The remarks and deeds of celebrities will attract everyone to come and be keen to discuss, especially their emotional life and marital status, and it has become the focus of discussion among the masses after tea and dinner. Some seem to be calm on the surface, but in private they are turbulent; There are also those who love each other, but are regarded as nondescript by the outside world.
The lifestyle of celebrity couples in the entertainment industry may seem a little deviant, and it can even be said to be "wonderful", however, who can truly understand their innermost desires and pursuits? Perhaps, the most critical factor in maintaining a relationship is the understanding and tolerance of both parties living in the spotlight
Everyone is very susceptible to distortion and exaggeration, and the stars write their own love stories in their own maverick ways, and we, the spectators, can only be the audience, and it is difficult to truly feel the joys and sorrows, and the only thing we can do is to listen to and understand their stories with an open and tolerant attitude.
From the acquaintance of friends to the love for 20 years, Wu Junru embraced freedom and resolutely opposed the shackles of marriage.
At a gorgeous reception in 1993, Wu Junru and Chen Kexin met for the first time, and the talented director Chen Kexin fell in love with this bold and generous woman at first sight, and his heart was full of deep loveIn her eyes, love is just a matter between two people, a marriage contract does not represent anything, and even when Chen Kexin mentions Wu Junru, he will only call her "Miss Wu", and never call "wife", which seems to be a little estranged, which just reflects Wu Junru's firm pursuit of freedom and independence.
Two adults have lived together for several years and are still able to maintain their own unique and separate living areas. They cleverly divided the bedroom into two relatively separate spaces, and the daily expenses were allocated and paid strictly according to the AA system.
This unique and unique way of life may be the embodiment of the "love of freedom" that Wu Junru yearns for and pursues!
For her, as long as she can spend time with the person she loves, she is satisfied, and marriage may limit her life.
Although the "Dink couple" have a deep relationship, due to the large difference in personality and Carina Lau's serious cleanliness problem, they have to take special measures such as sleeping in separate rooms and sharing bathrooms in their lives.
In the entertainment industry, there is such a high-profile "Dink couple" - Carina Lau and Tony Leung. They have reached a consensus before entering the palace of marriage and decided not to have children in the future.
In front of the public, they always show a loving and sweet image, which can be called a model of "model couple".
If you look closely, it is not difficult to see that their personality traits are diametrically opposed. Carina Lau is enthusiastic, as warm as the sun; Tony Leung, on the other hand, is restrained and reserved, taciturn like a pool of quiet lake.
It seems that the combination of "ice and fire" poles can produce a wonderful chemical reaction between each other.
In the intimate corners that the camera can't capture, the lifestyle of this "loving couple" is surprisingly "different". It turned out that Carina Lau suffered from an extremely serious cleanliness habit, while Tony Leung was a slightly sloppy man.
In order to adapt to each other, they had to choose to sleep in separate rooms, and even the bathrooms had to be used separately.
Once, after Shu Qi used the bathroom in Carina Lau's house, Carina Lau did not hesitate to dismantle the entire bathroom and redecorate it. When she's away from work, she even changes everything in the hotel to make sure the environment is clean and immaculate.
The spotless environment seems to be the cornerstone of Carina Lau's happy life.
Occupational pressures have kept the newlyweds separated for up to 300 days without seeing each other, and the only way to maintain their emotional connection is through the Internet.
Xu Zheng and Tao Hong's generosity: Tao Hong fully supported her husband's career development and turned a blind eye to the peach scandal.
Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao are undoubtedly typical representatives of a pair of "long-distance relationships". Due to their different career priorities, they lived apart for a long time after marriage, and in the most extreme case, they had to wait a full 300 days before they could see each other.
In the past, there were very few opportunities for video conversations between them, and most of the time they could only use the text of an email to convey their emotional connection to each other.
Recalling that when they first met and fell in love, it can be called a modern version of the "man chasing women" love drama. When the talented singer Li Ronghao fell in love with Rainie Yang at first sight, his pursuit offensive was like fierce artillery fire on the battlefield, crazy and enthusiastic.
It wasn't until 2015 that the much-anticipated relationship was officially made public.
