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I spent two years with my cousin-in-law, Xiaofang, who has a gentle and virtuous personality and is deeply loved by the whole family. My cousin is busy with work, and Xiaofang is alone at home with her husband and children, and I often go to their house to help take care of their little daughter. Xiaofang and I are like relatives, I respect her, and she also treats me as her own brother.
A year ago, Xiaofang had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and almost threatened her life. Since then, she has not been in good health, and I am more concerned about her condition.
That afternoon, I went to my cousin's house as usual to visit Xiaofang and my niece. The doorbell rang several times, but no one answered in the house. My niece is still in class, and my cousin is not at home. I suddenly had a bad feeling in my heart.
"Xiaofang, are you at home? I'm Li Ming!" I shouted.
The room was silent, and there was no response. This is not normal, Xiaofang's physical condition should not be left at home alone. I tried to open the door and found it unlocked. My heart rose to my throat and I walked briskly into the house.
"Xiaofang, where are you?" I shouted and searched when I suddenly heard a noise in the direction of the bathroom. I hurriedly ran over and found that the bathroom door was ajar, and Xiao Fang's body was lying on the floor, her eyes closed and her whole body convulsed.
"Xiaofang, wake up, cheer up!" I exclaimed. Upon closer inspection, her face turned purple and she was unconscious. I immediately realized that Xiaofang might have been caused by a sudden cerebral hemorrhage while taking a bath.
I quickly picked up Xiaofang's body and moved her to the living room, so that she could lie flat on the ground. I gave her rescue breaths first, and then CPR. At the same time, he took out his mobile phone and called an ambulance. I was administering first aid while anxiously waiting for the ambulance to arrive.
"Xiaofang, you must hold on! The ambulance will arrive soon. I said loudly as I gave her CPR.
Finally, the sound of the ambulance came from far and near. The nurses and doctors rushed to the rescue and quickly put Xiaofang in the ambulance. I also followed into the car, holding Xiaofang's hand and looking at her intently.
"Dr. Li, is my sister-in-law in serious condition?" I asked apprehensively.
"The situation is critical, and I have to rush to the hospital for emergency treatment. Young man, your first aid may have saved your sister-in-law's life. Dr. Lee said as he busied.
I breathed a sigh of relief and thanked God that it was still too late for Xiaofang to be sent to the hospital.
"Cousin, where are you? Come home, Xiaofang has a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and I have already sent her to the hospital!" I dialed my cousin's phone and said anxiously.
"What?! I'll go home right away!" My cousin's voice was full
Outside the emergency room of the hospital, I waited anxiously. It took a long time for the doctor to come out of it.
"Doctor, how is my sister-in-law?" I hurriedly asked.
"After resuscitation, the patient is out of danger. But it needs to be observed. The doctor said.
I breathed a sigh of relief and thanked me repeatedly. At this time, my cousin also hurried to the hospital.
"Obviously, thank you so much! If you hadn't found out early and done first aid, Xiaofang would have been in danger. My cousin clasped my hand and said gratefully.
"Cousin, this is what I should do. Xiaofang's health has not been very good during this time, I often go to your house to see her, and I happened to find it today, so I sent her to the hospital. I said modestly.
After two days, Xiaofang's condition finally stabilized and she was transferred to a general ward. Because my cousin had to take care of Xiaofang and her daughter, I temporarily took leave to accompany her in the hospital. I also often visit Xiaofang in the hospital.
"Obviously, thank you so much. If you hadn't saved me, I might have left my husband and daughter. Xiao Fang said to me.
"Xiaofang, don't say that. I'm also your family, and it's my duty to save you. I laughed.
My cousin also expressed his gratitude to me again and again, and felt that I was a great benefactor of his family. I was embarrassed and kept saying that I was just doing what I was supposed to do.
After some time, Xiaofang's body finally recovered and was discharged from the hospital. My cousin is working from home temporarily in order to take care of her. I also often go to their house to help with cooking, babysitting my niece, etc.
