Tang Jing's growth path
One day in 1968, a girl named Tang Jing was born in Nanjing. She was born in a literary family, and her parents were intellectuals engaged in literary creation. The young Tang Jing showed a talent for intelligence and Xi, and was sent by her parents to art school at the age of 6 to learn dance performance.
The stage seems to be Tang Jing's second home. Every day after class, she would stay in the dance studio and Xi practice by herself until late at night. For the sake of dance, she gave up her playmates and entertainment.
The hard work soon paid off, and Tang Jing's acting talent was gradually discovered by the teacher. At the age of 16, she was given the opportunity to join the local repertory troupe and began her formal acting training.
In the repertory troupe, Tang Jing met many excellent partners. Her lively and cheerful personality quickly impresses others. At the same time, Tang Jing also realized the hardships of life and the ruggedness of the road to acting.
But she didn't flinch in the slightest, just buried her head in the performance and worked harder to study. In the end, in the 90s, Tang Jing had successfully become one of the popular actresses.
Growing up, Tang Jing was nurtured by her parents and deeply understood the charm of knowledge and art. Perhaps, it is these accumulations that make her the strength to deal with the ups and downs of her career and relationship in the future.
True love that is desperate
In 1997, Tang Jing, who was on the rise in her career, met Wang Xinjun, a young actor who was still struggling in a crew. Don't look at Wang Xinjun was still a trick actor at the time, but Tang Jing keenly captured his indomitable spiritual temperament.
Every morning, Tang Jing can see Wang Xinjun getting up early and reading the script greedily; Every day between shooting, Wang Xinjun will also quietly observe the acting skills of his predecessors.
Perhaps it was Wang Xinjun's diligent attitude of never giving up that touched the softness in Tang Jing's heart. She took the initiative to approach Wang Xinjun, impart acting experience, and answer questions.
In the collision of two hearts day after day, they gradually sublimated into sparks of love.
At first, Tang Jing's family strongly opposed the relationship. After all, Wang Xinjun still had nothing at that time, how could he take care of Tang Jing. However, Tang Jing's love in her heart has taken firm root, and she resolutely decided to marry Wang Xinjun.
In 1999, they tied the knot and lived together.
For Wang Xinjun's acting career, Tang Jing did not hesitate to introduce him to join his repertory troupe to open up a broader space for development. She was willing to give up her performance opportunity and went all out to support Wang Xinjun to stand on the center stage.
When Wang Xinjun won the first important role, Tang Jing was ecstatic, as if the achievement was her own.
The sweetness of love flows in mutual respect and love. Tang Jing exchanged her sincerity for Wang Xinjun's return, and she firmly believed that the two would work together to spend this life.
Wholeheartedly support her husband
After getting married, Tang Jing devoted herself wholeheartedly to family life. She gently took care of Wang Xinjun's daily life and took care of the details of their lives. Even though Wang Xinjun was busy with work, Tang Jing never complained.
Because she knows that Wang Xinjun is working hard for his acting career.
When Wang Xinjun encountered acting problems, Tang Jing always listened patiently and gave professional guidance. She will carefully analyze the inner world of the characters and guide Wang Xinjun to better portray the characters.
Sometimes Tang Jing would even imitate the performance for Wang Xinjun to observe. Wang Xinjun has also made great progress in his acting skills as a result.
In order to let Wang Xinjun get more performance opportunities, Tang Jing used his connections to help him fight for resources. She would visit the director or producer and warmly recommend Wang Xinjun.
Although rejected, Tang Jing was never discouraged. Finally, with her efforts, Wang Xinjun was gradually promoted from the dragon set to the protagonist.
In 2002, Tang Jing gave birth to a son for Wang Xinjun. She happily quit the entertainment industry and devoted herself to the role of mother. Tang Jing doesn't want to alienate her family because of work, she hopes to accompany her son to grow up and let the child feel the warmth of mother's love.
