#Retirement Life Record# Recently, a friend was cheated of tens of thousands of dollars by his fellow countrymen, and the other party lost contact after borrowing money in the name of doing business, unfortunately he did not have an IOU certificate. He was very annoyed by this, and said: "Of all the interpersonal relationships, the fellow is the most unreliable. I reassured him not to worry, it might not be that bad, but I agreed with his definition of a fellow. Nowadays, many people are naïve in their thinking, simple in their feelings, and lack vigilance against others. In particular, some people have a strong sense of fellow countrymen, do not choose friends based on character, and believe people's words, and as a result, they are deceived. It is undeniable that the proximity of regional characteristics, dietary structure, and customs is easy to produce a sense of intimacy, but there are good and bad people everywhere, and if you accidentally make bad friends, it will bring disaster to yourself. Some people say that "you rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out". "I helped him, and he will help me when I'm in trouble." "The more friends there are, the easier the road to go." I said it was just wishful thinking, but it wasn't. There are countless cases of fellow villagers cheating on fellow villagers in life, which is not alarmist. I admire the way smart people behave in the world, they don't pity anyone, they don't trust anyone. They live independently, they don't depend on anyone, and they know that it is better to rely on anyone than on themselves. They have been far away from those who are ungrateful, those who do not keep their promises, those who harm others and benefit themselves, those who do not know how to be grateful, and those who violate morality for money, so that their lives have been spared calamity.
