Preface
A love, no matter how much you and I give, we can't keep a wandering heart.
When the marriage broke down so bleakly, where should Tang Jing, a woman, go?
1. In 1999, I met in the play, and the little love between sister and brother was indeed lucky
In 1991, Tang Jing was selected for the Kongzheng Drama Troupe and began her career as an actor.
On this day, she came to the troupe to report excitedly, which means that her dream of acting is about to come true.
Growing up, she aspired to be an excellent actor since she was a child, and she did not hesitate to stay away from her family and go to Beijing to study alone.
Now, she has successfully passed the layers of selection to enter the famous Air Force Repertory Troupe, which is undoubtedly the proudest moment of her life.
She knew it was going to be a long and difficult process, but she was ready to move forward.
In 1997, Wang Xinjun, who was seven years younger than her, also joined a repertory troupe.
In 1999, the two repertory troupes cooperated, Tang Jing and Wang Xinjun met and fell in love at first sight.
Although Wang Xinjun is a young actor, Tang Jing is attracted by his introverted and stable personality.
She likes men to give her a sense of security and dependence, and Wang Xinjun has this trait.
The two met unexpectedly in a rehearsal, and Tang Jing saw a soul as firm and persistent as her from Wang Xinjun's eyes focused on acting.
This similarity became the opportunity for them to quickly come together.
Wang Xinjun was also deeply impressed by Tang Jing's faint scholarly scent.
The grace and generosity of her gestures made Wang Xinjun unable to take his eyes off, and for the first time he had the urge to protect a woman.
Since then, the two have been working together more and more speculatively, and they soon fell in love.
Tang Jing's parents were not optimistic about this little son-in-law and were worried about whether he was sincere.
Indeed, Wang Xinjun's status was not high at that time, and he was still unstable.
As the older generation, they are more practical.
Tang Jing insisted on being with Wang Xinjun.
In the end, the parents can only let go and let their daughter decide her own marriage.
They knew that Tang Jing's daughter had her own opinions, and since she believed in Wang Xinjun like this, let her try.
Anyway, Tang Jing's emotional road has been long enough, and she should be allowed to master her life choices by herself.
Second, in 2002, she devoted all her resources to support her husband
Soon after marriage, Tang Jing ushered in the most difficult moment in her life - childbirth.
In 2002, she was tortured alone in the hospital for a long time, and finally gave birth to her son.
It was a long and painful process, and she felt physically exhausted and anxious like never before.
But her husband was not by her side, which made her even more vulnerable and lonely.
She needed her husband's support, but Wang Xinjun never appeared.
Exhausted, she has been looking forward to the arrival of her husband.
However, Wang Xinjun didn't arrive in a hurry until the next day, and she took the initiative to call to urge him! Wang Xinjun was very apologetic about this, but Tang Jing still felt that he was a little distant.
Tang Jing, who had not slept all night, faintly felt the signs of marriage change at that time.
But she forgave her husband leniently and did not blame much.
After all, Wang Xinjun was still running for his career at that time, and she could understand her husband's struggle for a living.
She didn't want to be a stumbling block for her husband, and she didn't want to be estranged between the two.
So she decided to continue to believe in this man and believe in their marriage.
She will do her best to be the backbone of this family and let her husband pursue the peak of his career.
She knew that her tolerance and understanding would be the cornerstone of their long-term marriage.
Tang Jing retreated behind the scenes and became a full-time wife with her husband and children.
She not only takes care of the old and young in the family, but also serves her in-laws carefully.
Let Wang Xinjun rest assured that he will go out and work hard, and he doesn't have to worry about family trivialities.
Tang Jing took care of everything properly, and let Wang Xinjun just fight hard outside with the thoughts and expectations of his wife and children.
She believes that her husband will definitely be able to break out in the entertainment industry with his own strength.
For this reason, she is willing to give everything she has and give up who else she has.
Wang Xinjun ran around for the drama and often did not go home for several months.
Tang Jing often cooks and sends it to the crew, trying her best to take care of her husband's daily life.
However, Wang Xinjun always had a cold face and asked her not to send it anymore, just take care of her son at home.
Although Tang Jing was disappointed by her husband's attitude, she still understood that he was devoted to his work.
