My husband was on a business trip, and my girlfriend invited me to her house for dinner. That day, she specially made a sweet and sour pork rib, sweet and sour, as if it heralded the bitterness of marriage in the near future.
The sweet and sour pork ribs of my best friend's house have an attractive color, each piece is just right, and it is full of sweetness when you bite into it. But three days later, when my husband returned from a business trip, I filed for divorce, and that plate of sweet and sour pork ribs became the last dish of our marriage.
I admit that I felt empty and lonely during that time. The husband has been absent for a long time, and life is as plain as water. And the warm invitation of my best friend made me forget my loneliness for a while. The sweet and sour pork ribs that night were not just a dish, but more like an emotional sustenance.
However, the moment the husband suddenly returned, all the peace was shattered in an instant. He looked at me and I looked at him, and each other's eyes were full of mixed emotions. I wanted to explain, but in the end I chose silence. Because I know that once something happens, there is no going back.
During these three days, I thought about our marriage repeatedly. What went wrong? Did time wear out the passion, or did the distance keep us drifting away? I kept asking myself, but the answer was always vague.
Eventually, I mustered up the courage to file for divorce from my husband. He was stunned, and I was stunned. But I know it's the best option for each other. Although painful, long pain is not as good as short pain.
This plate of sweet and sour pork ribs has become a witness to my marriage. Sweet and sour, just like our marriage, there have been sweetness and sadness. But when sweetness turns to bitterness and sadness turns to pain, I know it's time to let go.
In the face of my husband, I couldn't hide the pain and struggle in my heart. I know that this decision was also a heavy blow to him. But instead of letting the marriage die in silence, let it end in honesty. At least that way, we can retain each other's last dignity.
1. Communication and understanding in marriageLong live the understanding of the relationship between husband and wife
2. Emptiness, loneliness and affair temptationEmptiness and lonelinessAffair temptation moral bottom line
3. The reasons behind the breakdown of the marriage The reasons for the breakdown of the marriage are the repair of the relationship between the husband and wife, and the communication is frank
4. Let go of the past and embrace the future Let go of the past
5. The metaphor of sweet and sour pork ribs and marriage The meaning of sweet and sour pork ribs