It doesn't matter if it's rural or urban
Having a child a year or two after marriage seems to have become a natural thing for a long time
There are even some people who choose to get married after the woman is pregnant
It's not that I'm responsible for my own actions, but I feel that the arrival of my child is a signal to start a family
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Start a family
As the name suggests, start a family first, then start a business
There is such a saying in the community
Men who have families are more mature because they understand the meaning of responsibility
Therefore, if someone is married for a year or two, the wife is not pregnant
The outside world will wonder if the young couple has fertility problems
Let's take Brother Coat's son Zhu Xiaowei as an example
Right now, he's in this trouble
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Zhu Xiaowei, Brother Dayi's only son
Before 2011, Zhu Xiaowei didn't dare to imagine his future
Because of his poor family environment and introverted personality, he was even suspected of having a problem at one time
Such people
Not to mention a successful career, whether you can marry a daughter-in-law is a question
In 2011, by chance
Zhu Zhiwen participated in a local variety show in Heze, Shandong
shocked the audience with the song "Rolling Yangtze River East Passing Water".
After participating in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, he became a familiar coat brother to the people of the country!
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After becoming a rich second generation
Zhu Xiaowei has the capital to imagine the future
Although he is only in his early twenties, he has already been married twice
The heroine of the first marriage is named Chen Yanan, and the heroine of the second marriage is named Chen Meng
They are all girls with figure, good looks, culture, and stable jobs
The first marriage lasted less than a year
The second marriage lasted more than a year
Married from National Day 2022 to now
Chen Meng's stomach never bulged
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Brother Coat and Sister-in-law Coat are very fond of children
Zhu Xiaowei is also the best age to give birth
Why is Chen Meng unable to get pregnant?
All this starts with Chen Yanan's comments on Zhu Xiaowei!
I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle
This is the view of marriage for many young girls today
Including Chen Yanan
She chose to marry Zhu Xiaowei because his parents were very good
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can marry into the Zhu family
Chen Yanan found out: Zhu Xiaowei is even worse than she imagined to gnaw at the old people
This Shandong man who is more than 1.8 meters and weighs 200 pounds
Not self-motivated at all
Just know to play mobile games every day
The eloquence is so bad that he "can't even say a whole sentence".
Although Chen Yanan is not interested in Zhu Xiaowei
But with a "wooden stake" to live for decades
It's unacceptable to all women
Therefore, even if she tears her face with Brother Dayi and his wife, she has to separate from Zhu Xiaowei
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Similarly, for Chen Meng, a college student
Her understanding of life is obviously different from Zhu Xiaowei, who is "lazy and lazy" and "not motivated".
Before she felt Zhu Xiaowei's obvious improvement, she would not be pregnant
Here are two small things about Zhu Xiaowei
The first was to go into the city to buy clothes, and in his early twenties, he still needed his father to accompany him
Brother Coat is responsible for picking clothes and paying for them
The second thing was to move things into the car and watch my mother in her fifties holding a bag of walnuts
He didn't realize that "I was going to work for my mother"
Instead, he walked behind like a nobody
Therefore, Zhu Xiaowei's psychological age is much younger than his real age
At the moment he is so immature, like a child
Whether it's Chen Yanan or Chen Meng
The result of rash pregnancy will not be that the mother is expensive with the child
It's about making your life more chaotic
One last question:
If you were Zhu Xiaowei's wife, would you give birth to a son and a half daughter for him?