Papi-chan said that he doesn't want to work and just wants to get rich, is it a real mouth or a fake empathy?
Maybe no one is really happy, but human suffering is not completely connected, even if they are ordained by the same name.
Big celebrities prefer to be down-to-earth
From the second half of last year to now, Papi-chan has been busy. Over the years, this first-generation Internet celebrity in the short video industry has not only not disappeared, but has also become a domestic entertainment celebrity who has never replaced meals step by step.
She is one of the guests in the observation room of "Goodbye Lover 3", when the other female guests were teary-eyed and couldn't cry, not only did she not squeeze out a single tear, but she also frowned slightly, her eyes were full of suspicion, and her inner OS seemed to say: What are you doing? Where is the touching point?
Because the contrast of expressions is too stark, some people scold her for being cold-blooded, some people praise her for being sober, in short, this woman who combines beauty and talent has made a lot of mistakes in her own way.
and then "Flowers", which was broadcast at the end of the year, she was also on the cast list.
The role is not big, but it is quite memorable, and the Linghong she plays is a harlequin, similar to "Shanghai version of Wu Junru", and concocted a lot of jokes in the gags. Not only that, a farewell scene with Reiko before going offline can be called a rare "moving but not deliberately sensational" tear-jerking scene in recent years.
Let's just say, when seven or eight years ago, when we watched her speak faster at the screen, who would have thought that one day she would be the woman who made you cry in the New Year's drama of the eighth year?
Probably due to the recent momentum, this pack found that the interview clips about papi-chan have become more and more on major social platforms. Moreover, whether it is the title or the comment, there is the same word that appears frequently - "mouth substitute".
I deliberately watched her interview video in "Luyu Have an Appointment" at the beginning of last year, and found that it seemed to be really like that.
The whole journey lasted more than 40 minutes, and the wording and posture of papi sauce can be simply summed up in two words - "modest" and "down-to-earth".
Other Internet celebrities - floating, crazy, "which Li is expensive", to papi here - want to lie flat, I am very ordinary, mainly rely on luck, my short video is just four or two dials four two, once keen to buy lottery tickets.
In another interview in November last year, she also said something similar, such as "as long as you work, it is difficult to be really happy", "I don't want to suffer from work, I just want to make a fortune" and other golden sentences.
Emma, isn't it just a word to break the hearts of workers!
After listening, on the one hand, there is a heart-warming feeling of "public figures speak for me, and the small me is finally seen", and on the other hand, there is a sense of steadiness that "big Internet celebrities are also people, and we are equal at this moment".
It not only releases the discomfort and desire in my heart, but also reduces the self-shame of looking up to others.
But wait, do you feel something is wrong?
The information behind the heartwarming words is poor
I don't doubt Papi's sincerity, and I even agree that she is a person who has a low desire for fame and fortune, is more Buddhist, extremely pragmatic, and will not be carried away by desire. What I suspect is the "mouth substitution", which may be a delusion of the spectators.
Close your ears and see the facts:
She said that she didn't want to work, but she didn't stop working, and while she was full of "not wanting to make progress", the "three wheels of the ace" under her feet were racing against time.
TV series have to be filmed, movies have to be filmed, variety shows have to be recorded, and the normal output of short videos has to be maintained in the case of so many announcements, and her actions are not Buddhist at all.
This makes sense, from 16 years to now, if there is no continuous exposure and reasonable planning, can she become an Internet celebrity with such a strong endurance?
In 2021, he also appeared in the movie
Yes, she may wake up in the morning like you, often order milk tea and coffee to relieve her fatigue, and at a tiring moment after work, she will fantasize that she can retire the next day and enjoy the rest of her life with the money she doesn't play......
But did she do it? She didn't. Not only did she do what she was supposed to do, but she also did a good job, and the worst thing was that she earned a lot.
From Papi's point of view, when one day you suddenly become extremely tired of work, think about the high salary, and you can confidently say to yourself: "For the sake of money, bear with it!"
What about you, for the sake of a monthly salary of 3,500, why can you endure it? I heard that you have to bear such a big responsibility and expectation, 35005 is embarrassed......
Yes, everyone's life has some suffering and injuries that they can't help themselves, but some people can afford to buy a panacea to heal their wounds, and some people can only learn from the little match girl to dilute the pain for a moment by fantasizing, and the magnitude of those sufferings and injuries is different in their respective lives.
In addition, Papi sauce also mentioned that she is very Buddhist, and has always followed her partners, although she is now doing a company, she doesn't care about team management and capital operation, claiming that she doesn't have that brain, and can only concentrate on doing what she can do.
In short, what I like and am good at is the core position of the company, and it is also my main business, and I have professional and reliable capable people to handle other things.
I said, is this Buddhism or Versailles? In such an ideal working environment, isn't Buddhism normal at all? She has the soil of Buddhism!
The formation of "fertile soil" stems from the blessing of luck and her "good background".
The partner in the mouth of papi sauce, that is, the founder of Taiyang Chuanhe and the CEO of papitube, is her classmate of Chinese opera, the two had a personal relationship before papi became famous, and they are a circle that can be integrated into each other without hard work, and it is a resource that can be touched by raising your hand, can you deliver with confidence and fight side by side.
And most people don't have such conditions, talking about Buddhism is tantamount to jumping a big rope in the air.