However, I noticed that Xiao Fang's attitude towards me was not quite right. She would call me a lot to talk to, and sometimes she would say things that made me feel ambiguous.
"Xiaofang, how are you feeling today?" Once, I asked when I went to see her as usual.
"I feel good every day with you. Xiao Fang said with a smile.
I was a little surprised, and joked with a smile, "I'm your brother, and I'm embarrassed for you to say such things." ”
Xiaofang's reaction bothered me a little, and I decided to talk to my cousin.
"Cousin, don't you think Xiaofang's attitude towards me has been a bit abnormal lately?" I asked tentatively.
"What kind of abnormal attitude? Don't think about it!" My cousin frowned.
I told him about Xiaofang's recent chat with me, and my cousin's face became more and more ugly when he heard it.
"Obviously, I warn you to stay away from my wife!" My cousin suddenly became angry and said, "Do you think that if you save someone's life, you can take advantage of it?"
After being misunderstood by my cousin, I felt very sad. My cousin is my dearest person, he doesn't believe me, I have nothing to say.
Two days later, my cousin called me out of the blue. I was worried that he would rebuke me again.
"Obviously, I'm sorry, I blamed you the other day. As soon as I entered the door, my cousin said apologetically.
"Cousin, what do you mean by that?" I asked, puzzled.
"It was Xiaofang herself who admitted to me that she had a misunderstanding. The cousin sighed heavily, "She said that since you saved her life, she has become dependent on you. In addition, I am often away from home, and she is lonely, so she often chats with you and says things that make you misunderstand. It's all her problem, it's not about you. Obviously, I'm so sorry, I shouldn't have doubted you. ”
It dawned on me that it was Xiaofang who had become dependent, which led to her abnormal behavior.
"Cousin, you don't need to apologize to me. I can understand Xiaofang's feelings. She has just recovered physically, and she also needs to rely on psychologically. During this time, you are busy with work, she is home alone, and I should care more about her. I said.
"Obviously, you're so good. Even if I blame you, you forgive me graciously. My cousin said movingly.
"Don't say that, cousin. We are a family, and we shouldn't worry about this as a family. I laughed.
After this incident, I took the initiative to reduce the number of visits to my cousin's house, because I knew that Xiaofang needed time to correct her dependence.
One day, my cousin came to me out of the blue and said that Xiaofang wanted to see me. I was a little surprised, but I went anyway.
"Obviously, I want to apologize to you. Xiao Fang said apologetically, "I shouldn't be dependent on you just because you saved me." I'm really sorry for the trouble caused to you during this time. ”
"Xiaofang, you don't have to feel sorry. Your body is just right, and it is normal for you to become dependent. I don't bother, we're still family. I said mildly.
"Mingming, thank you for always being so considerate of me. Xiao Fang said with red eyes.
"You have to take care of yourself and spend more time with your cousin and niece. They need you the most. I admonished.
Since then, Xiaofang has gradually gotten out of the psychology of dependence, and her relationship with her cousin has become better and better. I visit their family occasionally, and we're still as close as a family. I'm also glad to see Xiaofang regain her healthy and happy life.
This incident made me understand that there is a need for more understanding and tolerance in the face of my family. My cousin and Xiaofang are so important to me, I have to tolerate their shortcomings, not care about the grievances I have suffered. The most precious thing between relatives is affection.
After experiencing this, I reflected on whether I was not doing well enough and causing misunderstanding among others.
One day, my cousin came to me and took the initiative to bring it up.
"Obviously, my sister-in-law misunderstood you, and I thought about it a lot. Actually, the main responsibility lies with me. The cousin sighed.
"Cousin, where did you start with that?" I asked, puzzled.
"During this time, I was so focused on my work that I neglected my family and sister-in-law. She was alone at home, mentally and physically cared for, and I couldn't be with her. That's why she looks for support in you. The cousin said reproachfully.
