The brothers and sisters generally have the most difficult life, and more than 80% of them guess wrong, which is not nonsense
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"The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skins", since ancient times, heroes have suffered a lot, and they have never been a great man. Everyone who comes to this world must survive in society, take a responsibility, and grow in giving and taking.
It is often said that the boss has a hard life. Because the younger siblings in the family are still young, as the eldest child, not only have to undertake housework, but also take care of the younger siblings.
In fact, every era has its own difficulties, and the children of every era have tasted the ups and downs of life. Especially now they are all only children, most of the children are pampered, there are no brothers and sisters at home, and they can't feel the feeling of having brothers and sisters and younger siblings.
Take 10,000 steps back and say, as the eldest in the family, at least you must be born in a family with parents, and those who unfortunately become orphans will no longer be discussed, and those who are not well taken care of will of course not be much better. Especially in the era of poverty, it was not easy for people to live, and they should not ask for anything else except to survive.
Now that there is an eldest in the family, most families will usher in a new life in the next period of time, after all, only one child is still too little, and the country needs a population to support it, not to mention every family. When you have younger siblings, the eldest will basically go to school, and you have to help your parents take care of your younger siblings, and the eldest must not only study well, but also take care of your younger siblings, otherwise your parents will be unhappy, and they will say that the eldest only knows how to study, and she doesn't know how to feel sorry for her parents at all.
After all, the boss is much older than his younger siblings, and most of the time the boss lets his younger siblings, otherwise he will be blamed by his parents, saying that the eldest is not sensible and doesn't know how to hurt people. The eldest not only has to let the younger siblings, but also take good care of the younger siblings, the younger siblings are in trouble, the eldest will also be punished, the younger siblings are not good at studying, the eldest will also be disciplined, the younger siblings are disobedient, the eldest has to teach the younger siblings for their parents, in short, the eldest is the nanny and teacher of the younger siblings, and he is ready to accept the criticism of his parents at any time.
With younger siblings, the eldest can't stretch out his hands to eat and open his mouth like before, the eldest must learn to take care of himself, the eldest must learn to do laundry and cooking, the eldest must learn to share the worries of his parents, the eldest must learn to take care of his younger siblings, the eldest must learn to be strong, the eldest must learn to be brave, the eldest must learn to be independent, and the eldest must learn to take responsibility.
Many parents are patriarchal, especially in the era of patriarchy, many parents will be desperate to give birth to a boy, and when they can't give birth to a boy, they will completely die, at this time most of the girls are already very big, most of the girls become the boss, the boss not only has to take on housework, but also take care of the younger siblings, but also accept the beating and scolding of their parents at any time, many girls are living in dire straits.
It is said that the children of the poor are in charge of the family early, the boss not only has to take care of his younger siblings, but also learn to make money to supplement the family, many bosses begin to make money to support themselves after graduating from junior high school, make money for their younger siblings to go to school, make money to treat their parents, although the life of the boss is hard, but most of the bosses have learned to be strong, learned to be brave, learned to be independent, learned to take responsibility, the boss is the pillar of the family, the boss is the most powerful assistant of the parents.
With the development of society, many families have ushered in the era of one child, many families are one child, parents put all their hopes on their children, most children are spoiled by their parents, many children have grown up to gnaw old people, many children have grown up to achieve nothing, and many children have grown up to be good.
Many families in order to have a boy, desperate to have a second child, or even a third child, at this time most of the boss has grown up, the boss not only has to make money to support himself, but also to make money to support his younger siblings, the boss not only has to undertake housework, but also to take care of younger siblings, the boss also has to send his parents to the end, the boss not only learned to be strong, learned to be brave, learned to be independent, learned to take responsibility, the boss also has to take care of his younger siblings, the boss can be said to be heartbroken.
Parents often say that the second child has a good life, the parents are old, all the housework is handed over to the second child, all the responsibilities are handed over to the second child, the second child lives a life of clothes to reach out for food to open his mouth, the second child lives a carefree life, the second child lives a pampered life, and the second child lives a princess-like life.
In fact, each family has a different situation, each parent has a different personality, each parent has different ideas, and each child's fate is different, so it cannot be generalized. Some parents are partial, that is, patriarchal, desperate to have a boy, many girls become the boss, not only to undertake housework, but also to take care of younger siblings, but also to accept the beating and scolding of their parents at any time, many girls are living in dire straits.
Some parents are uneven, many parents are patriarchal, many parents prefer boys, many girls become the boss, not only to undertake housework, but also to take care of younger siblings, but also to accept the beating and scolding of their parents at any time, many girls are living in dire straits.
Some parents just can't figure it out, many parents don't care about their daughters on the grounds that their daughters are spilled when they get married, and many girls become the bosses, not only to take on housework, but also to take care of younger siblings, and to accept the beating and scolding of their parents at any time, and many girls are living in dire straits.
Some parents are selfish, many parents take their daughters on the grounds that sooner or later they are someone else's family, and they don't care about their daughters, and many girls become the bosses, not only to take on housework, but also to take care of their younger siblings, and to accept the beating and scolding of their parents at any time, many girls are living in dire straits.
It is said that the nature of the country is easy to change, the parents' ideas are difficult to change, and the fate of the girl to become the boss is difficult to change, even if there are younger siblings in the family, most parents still don't care, girls still have to take care of housework, girls still have to take care of younger siblings, girls still have to accept the beating and scolding of their parents, after all, the boss has not remarried, most of the bosses can only bear it silently, and most of the bosses are bitter.
There are also some families that are democratic and harmonious, many parents are open-minded and do not favor sons over girls, no matter whether boys and girls are treated the same, boys and girls are equally loved, boys and girls are equally educated, boys and girls have the same requirements, boys and girls have the same expectations, and boys and girls have the same trust.
Boys and girls are the treasures of the family, boys and girls are the pride of their parents, boys and girls are the hope of the family, boys and girls are the support of their parents, boys and girls are the pillars of the family, and boys and girls are the inheritors of the family.
Boys and girls take care of the housework together, boys and girls take care of their younger siblings together, boys and girls receive parental education together, boys and girls share the sorrows of their parents, boys and girls share the joys of the family, boys and girls support their parents together, and boys and girls work together to create the future.
As a boy, most of them are bold and responsible, parents do not expect boys to have much interest, nor do they expect boys to retire in the future, most parents just want boys to be healthy and happy to grow up. As a girl, parents will enrich the girl, after all, the girl wants to leave her parents, the parents hope that the girl can meet a good mother-in-law, after all, the girl wants to start a family, and the parents hope that the girl can have a husband and children.
Both boys and girls are the children of their parents, both parents love each other, both parents are full of hope, parents are full of expectations, boys and girls must be strong, boys and girls must be brave, boys and girls must be independent, and boys and girls must also take responsibility.
At the end, they all end with an ancient poem to express the vision that boys and girls can create value for the family and society when they grow up: "I hope that people will last a long time, and they will be together for thousands of miles."
No matter boys and girls, they are the pillars of the family, the pride of their parents, the support of their parents, the hope of their parents, the most intimate little padded jacket of their parents, the most powerful assistant of their parents, the bravest warriors of their parents, and the strongest backing of their parents.
Boys and girls must be strong, boys and girls must be brave, boys and girls must be independent, boys and girls must also take responsibility, boys and girls must create value for the family and society, boys and girls must also become the pride of their parents, boys and girls must also become the support of their parents, and boys and girls must also become the hope of their parents.