Tang Jing used her own way to fully support Wang Xinjun in pursuing his acting dream. She is willing to live behind the scenes, not asking for anything in return, just hoping that the two of them will grow old together.
A sudden divorce blow
However, the good times did not last long, and in the years after marriage, Wang Xinjun's acting career gradually improved, and his fame and income continued to rise. Tang Jing thought that the two would work together, but she didn't want Wang Xinjun to gradually alienate her.
Wang Xinjun did not return home all year round, and suddenly filed for divorce in 2009.
This was a huge blow to Tang Jing. She couldn't understand why Wang Xinjun chose to divorce even though the two had known each other and loved each other, and she had always taken care of her family wholeheartedly.
When she learned of Wang Xinjun's relationship with Qin Hailu after her divorce, Tang Jing was even more heartbroken.
She was immersed in grief all day long, unable to extricate herself, and her mental state was extremely low. Sometimes Tang Jing would hug her son alone and cry bitterly, wondering if her understanding of marriage and love was wrong.
She can no longer believe in the so-called true love, and only feels that life is so impermanent.
If it weren't for the enlightenment of relatives and friends, it would have been almost impossible for Tang Jing to return to her normal life. She once wanted to go back to her old job, but every time she thought about it, sadness hit her heart again.
Tang Jing had to admit that the divorce had caused her a huge trauma and needed time to slowly repair.
Alone, start again
After a period of adjustment, with the help of relatives and friends, Tang Jing gradually walked out of the traumatic shadow brought about by the divorce. She refound the direction and motivation in life and started anew for herself and her children.
Tang Jing devoted all her energy to raising her children. She shoulders the burden of motherhood with both hands, and strives to make her children grow up healthy and happy. In order to give her child a complete home, Tang Jing never considered falling in love and getting married again.
She only hopes that the child can feel the love of his mother and will not be hurt by the divorce of his parents.
At the same time, Tang Jing also returned to work and returned to the entertainment industry to develop her career. With her own strength, she quickly transformed from an actor to an excellent producer. Tang Jing is good at discovering potential scripts and newcomers, and has produced many high-quality works.
The busyness of her career made Tang Jing temporarily forget the pain of the past, and she also found a new purpose in life.
Now, 13 years have passed since the divorce. The ups and downs of life in the past ten years have made Tang Jing go through vicissitudes, but she has not been defeated by fate, but has radiated new and powerful strength in the suffering.
Tang Jing shouldered the burden of family and career alone, and wrote a new page with wisdom and perseverance.
Her story proves that a woman can live a wonderful life despite her experiences. Tang Jing used her tenacity to gradually heal the wounds of the past and walked out of the road to rebirth.
Perception and enlightenment
After reading Tang Jing's life experience, we can't help but think deeply: To what extent can a woman dedicate herself to love? Tang Jing has paid so much for Wang Xinjun, but she still can't keep his sincerity.
Love is the union of two hearts, and one is indispensable. Tang Jing was wholeheartedly good to Wang Xinjun, but Wang Xinjun's heart had flown away. The lack of understanding and trust in married life cannot be compensated for by external devotion.
Tang Jing's love for Wang Xinjun failed to return in return.
Of course, you can't blame others for the change, and you can't blame fate. Tang Jing chose to face it soberly and no longer deceive herself. She started anew, focused on her career and family, and freed herself from negative emotions.
This positive force has rejuvenated her.
Tang Jing's story tells us that it is inevitable to encounter pain in life, but what matters is how to face it. We can choose to be passive or we can actively seek hope.
Tang Jing's choice is inspiring, and she uses practical actions to explain what it means to be an independent woman.
There are no ifs in life, the past is in the past. Tang Jing did not dwell on the past, but lived in the present to create a better future for herself and her family. Her courage and wisdom deserve to be learned Xi everyone.
Let go of sadness and start anew, only with love and passion for life, can we live a wonderful life.