In the process of sweet and romantic love, Li Ronghao always showed their love moments in public without hesitation, and even did not forget to confess to Rainie Yang affectionately on the stage of the concert.
After four years of long-distance love, they finally entered the palace of marriage. However, soon after their marriage, they had to start living separately due to work. For the sake of their respective careers, Rainie Yang's focus has always been on Taiwan, while Li Ronghao has devoted himself to the mainland market.
Even if they meet by chance at work, they can only pass by in a hurry.
This long-term separation of lifestyles has undoubtedly aroused questions and speculation about their marital status from all walks of life. Whenever rumors about the "marriage change" appear, they will always publicly clarify through social media as soon as possible, and express their deep feelings for each other by "shouting in the air".
Compared with the long-distance relationship between Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao, Xu Zheng and Tao Hong's married life is equally eye-catching. They became acquainted by co-starring in a TV series, and with Tao Hong's full support, the originally little-known Xu Zheng gradually grew into a hot director today.
What is amazing is that although Xu Zheng has been repeatedly exposed to scandals with his junior sisters, and even suspected of cheating in marriage, Tao Hong chose to remain silent about it. She once said frankly that as long as she remains spiritually faithful, physical infidelity is not an unforgivable thing.
It can be seen that in the concept of Xu Tao and his wife, wealth and status are obviously more important than loyalty.
Their love road is full of ups and downs and twists and turns, and they have gone through many splits and reunions, and finally came together. However, Guo Xiaodong's traditional concept is stronger, and Cheng Lisha is forced to take on the role of a housewife, and even needs to abide by the rules of wearing skirts.
The haze of Zhang Jiani and Mai Chao is shrouded: although Mai Chao's family is wealthy, he has not been recognized by his family. After obtaining the certificate in a low-key manner, Maichao's derailment caused a marriage turmoil.
Fortunately, in the end, they still came together firmly and walked into the sacred marriage hall hand in hand! However, when she was married, Cheng Lisha was surprised to realize that the person she was marrying was actually a traditional person with a deep patriarchal and old-fashioned concept.
Guo Xiaodong grew up in an ordinary and barren mountain village, deeply influenced by the feudal habits of his hometown, he firmly believes in the principle of "male outside, female inside", and expects his wife to become a virtuous and virtuous full-time housewife.
What's even more unacceptable is that Guo Xiaodong even strictly regulates Cheng Lisha's dress in daily life, only allowing her to choose knee-length skirts, strictly prohibiting her from showing her sexy and charming side.
In the face of such pressure, Cheng Lisha felt very troubled, and even went to great lengths to give birth to a second child and saw that her ideal wife was bound by family responsibilities, and many people couldn't help but sigh and deeply regret it.
In contrast, Zhang Jiani's marriage road is full of gloom, and more problems stem from the strong opposition of the family. Her husband Maichao's family is superior, but his mother's family does not agree with her son's decision to marry an entertainer, and he has never received the blessing he deserves.
Although the two only received their marriage certificate in a low-key manner and did not hold a grand wedding, a scandal soon followed, and the newlyweds fell into a whirlpool of marital crisis, and there were many questions about whether their union did not live up to its name.
Whether it is Cheng Lisha or Zhang Jiani, they have encountered many obstacles and doubts on the road to marriage. Whether they can finally overcome the opposition of their families and the test of love, only time will give a fair answer.
The most precious thing about love is that there is no fixed answer, and there is no need to judge right or wrong, and each couple who loves each other is writing their own chapter of love in their own unique way.
Some people seek freedom and do not want to be bound by the shackles of marriage; Some people are as enthusiastic as fire, which is in stark contrast to the other half; There are also those who stick to tradition and expect their wives to maintain the image of a traditional virtuous woman...... Whatever the way they take, as long as they are based on sincere love, treat each other sincerely and cherish each other unreservedly, then their love should be blessed by us.
After all, no one has the right to judge the happiness of others! And only the protagonists of marriage are the most authoritative candidates to examine their marriage and love.
What we can do is to listen deeply and fully understand these unique life stories with an open-minded and inclusive mindset.