this year. I studied computer science and technology, and when I first chose this major, I felt that now that science and technology are so developed, computer science must be a popular industry, and there should be no problem with employment in the future. Besides, Xiao Gang himself likes to fiddle with the computer, play a game or something, and he is quite good at it, so we think he has a talent in this area.
But who knows, as soon as I graduate, I will encounter the problem of "difficulty in finding employment". Submitting a resume is like a stone sinking into the sea, finally having an interview opportunity, and having to compete with a lot of people. His classmates, some of whom studied finance, management, and art, seemed to be easier to find jobs than him. I began to mutter: Did we choose the wrong one in the first place?
In fact, I also know that when it comes to finding a job, it can't all depend on professionalism. Xiao Gang also has his own problems, such as he is a bit introverted and not very good at dealing with people. In addition, he is not very clear about his career plan and does not know which direction to work into. In fact, these problems are also not well guided by our parents.
But then again, the choice of major is also quite important. Nowadays, social competition is so fierce, a good major can at least give children a relatively stable career prospect. It's not like we are now, who are worried all day long, afraid that their children will not be able to find a job, that they will not be able to earn money, and that they will not be able to live a good life in the future.
So I'm thinking now, if I could turn back the clock, would I let Xiao Gang change his major? For example, studying finance, accounting, or something sounds more "practical". But on second thought, wouldn't it be even worse if he didn't like those majors and couldn't get in?
Alas, as parents, there are always so many entanglements and helplessness. We can't live a whole life for our children, they still have to go their own way. What we can do is to try to provide them with good advice and support, so that they can have the confidence and courage to overcome difficulties when they face them.
So, I'm not so entangled now. Xiaogang's professional choice, although there are regrets, there is no absolute right or wrong. It is important that we face the reality together and find a solution to the problem. For example, you can take more vocational training courses to improve your skills, participate in more social activities to expand your network, and pay more attention to employment information to understand market needs and trends.
In short, finding a job is not something that can be done overnight. We need to be patient, careful, and attentive to deal with it. I believe that as long as we work hard, we will definitely find a job that suits Xiaogang. After all, this world is still full of opportunities and challenges, as long as we face them bravely, we will definitely be able to find our own piece of the sky.
Finally, I would like to tell all parents and children not to be overly superstitious about the employment prospects of a certain major, and not to blindly follow the trend and choose a popular industry. Everyone's situation and interests are different, and we have to make the most suitable choice according to our actual situation. At the same time, it is also necessary to maintain a positive attitude and bravely face the difficulties and challenges in life. I believe that as long as we work hard, we will be able to create a better future of our own!