The pattern determines the upper limit of your life
It is not difficult for a person to succeed
The hard part is how to raise your ceiling
Take Brother Dayi, for example
From the point of view of the vast majority of people, he was successful
But from the perspective of the family, he is slowly exposing his shortcomings
01
Zhu Zhiwen was originally an ordinary farmer in Zhulou Village
Relying on the voice of an "artist" to change the fate of his life
Now he wants money and fame
It is not an exaggeration to say that he is the most successful farmer in China
It is reported that Zhu Zhiwen saved 16 million in the bank in the first year of his debut
Not to mention the peasant uncle who faces the land with his back to the sky
It is the golden collar living in the first-tier city
They may not have such the ability to attract gold
02
Zhu Zhiwen and his wife Yuhua have a son and a daughter
The son's name is Zhu Danwei, nicknamed Zhu Xiaowei
The daughter's name is Zhu Xuemei, and she is currently in the boudoir
Although Zhu Xiaowei is only in his early twenties, he has already had two marriages
The first marriage, which will not be described here
I'm sure everyone knows it very well
Lao Mo wants to talk about the second marriage
03
From getting married in 2022 to the present
Zhu Xiaowei's wife, Chen Meng, is not pregnant
Married for two years without having children
It's nothing for the unmarried, who think that being busy with their careers comes first
But for Zhu Xiaowei, it is unusual
Because he doesn't have much work of his own
The overall ability of the individual is very low
No culture, no experience, and poor eloquence
The reason why Brother Dayi let him go on a blind date since he was 18 years old
I just want him to get married as soon as possible
As for whether to start a business or not, it is not the point
04
Chen Meng married into the Zhu family for two years
and lived with Zhu Xiaowei for a long time
Why don't you get pregnant?
This is going to start with the pattern of Brother Coat!
Although the current Zhu Zhiwen family is entangled, there is a car when he goes out, and there are people to receive the performance
Everywhere you go, you get flowers and applause
But he is still a farmer at heart
If you are a farmer, you have cognitive limitations
For the vast majority of farmers
When a child reaches a certain age, he or she should start a family
and whether they can support a family on their own
It doesn't matter much if you succeed in society or not
05
Zhu Xiaowei started a blind date at the age of 18
A year after the blind date, he got engaged to Chen Yanan
At the age of 20, he parted ways with Chen Yanan
After only a few months, I fell in love with Chen Meng again
Now, I have been married for two years
It stands to reason that there is a celebrity father with an annual income of 10 million in the family
Zhu Xiaowei should put improving his personal strength in the first place
For example, go to school for further study
For example, go to the society to experience
For example, Brother Dayi's fans said, go to join the army
But in the end, he chose to enter the wedding hall
The weirdest thing is
Facing this adult child
Brother Dayi still took him to buy clothes, paid for it, took him to a haircut, and styled his hairstyle
played the child into a "gnawing old man"
06
There is also a distinction between high and low gnawing old people
Some people are just lazy and unwilling to do things
Zhu Xiaowei is different, he is a "problematic" person himself
Nor did he have the ability to support himself in his twenties
Now relying on my father's money, he can live a worry-free life
But if one day, Brother Dayi doesn't make money anymore and can't move
This family, can he hold it up?
Chen Meng's original intention of marrying Zhu Xiaowei was not clear to Lao Mo
But any girl wants her husband to have the ability to support the family
When you go to society, you can take charge of yourself
It's a pity that Zhu Xiaowei didn't, and the coat brother Zhu Zhiwen didn't plan to let him have it
Therefore, if Chen Meng divorces Zhu Xiaowei one day, there is no need to be surprised
Brother Coat's peasant background is destined to be rich for no more than three generations, or even two generations!