For people who really have nothing and have no way out, it is normal to have the "symptoms" of overexerting yourself or rushing to the doctor in a hurry. It's like a recent graduate with no background in the acting department who wants to make money immediately, but he has to run the group;
Therefore, don't follow others to blind Buddhism, or analyze specific problems specifically, first see if your situation has given you the qualifications of Buddhism, if not, you have to harden Buddhism, that is, you are using the words of others to indulge your own laziness or exile your own efforts to achieve no results.
A thousand words: celebrities are not necessarily lying, but we better not ignore the hidden information behind the "warm words".
In addition to the example of papi sauce, what other female celebrities love to wear no makeup when they go out in private, Fan Bingbing and Jolin Tsai are particularly fond of online shopping, and a certain rich man wears cloth shoes and wears old watches in a simple and undignified style......
are all similar, it sounds like a good story, thieves are close to the people, thieves are simple, under the rendering of these beautiful legends, it seems that the wall between ordinary people and celebrities and rich people instantly became invisible, and then the people's minds suddenly disdained the cosmetics that "hurt their faces", and online shopping became more energetic, and the cloth shoes that they were embarrassed to wear were instantly extraordinary......
But please note: many female stars dare to wear no makeup, firstly, because they are confident enough in their appearance, and secondly, they have so many shining moments that they don't need to fight for a focal position in daily life.
If you, obviously your vanity has not been fed, and you obviously want to be the focus of attention, and you don't do it according to the occasion and needs, isn't that the opposite?
and online shopping, Fan Bingbing said that online shopping is really cheap and it is not distressing to buy wrong, Jolin Tsai said that it will only stop when the brush is so sore that it is not good, but the "nonsense and blind buying" fund they can give is definitely different from you in front of the screen, no matter how "uncontrolled" they are, it may really be a drizzle, which has no impact on their own economic situation, but for ordinary wage earners, "uncontrolled" is likely to really mean "eating soil this month".
"The frugal living habits of the rich" is even more to listen to, people wear cloth shoes and walk leisurely into their private estates, and people wear old watches because they no longer need luxury goods as the blessing of their identity.
As a nobody, if you want to talk about a business, a relationship or something, consumerism is often the most convenient way to let others quickly know "whether you are a person all the way", just like Gu Jia in "Thirty Only", if you want to quickly enter the wife group, you have to change the bag first, right?
Stills from "Thirty Only".
I hereby declare that it is not that I am advocating anything, but that the unevenness of reality is much more complicated than one or two good words. Of course, it's okay to feel comfortable after listening, but don't follow and follow involuntarily, and take Lin Daiyu's script as a faction, so you can't eat deflated everywhere?
Humility makes people safe
In addition to the "information gap" itself, the "people-friendly speech" of the papi sauce may also be out of a self-preservation strategy.
On the one hand, it is to tell others to prevent it from making people unhappy and pulling hatred for themselves. is already a well-known successful person, but also to say how he is full of energy, ambitious, and promising in the future, it is tantamount to a childish child carrying money through the market, which is not only easy to cause imbalance in the hearts of others, but also easy to put himself in a dangerous situation, the previous Li Jiaqi is the most typical negative teaching material.
Then you might as well keep a low profile, even if there is no praise, it will not attract bad words, you have fallen yourself, who is embarrassed to beat you? At most, there will be some people who come over and say, "Ha, he is just like that"; if you go in the direction of "madness", there will definitely be a large number of people pointing at your nose and scolding-"Who do you think you are? Believe it or not, I can kill you today!"
On the other hand, of course, it is also to tell yourself.
In recent years, the popular "sober in the world" character design, what is sobriety? A significant manifestation of staying sober is that it can establish a protective shield for one's own heart to prevent it from being coerced by the force of the current situation.
Specifically, in times of adversity, you can cheer yourself up to fight against the "losing energy" around you, and in good times, you can warn yourself not to float to resist all the temptations of compliments and fame.
Papi sauce's modest speech over and over again is probably also reminding yourself: Don't forget the four years of idleness, don't forget who you are when you're lucky, you have to see your position clearly, don't want everything, if you don't catch the high-speed train of the times, you can't have today, short videos are your base, so you are in the Internet circle, don't be unclear about your positioning.
seems to be so down-to-earth and easy to understand the worker, but in fact, maybe she is standing in her position in an autosuggestive way to prevent being blown away by the strong wind from the heights.
You must know that language can reveal the heart, but also self-suggestion, strengthen beliefs, and then guide behavior. Brother Xiao Yang said that he didn't want to make more money, in addition to expressing his stance to the public, he was probably reminding himself.
In short, whether it is external or internal, intentional or unconscious, lowering posture, modesty, and down-to-earth are all self-preservation. Externally, it helps to establish a safer public image, and internally, it is conducive to holding the rudder in one's heart before the stormy seas.
Therefore, compared to the emotion of "she is my mouth", I have more admiration for papi sauce. It is true that she is the lucky one of the times, but it is not easy to maintain a relaxed, self-consistent state and a sharp and firm attitude to the essence in a high position of "chaotic and charming eyes".
If you are obsessed with 100% empathy for each other, you will probably be disappointed, but when you cut through the fog and see the shining points of others, your world will definitely get bigger and bigger.
Author: Mademoiselle Bovary
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