When you're single.
We always think that love is romantic and beautiful.
If one day, join hands with your loved ones and fall in love.
From this time on, everyone will understand that there will be helplessness and sadness in the relationship between couples.
Especially when a relationship enters a dull period.
If couples can't find a way to get along, then everyone will have the idea of complaining about each other, and as a result, there will be a "Hercules effect". How to understand this effect?
To put it simply, when a couple has a disagreement and conflict, if they can't find a suitable solution, then both parties will blame each other, and then there will be hostility and hatred. Obviously, this is not conducive to the development of feelings.
Unconsciously, it will further expand the differences between the two sides.
From a psychological point of view, as a man, you should reject the "Hercules effect" in order to retain a woman's heart. So what do men need to do in a couple's relationship to avoid this phenomenon?
01
Communicate actively and avoid misunderstandings.
Interpersonal relationships are inseparable from proper communication.
In fact, when two people fall in love, why not?
Stand at the starting point of fate.
The affection between men and women is inseparable from many interactive behaviors.
But when love enters a dull period.
Many couples will have less interaction, and from this time on, the deeper the love, the more likely a person is to be passive, and they are easy to feel ignored in this relationship.
If couples want to be lucky and long-lasting in love, everyone should know:
Lucky fate is inseparable from the active communication between two people to achieve more empathy with each other. In this way, couples can feel the love brought by each other, and everyone will cherish the feelings of two people.
Guys, in particular, need to maintain a state of active communication so that girls feel your attention and concern. If this is done, girls will find enough sense of belonging in this relationship.
02
Willing to understand her, understand and tolerate.
From a psychological point of view:
Everyone has a need to be loved.
If a couple wants their love to continue, they need everyone to understand each other's needs and meet them.
For example, if a girl wants to find a sense of belonging, she needs a sense of long-term stability. To be a smart man, you have to stand in the perspective of a girl and give understanding and satisfaction.
If you want to keep a woman's heart, don't let them down.
In a relationship, couples need to understand each other's needs, so that two people can avoid many wrong interactions and do more actions to warm up the relationship and avoid the increase of many differences.
If a man has not understood the women around him.
Then between two people, there will be more and more disagreements and contradictions.
In the end, even if both parties have really loved, there will be a sense of estrangement due to the increase in misunderstandings.
03
Keep the bottom line and know respect.
In the red dust.
To be able to come together, it takes too much support from fate.
People who truly love each other have a sense of cherishing fate.
As a man, how to keep a woman's love in a relationship?
Men should know that girls are not only looking forward to romantic feelings, but also longing for a long-term sense of security. This requires men to take responsibility and at the same time, give women enough respect.
In this way, girls can continue to be happy themselves.
Then girls are bound to cherish this relationship and manage love with men with their hearts.
Loving each other is the premise of a long-term relationship. As a man, if you treat your lover sincerely, you must respect her opinion and give her enough understanding and tolerance. Such a man can give girls a real protection in the midst of differences.
Every relationship.
will go from passion to ordinary communication.
From this time on, the patience of many couples wears off. If you feel that you are being left out, it is easy to do some radical behavior, and the result is the "Hercules effect".
Once you are swayed by emotions, how long can the relationship between two people last?
It's not easy for a man to pursue a girl, don't think that if you become a couple, two people can go on hand in hand. Everyone should realize that long-term love is inseparable from continuous management.
If you want to keep a woman's heart completely for the rest of your long life.
Everyone should avoid the "Hercules effect" and try to be a person who is willing to communicate, can understand her and respect her. In this way, give girls a real protection.
In your opinion, isn't that so?
Emotionally original, warm words. From the perspective of psychology, I analyze the thousands of emotions and hope that my article can bring you a different feeling. Thank you for your continued attention, and having you by your side on the creative road is the biggest motivation.