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On August 8, 2013, a special transnational wedding was held in a village in Tangshan, Hebei Province, and the bride Yan Shuying was a rich girl from Malaysia.
And the groom Lee Kang-woo was a little unbelievable, he was carried in. Li Kangyu, a native of rural Tangshan, fell ill at the age of four and has been paralyzed in bed for 31 years.
Yan Shuying did not hesitate to abandon everything in order to marry him and came to a foreign country alone.
What kind of love can make a healthy and beautiful girl willing to marry a rural guy who has been paralyzed for many years?
Now that 10 years have passed, how are they doing?
The source in this article comes from the official media (Yanzhao Metropolis Daily Overview News), published on June 21, 2017, but in order to improve the readability of the article, the details may be polished, please read sensibly, for reference only!
Thousands of miles of marriage network pulling
In 2017, as soon as a movie "Kuala Lumpur Falls in Love with Tangshan" was released, it sparked heated discussions on the whole network.
The film tells the story of a Malaysian girl who chases a paralyzed boy in China for thousands of miles, and this is adapted from a true story.
In 2011, it was the most popular era of QQ, and Li Kangyu unexpectedly met the Malaysian girl Yan Shuying from this.
In 1978, she was born in the urban area of Kuala Lumpur, with an older brother and two younger sisters, and her family is very advantageous, and she was raised as a princess since she was a child.
Even the grades have always been among the best, plus she is beautiful, she is a popular goddess at school, and she is "someone else's child" in the community.
I grew up smoothly, studied in medical school in college, and was recruited by a prestigious hospital as soon as I graduated, with a monthly income of 5,000.
thought that her life would go on like this, but she didn't expect fate to play a joke on them.
Lee Kang-woo, a person who has never been out of the house, let alone going abroad, Malaysia is out of reach for him.
He was particularly excited when he came into contact with the outside world for the first time, chatted with Yan Shuying until he forgot himself, and took the initiative to tell her his story.
The mood was both apprehensive and scared, thinking that the girl would be scared away, but I didn't expect her to be extraordinarily brave.
After hearing about Lee Kang-woo's unfortunate experience, the girl felt sad for him and admired him for being so optimistic and strong. As a person who has had a smooth life, I can't imagine that there are such difficult people in the world!
After this heart-to-heart meeting, the two became close friends who talked about everything, and the relationship became closer and closer.
On a girl's birthday, Li Kangyu prepared for a long time in advance, buying flowers and cakes and so on.
When it came to the agreed online time, the two also turned on the video, this was the first time they met, and they had always sent a photo of each other before.
At the first sight, Yan Shuying received a big surprise, she didn't expect the boy to prepare her favorite lilies and cream cakes.
"Happy birthday, Yan Shuying! I know you can't eat it, but I still want to buy it. ”
"Thank you, I love it! This is the most meaningful and memorable birthday I have ever had, and I am really happy. ”
This birthday has brought the two hearts closer.
They both silently liked each other, but they didn't dare to confess until an accident came.
One day, Yan Shuying was on her way to work when she suddenly rushed out of a runaway car. Fortunately, she hid in time, but she was rubbed and suffered a slight fall on her leg.
Because of this thrilling car accident, she almost said goodbye to this world, and it also made Yan Shuying realize that life is not sure how long she will live, but if she lives for one day, she should not leave herself with regrets and regrets, so she made up her mind to confess.
After going online that night, she came up and confused Li Kangyu with the first sentence.
"I like you, let's be together!"
"Okay, hurry up and give me an accurate word!"
After he reacted, he didn't dare to agree, how could a person like himself be worthy of such a good girl!
The "lucky one" favored by the Grim Reaper
In 1975, in a village in Tangshan, Hebei Province, Li Kangyu was born.
Before him, the family gave birth to three daughters, and when he finally got old, he became the darling of the family.
Even if the family is not wealthy, almost all the good ones are given to him first.
thought that Lee Kang-woo would grow up in such a pampered child, but the bad news arrived first.
On July 27, 1976, the Tangshan earthquake caused heavy casualties, but Li Kangyu's family was lucky to escape.
But death seems to be unable to get along with him, and bad things come to the door again.
After the earthquake, the home finally recovered, but Li Kangyu suddenly fell ill and had a high fever. Afraid that something would happen to the child, the parents immediately went to the hospital, but no symptoms were detected, and the fever could only be reduced.
As a result of this repeated fever, his body has always been weak, and his development is particularly stunted compared to his peers, and he will not be able to stand until he is 3 years old.
I thought it would be nice to be bigger, but I didn't expect it to get worse the more I grew up.
Until he was 6 years old, he couldn't even stand up, let alone walk.
Li's father and mother were so frightened that they hurriedly took their son to the hospital, but there was no problem with the examination, and the two took the child to the big hospital in the city.
After a consultation with a specialist, I learned that my son actually had rheumatoid.
Because it has been delayed for too long, there is no cure, and the child will be unable to stand as he grows older, and his lower legs will atrophy, and finally he will even be paralyzed.
And Li Kangyu's life also fell to a low point from that time.
The Li family's parents still did not give up, and used various drugs combined with traditional Chinese medicine and acupuncture to treat their son, but there was still no improvement. Even a year later, Lee Kang-woo was completely paralyzed in bed.
