Hao Shaowen's wife broke the news on the Internet how the campus can become a safe harbor

01 The current situation of school bullying - a "war" without gunpowder

Recently, #Hao Shaowen's wife exposed that her daughter was bullied on campus#-This news rushed to the hot search list for a while, causing an uproar on the Internet. It is not only because it involves the children of celebrities, but also because it touches the sensitive nerves of society: the children of celebrities are still like this, are our children safe at school?

It is reported that on January 2, actor Hao Shaowen's wife broke the news on social platforms, saying that her daughter was bullied by her classmates at Wycombe Abbey Experimental School in Hangzhou. With the exposure of the incident, the public's attention suddenly increased, and the local relevant departments immediately intervened in the investigation, and on the 3rd, the relevant departments of Xiaoshan District, Hangzhou City, responded to reporters that the school monitoring had been obtained, and the matter was still under further investigation.

To the surprise of many people, even the halo that celebrities come with has failed to protect their children from school bullying, and they have to use media exposure to protect their legitimate rights and interests when negotiations with the school have failed. It is not difficult to imagine the helplessness of children from ordinary families when they encounter a similar phenomenon of bullying.

It is no exaggeration to say that the current situation of school bullying is a "war" without gunpowder.

02 Official response - We will make every effort to investigate

After the bullying incident, the negative attitude of the relevant schools involved made parents quite dissatisfied, but fortunately, the relevant local departments responded quickly after the online public opinion, and the functional departments such as education and public security have carried out further investigations into the incident in conjunction with the territory, and they stated that they will deal with it in strict accordance with laws and regulations, effectively protect the legitimate rights and interests of minors, and make every effort to create a good environment for the healthy growth of teenagers.

In any case, it at least shows that the relevant authorities are concerned and take such incidents, and we hope that the investigation of this bullying incident will be brought to light.

03 Reflection on the education system – these two issues need to be clarified

When it comes to the phenomenon of school bullying, we are no strangers to it, for many years, there has always been news on the Internet from time to time that the children of who and whose family are bullied by their classmates, and the kind of bullying that hurts from all aspects of physical to mental harm has pierced the hearts of many parents.

Over the years, although the relevant education departments and schools have tried to cure this stubborn disease, and have made great efforts, I always feel that there has been little success.

The reason for this is simple, because these so-called "initiatives" are often thunderous and rainy, and do not fundamentally deter those who use bullying to restrain them. What's more, some schools cover up for all kinds of selfishness, resulting in the real victimized students rarely being able to seek justice for themselves, so that those who started the bullying will at most receive a few innocuous criticisms from the school.

Every child is unique and has equal rights, and their safety and mental health deserve to be highly valued by the school. We need to sort out these two questions:

First, does the current education system provide adequate protection for students?

Second, do school administrators have adequate educational resources and relevant training so that every teacher can identify and deal with bullying behavior in a timely manner?

04 The responsibility of the whole society - to build a safe fortress for children

The issue of school bullying affects everyone who cares about education and children's development.

Objectively speaking, school bullying is an educational problem all over the world, and it should not be regarded as an isolated incident, it is a systemic problem.

This means that it is not enough to rely on the unilateral efforts of schools, if we want to completely solve the problem of school bullying, we need not only the whole society to face and solve it: from family education to the shaping of school culture, from the establishment of the legal system to the improvement of social supervision mechanisms, every link is indispensable.

At the same time, we need to build a long-term mechanism: one that means that we can't just look for emergency solutions when problems arise, but focus on preventing and eradicating bullying.

Every child deserves to grow up in a caring and respectful environment, which is not only their right, but also our responsibility as a society. If an extremely bad bully is found, the relevant authorities must not tolerate it, but make the other party pay a price commensurate with his bad behavior. The cost is so great that the next time they want to bully their classmates, they will feel like they are throwing a rat into the trap.

05 Expect to revolutionize bullying in schools – not just waiting, but acting

It is undeniable that Hao Shaowen's daughter being bullied can get a lot of attention, which is naturally related to her family background. However, we cannot ignore the children of ordinary families who are bullied but are unable to defend their legitimate rights and interests, and they also need attention, protection and support.

At a deeper level, we look forward not only to the fair handling of this incident, but also to the catalyst for the development and enforcement of future anti-bullying laws and regulations, so that more children can grow up in a school environment free of violence and fear.

We acknowledge that for many children who are bullied, the pace of justice may be slow, but if each of us takes action, we can accelerate it.

Let's shift our focus from the case of Hao Shaowen's daughter to the broader social problem of school bullying. Through the efforts of education, law, family, social services and other parties, we jointly protect the safety of every child in school, and build a growth environment that can meet their needs for a sense of security.