The Spring Festival is coming soon, how can we be considered wealthy during the festival? It's not eating, drinking, and having fun, it's not that we don't have these four qualities. The new-style Spring Festival women are not tired, men are not tired, parents are not tired, and the Spring Festival gathering of the family is to have a warm atmosphere. Everyone's tasting.
First, the sisters in the family have no style of comparison.
I am a post-70s generation, and my generation is a family with many children, and there are many sisters in the family, so there are naturally more younger generations. If there is a desire to compare, the family is not rich in terms of how much money they have.
My boss has five sisters, and he is the fourth. Every year, during the holidays, he doesn't show off, he dresses the same as usual, he doesn't care about eating and drinking, and the coarse tea and light rice made by his parents at home is the best delicacy.
The sisters in the family are together, and there is no jealousy. Some are foils for each other, he always said that a home must have love, and a loving home is warm.
If the sisters compare with each other, the more expensive the New Year's goods are bought, and the more the clothes pass through the big brands, then the true meaning of the New Year will be lost. Therefore, wealthy families do not pay attention to what they eat, but to the atmosphere together.
Second, parents do not persecute their children, and consume too much human affection.
The word relative seems to only appear during the New Year, and many young people are frightened by the relatives who celebrate the New Year's holidays, because most of the savings they have painstakingly accumulated may be lost in a year. Such a year is not a festival, but a disaster. A truly wealthy family will be sympathetic to their children and will feel sorry for their children's difficulties.
I have a small colleague whose family is rural, and half a year's salary will be spent on the Spring Festival, because my parents and sisters have to go through it, and the New Year's money and gifts must not be less, otherwise I will lose face to my parents. Every Spring Festival is a burden for him.
Such an atmosphere is not conducive to the growth of young people, in fact, young people are not beautiful outside, and they are also frugal every day, just for the scenery of the New Year. Such parents are not smart, or even confused.
Three, the holidays are not wasted on boring things.
It is the wish of many people to go back to their hometown for the New Year, but when they really go back to their hometown, how many days do they accompany their parents? Most of them will be wasted on the mahjong table, or the reunion of friends and classmates, except for bragging is bragging.
In our company, there are a few small colleagues from other places, they love to rent luxury cars or borrow luxury cars to go home during the New Year, just for the sake of face, can not let classmates and friends underestimate, in fact, this is vanity, the New Year is the New Year, go home to accompany the parents, gather less and leave more days, to cherish more time with parents, less energy on useless things, this is the meaning of the Spring Festival.
Fourth, the family environment is superior, and there will be no quarrels during the New Year.
Family together, don't complain, don't cry poor, give your emotions back to yourself, and don't be a destroyer of the family atmosphere. That's a blessing.
The two sons of my fellow countryman quarrel every year because of trivial things, and they are like this every year, and they are not happy to eat a meal, and they are not happy to eat. She is always afraid of saying the wrong thing, making her daughter-in-law unhappy, and her son having a hard time, so she is afraid of the New Year. The New Year's money is 10,000 yuan for each of the two grandchildren, and it is necessary to save it for more than half a year, and the food expenses for a few days during the Spring Festival are even more considerable. It is not easy to be an old man, so family members must exercise self-restraint and not be the atmosphere destroyer. Let the family have an unpleasant Spring Festival.
After the age of 50, I suddenly discovered that wealthy families rarely quarrel and most of them are very harmonious, but in fact, most of the really wealthy families are loving and tolerant. This cannot be measured in terms of money, and if a family does not have these four qualities, it is considered a wealthy family. Do you approve of it?
I am Sister Mi Li, a post-70s generation who loves to share, I like to share, remember to like and support to show encouragement. Thank you!