As we all know, Japanese society as a whole has a relatively high tolerance for "cheating". There are even a lot of film and television works about "cheating"...
So in the eyes of ordinary people, what kind of behavior is considered cheating?
The answer to this question can be said to be varied!
And some time ago, a YouTuber went to do a random street interview: Is it considered cheating when my boyfriend goes to a custom shop?
The answers of the women interviewed can be said to have stunned a large number of netizens...
- The first group
After hearing the question, the two sisters smiled and replied one after another: It's not cheating.
"If it's a mental derailment, it doesn't feel good. But the physical behavior is fine... Feel like it's up to him hahahaha"
"Compared with him going to the store to shop, it is even more unacceptable for him to chat with a strange girl. ”
- The second group
The girl on the right thinks: Going to the custom shop is cheating.
"I don't understand why he went to the custom shop. ”
The girl on the left has a completely opposite point of view: if you hide it from me, it's a different matter, but as long as he doesn't have feelings for the other person, it's nothing.
- Group III
Both girls denied the statement that "going to a custom shop is cheating".
"As long as he doesn't hide it from me, it's not cheating. ”
"I also told my boyfriend: If you want to cheat, go straight to the custom shop! ”
- Group IV
The girl replied with a smile: If he has a valid reason, then it is not cheating.
As for what is a legitimate reason-
The girl thought about it: For example, does it need to work?
- Group V
After listening to the question, the girl on the right said: Although she will be angry, she can still forgive the other party, if she just goes to the custom shop.
"I feel like it's a kind of Japanese culture, but it's not even culture... But isn't the Japanese custom industry famous, so in a sense, I think it's only in Japan that I think I can accept this kind of behavior. ”
You Japanese girls...... I didn't understand, but I was blown away
On the other hand, the YouTuber also went to do a derivative street interview for boys: Do you think there are many Japanese boys who cheat in love?
I don't know if I don't see it, but I'm shocked when I see it! The answer here is also quite exciting...
- The first group
The little guy in the hat came up and gave an affirmative answer.
"I think there are a lot of them. However!! I am not included in it. ”
"There are indeed many friends I know who have cheated..."
When the YouTuber threw out the question again: Do you think going to the custom shop is cheating?
The two little brothers looked embarrassed: This question is a bit difficult...
The little brother wearing the hat gave a "no" answer, and another brother said: Although the decision is in the hands of his girlfriend, I think it is cheating.
- The second group
Both men answered this question in the affirmative.
And then again, it's hard for most Japanese people to say no to these temptations. Many people have the mentality of going with the flow, and after a long time, they will ......"
"How many Japanese men do you think have cheated on them?"
"It should be 70%-80%. ”
As for whether going to a custom shop is cheating?
"Probably not? Anyway, this question has to be decided by the other half. ”
- Group III
The two boys, like the previous ones, also gave an affirmative answer.
When the YouTuber tentatively asked: Then have you ever cheated?
Without much hesitation, they replied: Yes.
"More than 70% of my male friends have cheated on me..."
"I think it has something to do with the environment. If you live in a good environment, there should be no cheating people around. But because I'm into music, I feel like 99% of the people around me are cheating. ”
- Group IV
When the boy on the left heard the question, he said, "I think there should be very few!
However, when the interview brother asked the two of them about the definition of "cheating", he replied like this: as long as it is not discovered by his girlfriend, it is not cheating.
Well...... This made the photographer laugh...
- Group V
The boy heard the question and gave a direct affirmative answer.
"I think it's a lot, almost 100%!"
"As far as I know, all my male friends have had cheated or had thoughts of cheating. ”
Moreover, he also thinks that going to a custom shop is cheating.
So, the interview brother asked tentatively: Have you ever cheated?
The boy laughed after hearing this: I, I haven't been!
The little brother smiled and tried again: Really?
"Really no! really never!"
Then the little brother threw out a fatal question: But all your friends around you have cheated?
The boy said: Yes, only I didn't. I'm in that exceptional case, so I'm guessing the cheating rate is 99%.
Well......
But having said that, the sample size of this small street interview is relatively small, and there is no particularly large reference value, so let's take a look and understand.
But hearing the girls' answers, some netizens couldn't help but express their shock: I really don't understand you Japanese very well...