He Jiong and Sa Beining are both well-known TV presenters in China, and they both have outstanding performance and deep influence in their respective fields. The interaction between the two also often arouses the attention and heated discussions of the audience.
In a program, He Jiong half-jokingly asked Sa Beining a question that everyone is very concerned about: "If I go to CCTV for an interview, can I pass?" This question seems simple, but in fact, it tests the host's adaptability and emotional intelligence.
After Sa Beining heard this question, he did not answer it directly, but avoided the edge of the question in a humorous way. He smiled and said, "He Jiong, you are going to CCTV for an interview, I think you have to change your surname first." Hearing this answer, He Jiong was stunned for a moment, then suddenly realized, and then laughed.
Sa Beining continued: "You see, the hosts of CCTV are all surnamed 'C', for example, my surname is 'S', so everyone calls me 'Xiaosa'. If your surname is 'H', doesn't that become 'Xiao He'? In this way, you will have a closer connection with CCTV. This answer with high emotional intelligence not only cleverly avoided the essence of the question, but also ridiculed his relationship with CCTV in a humorous way.
He Jiong also spoke highly of Sa Beining's answer, he said: "Xiao Sa, you are so good at talking, I originally planned to embarrass you with this question, but I didn't expect you to resolve it all at once." ”
This interaction not only showed the high emotional intelligence and sense of humor of the two hosts, but also allowed people to see their wisdom and resilience in the face of problems. In the work of the moderator, how to deal with various issues skillfully is very important, and Sa Beining's answer is undoubtedly a good example.
Through this story, we can see the importance of emotional intelligence in interpersonal communication. Emotional intelligence is not only about being able to control your emotions, but also about how to build good relationships with others, how to communicate effectively, how to resolve awkward situations, and so on. In this rapidly changing society, people with high emotional intelligence tend to be better able to adapt to the environment and get along with others better, so as to gain more opportunities and success in the workplace and in life.
Finally, the story also teaches us that in our interactions with people, appropriate humor and ridicule can ease tension and increase the sense of closeness to each other. So, you might as well use some humorous words at the right time to defuse the awkward situation and make the communication more enjoyable and smooth.