At the age of 7, he couldn't understand why other children could run and go to school freely, while he could only lie in bed and not move.
Gradually, his personality became more and more withdrawn, and he did not like to talk or laugh.
The parents saw the pain in their eyes and hearts, so they thought of a way to help their son come out.
After work, the two went to the thrift market together and spent a lot of money to buy an old TV for their son.
After turning it on and seeing the people on the TV, Lee Kang-woo also smiled for the first time in a long time.
In this way, accompanied by TV, he learned to speak, write, etc., and spent a fairly good childhood.
However, as soon as life improved, bad luck struck again.
In 1996, Li Kangyu's father died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and his mother left a few years later.
At that time, his sisters were also married, and after several discussions, he finally lived with the third sister's family.
The days under the fence were painful, coupled with Kang Yu's physical disability and need to be taken care of, that time was almost the darkest moment in his life, and once made him want to follow his mother.
It wasn't until he inadvertently registered QQ and met the Malaysian girl Shuying that his life took on a bright edge.
Trek through mountains and rivers to love you
After being accused, Kang Yu, who had low self-esteem, couldn't understand how anyone in the world could like him.
In order not to delay Sook-young, he began to hide and reduce the time of chatting.
I thought that the girl would give up slowly, but I didn't expect her to be so bold.
In November 2011, Shuying, who was left out in the cold, did not give up, she thought that she must catch up with Li Kangyu, so she secretly came to China without telling everyone.
After arriving in China, I sent him a message: I'm in China, I'm lost, you come and pick me up!
Li Kangyu, who received the news, was directly frightened, and immediately called the girl and arranged for someone to pick her up at the airport.
It wasn't until Shuying came to the house that his hanging heart fell to the ground.
After the two met, there was no strangeness, but they became closer. During the two weeks at Kang Yu's house, Shuying took care of him with all her heart and soul without a trace of dislike.
After Li Kangyu saw the girl's determination, he also decided to go crazy and agreed to her confession.
During the time they lived together, they also got to know each other to a certain extent, and for the future of the two, Yan Shuying was ready to return to China and confess to her parents.
After returning to Malaysia, I arranged my work and handed in my resignation, leaving no way back for myself. went home directly and told his parents that he was in love with a paralyzed boy in China and wanted to marry in China.
As soon as they heard that it was a foreign country and that the other party was still disabled, their parents resolutely objected, and they confiscated Yan Shuying's mobile phone and locked her in the house for reflection.
Yan Shuying's various hunger strikes failed to get her parents to agree, and both parties fell into a stage of exhaustion and stalemate, seeing that so much time had passed, she decided to calm down with her parents and have a good talk.
"Mom and Dad, I want to marry Li Kangyu after careful consideration, I know that you are afraid that I will have a bad life, but he is really good. ”
"Can you come with me to meet him and draw conclusions?"
After reaching an agreement, Yan Shuying's brother and sister came to China to meet Lee Kang-woo, and after returning to China, they never said anything to refute with their parents.
"You think about it, this road is too difficult, and once you are sure, you really can't turn back. ”
"It's really decided, we all bless you, we just hope you can live happily!"
With her family's approval, she re-embarked on her journey from Malaysia to Tangshan, China, in 2013.
The two finally received their certificates on July 24, 2013, and held a wedding on August 8, 2013, becoming officially husband and wife.
The final ending
After they got married, it didn't take long for them to become popular because of the report that "a Malaysian girl chased a paralyzed man in China for thousands of miles".
Reporters from major media came to his home for interviews, and people on the Internet were also moved by Li Kangyu's positive attitude towards life, and they also launched a love donation.
And he has also become a national inspirational star, started the road of national inspirational speeches, and his life is getting better and better.
The money earned through the speech, Li Kangyu and his wife also used it to build a foundation for the disabled, hoping to help the disabled group.
The rest of the money was used to open a store, and everything was slowly getting better.
But the hemp rope is broken in detail, and bad luck is looking for miserable people.
In 2016, Li Kangyu's condition suddenly deteriorated, and the whole person was tortured as if he was no longer human.
The surgery was done on the advice of the doctor, and luckily the surgery was successful.
Unexpectedly, just after being discharged from the hospital, it became more serious, and the condition worsened worse than before the operation.
Lee Kang-woo, who couldn't hold on any longer, finally died in January 2017 at the age of 42.
After her husband's death, everyone was persuading Yan Shuying to remarry and return to Malaysia to live again, but she didn't care.
still stays in China, choosing to guard the small home of the two and the small shop that slowly reminisces.
After her grief, she regained her strengths and wanted to fulfill her husband's unfulfilled dream of becoming a "super speaker".
So she began to tour the country, telling her story and that of her husband to everyone, hoping to encourage those who were struggling and give them a glimmer of hope.
Later, the story of the two was also favored by the director, which led to the opening movie "Kuala Lumpur Falls in Love with Tangshan".
brief summary
The love is separated by mountains and seas, and the mountains and seas can be flat!
Yan Shuying and Lee Kangyu's love is like this, love is love, no matter how difficult the road ahead is, it is still against all odds, just to come to you.
Now that Li Kangyu has passed away for 6 years, Yan Shuying is still staying in the small shop where the two used to be, reminiscing about the beauty of falling in love and getting married.
However, Siren has passed away, I hope she can come out as soon as possible and go to a new life!
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