Don't be alarmist, take a good pulse for a happy family!
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As the saying goes: "There are three kinds of family, not rich but prosperous." The ancients also said: "Home, the harbor of the soul, accumulates blessings here, attainment is not arrogant, sleepy but not discouraged, rather than rich and poor, only for harmony and health." However, there is a saying in the world: "There will be disasters for three people in the family", this saying seems ominous at first glance, but when you think about it, it is really alarmist.
The family is the cell of society and the source of happiness. People with three personalities in the family may not necessarily have disasters, the key is how to guide and resolve them. Meng Ziyun: "The time is not as good as the location, and the location is not as good as the people." "Those who are harmonious are also the souls of the family. As long as the family is harmonious, what calamity cannot be resolved?
It is common for strong people to appear in the family. This type of person acts decisively and strives for the top, which can bring a positive atmosphere to the family. As the ancients said: "The bird knows the ambition of the bird!" but if it is too strong, it is easy to quarrel and family discord. At this time, it is necessary for family members to understand each other, communicate more, and resolve conflicts.
In addition, it is normal to have acute people in the family. These are the kind of people who act vigorously and efficiently, and can move the family forward quickly. However, acute people tend to be impulsive and sometimes reckless, causing family conflicts. In this regard, family members need to be tolerant and persuade them to act more steadily.
In addition, it is not uncommon for there to be a fussy person in the family. This type of person pursues perfection and is strict with people and things, which can motivate the family to continue to improve. However, being too picky can easily lead to rebellion and affect family harmony. Family members should treat this with gratitude, knowing that their starting point is out of care and love, and working together to improve what is lacking.
If there are three types of people in the family at the same time, family conflicts are likely to arise, but they need to be viewed correctly. Family members should be tolerant and understanding as the principle, communicate more, and resolve conflicts. If this can be done, even if there are three personalities in the family at the same time, there may not be disaster.
Family members need to support each other to overcome difficulties. As the old saying goes: "Home and everything prospers." "As long as the family is harmonious, what difficulties cannot be overcome?" There is a poem: "The edge of the sword comes from the sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold." "As long as the family works together, we will be able to get through this and usher in a better tomorrow.
People with these three personalities in the family may not necessarily have disasters, the key is how to guide and resolve them. As long as family members understand and support each other and face difficulties together, we will be able to create a happy and happy family.
Life is like a play, and family is like a game. In this game, everyone has their own role and character. Some people have strong personalities, like lions in a storm, some people act vigorously and resolutely, like shooting stars across the sky, and some strive for perfection, like dancing peacocks. There is no good or bad between these three, the key is how to understand each other, complement each other, and make the family boat ride the wind and waves and go straight to the other side of happiness.
Look at those complementary personalities, which often bring a unique family charm. The shrews in the house may be spicy spices, adding to the liveliness and fireworks of life, the acute children in the family are crisp and neat kitchen knives, which solve all kinds of tedious affairs, and those who are picky are the food judges with all the color and flavor, and their evaluation of each bite of the dish is like a kind of prudence and reflection on life.
As for how to reconcile this seemingly contradictory character? Isn't finding unity in the interweaving of contradictions the true meaning of family life? There is a poem: "The crowd looked for him thousands of times, and suddenly looked back, but that person was in the dim light." "When family members find that understanding, respect and love, any personality differences can be turned into harmonious notes in the family.
The ancients said: "Home and everything prospers." "A family, as long as there is love in the heart and affection in the hands, no matter what kind of character people are in it, they are just leaves in a flower, and together they draw a colorful picture of family life. When we see the love of our family in difficult situations, we can stand up in the midst of setbacks and smile brighter.
All in all, there are three people in the family, or there may be turmoil, but the wisdom of the family and the friendship of the family will definitely resolve everything. Family is the harbor, is the destination, as long as we have love in our hearts, in our hands with affection, what disasters can not be spent together? "In front of the mountain of family, as long as we work together, nothing can stop us from moving forward.
The harmony of the family and the happiness of the family need to be maintained and cherished together. May every family be harmonious, happy and healthy!