She is convinced that love needs to be nurtured with time and understanding, so she did not give up.
Tang Jing often called to care about her husband, but she was often perfunctory by her husband, and then hung up in a hurry.
But she didn't take it to heart, and still gently encouraged her husband to cheer.
Tang Jing hopes that she can become Wang Xinjun's strongest backing, so that he has no worries.
3. In 2009, cracks really appeared, and the divorce of the small family ended
Under Tang Jing's full care, Wang Xin's military career gradually improved.
However, the people around him were always talking, which made Wang Xinjun's self-esteem unbearable.
When he even saw his neighbors, he felt a sense of pain on his back.
It turned out that everyone was chewing their tongues behind their backs, saying that Wang Xinjun relied on Tang Jing's fame and fortune to ascend to the throne.
This made Wang Xinjun doubt his strength, and he also supported Tang Jing wholeheartedly.
The first unbridgeable chasm arose in this small family.
Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing drifted apart, and quarrels became more and more frequent.
Tang Jing felt the coming of the marriage crisis, but she still wishfully wanted to maintain this crumbling relationship.
She couldn't understand why her husband was suddenly cold and what she had done wrong.
She defended and retreated in every possible way, hoping to regain her former warmth.
All she received, however, was Wang Xinjun's increasingly obvious disregard.
In 2009, something unavoidable finally happened - Wang Xinjun filed for divorce.
Tang Jing was instantly stunned, she never thought that this kind of result would occur.
She thought that she was considerate and supportive enough to support her husband, but Wang Xinjun still chose to leave.
Tang Jing tried her best to save this marriage, but Wang Xinjun suddenly became ruthless to her.
She realized that this man's heart, she still couldn't keep it after all.
Parents also persuaded Tang Jing not to ask for hardships anymore, and let go when it was time to let go.
Tang Jing's heart is like a knife, she really gave this marriage all her sincerity, but she didn't expect to usher in such an ending.
However, since Wang Xinjun is determined to divorce, she has no strength to keep it.
In the end, Tang Jing accepted the reality and officially divorced Wang Xinjun.
Fourth, revitalize and move forward bravely
The child was still young, and she had to go back to work and work hard to earn money to support her family.
Tang Jing's whole person was in extreme pain and sadness, she didn't understand what she was not doing well enough, why she couldn't keep her husband's heart.
She used to believe in this marriage so much, and loved Wang Xinjun so wholeheartedly.
However, everything came to naught in the blink of an eye.
This betrayal and despair left her unable to eat and sleepless at night.
At this time, her old friend Fan Ming appeared.
Fan Ming has always had a crush on Tang Jing and pursued her back then.
Now seeing her suffering, he is distressed, and often comes over to enlighten and encourage her to cheer up for the sake of the child.
Fan Ming's gentle and meticulous care allowed Tang Jing to gradually regain the strength to live.
"For the sake of the child", this sentence struck Tang Jing's heart.
So, with the help of Fan Ming and her parents, Tang Jing gradually walked out of the shadow of her ex-husband's abandonment and regained her strength.
Tang Jing gradually transformed from an actor to a producer.
With her network resources in the circle, she has successfully created a number of high-grossing blockbusters, such as "Operation Red Sea", etc., to wash away the haze of previous failed marriages.
Success gave Tang Jing a lot of comfort, which proved that she was completely capable of being alone.
The success of her career has also raised her self-confidence and wisdom to a higher level.
She is no longer a woman who needs to be relied on and protected, but a strong woman who stands out in the circle.
Today's Tang Jing is very accustomed to living alone and no longer considers remarriage.
She was promoted to deputy director of an art center in the navy, and she still shines brightly in the entertainment industry.
Tang Jing, who wholeheartedly supported her husband back then, is now strong and independent, and has reached a higher level in her career.
She used her strength to return all the right to speak to herself.
The ups and downs of these years have not broken her, but allowed her to thrive.
Tang Jing is still living enthusiastically and sharply.
epilogue
In the end, Wang Xinjun couldn't keep up with her.
This man, probably in this life, will never be able to understand Tang Jing's sincerity in his wholehearted dedication to him at the beginning.
What he missed was not only a successful woman, but also a sincere love.