"Cousin, you don't need to blame yourself. You also work for your family. It's just that this time happens to be a bit busy. I comforted.
"No, it's my responsibility. I figured out that from now on, I will spend more time with my sister-in-law and daughter. It's the family that counts. The cousin said firmly.
"Cousin, it's good that you think so. As long as we all care for each other, there will be no estrangement between relatives. I encouraged.
"Mingming, thank you for bringing me to my senses. Actually, I should have been grateful for your concern for your sister-in-law before. It's just that I have a problem in my heart that I doubt you. I'm really sorry. My cousin said apologetically.
"Cousin, you don't need to apologize to me. Between relatives, there is no need for so much etiquette. I just hope that my sister-in-law is in good health and that your family is happy. I laughed.
"Cousin, you and your sister-in-law are also my most important family members. We've always been family. I say from the bottom of my heart.
Since then, I have taken the initiative to reduce the number of visits to my cousin's house so that the two of them can spend more time together. Sometimes my cousin is busy, and he will ask me to take care of my sister-in-law and niece. My sister-in-law's body is gradually recovering, and her spirit is much more relaxed.
I often silently wish their family, hope that my cousin and sister-in-law will always be healthy and happy, and that my niece will grow up happily. The most precious thing between relatives is affection, and I will always love them as a family.
Time flies, and another year has passed in the blink of an eye. My cousin's family's life gradually got back on track, and my relationship with them became more and more harmonious.
One day, my cousin and sister-in-law suddenly came to my house and said that they were coming to see me.
"Obviously, our family wants to thank you. My cousin said with a smile.
"Thank me for what?" I asked, puzzled.
"I want to thank you for saving my sister-in-law in the first place and forgiving her mistakes. My cousin said.
"That's what I'm supposed to do. You're welcome. I laughed.
"No, you've given us so much help and care over the past year. We have to thank you in person. The sister-in-law said seriously.
"Sister-in-law, you are my most important family. These are the things I should do. "I'm a little embarrassed.
"Obviously, I know that in the past year, in order to avoid suspicion, you have deliberately reduced the number of times you come to our house. It's also inconvenient for you. The cousin said suddenly.
I was stunned, I didn't expect my cousin to notice this.
"Cousin, I'm not inconvenient, I just want to give you more alone time as a family. I'm doing well on my own. I explained.
"Obviously, we all understand your kindness. But you don't need to avoid us, you are always welcome as a family. The sister-in-law said gently.
"My sister-in-law is right. In the future, you will come to our house as often as you have always been. My cousin said with a smile.
"Cousin, sister-in-law, you don't know, how happy I am to hear you say this. "I'm a little excited.
"Obviously, you have always regarded us as your closest family, and we have always regarded you as our own. That will never change. My cousin patted me on the shoulder.
"Yes, no matter what happens, we will always be family. This feeling has long been integrated into the blood and bones, and it is unbreakable. The sister-in-law said with a smile.
"Thank you for your understanding and trust in me. That's important to me. I say from the bottom of my heart.
"In the future, you will be the elder of our family, and you will always come to guide us young people. The cousin joked.
"Cousin, I still need your care. I laughed too.
The three of us laughed happily. I know that the bond of family is the strongest bond in the world, and even through the storm, it will become stronger and connect our common home.
Since then, I've been back and forth to their homes regularly. Every time I spend time with them, it is the most precious time of my life. This is what it feels like to be at home, and this is where I belong most happily.
Time passed day by day, and my cousin's career was thriving, but he was no longer as busy as before. He learned to balance work and family well, spending a lot of time with his sister-in-law and daughter.
One day, my cousin came to me in a hurry and said he had good news for me.
"Obviously, we're moving!" The cousin said happily.
"Where to move to?" I asked curiously.
"It's nearby, closer to your home. We'll be neighbors from now on!" My cousin said with a smile.
"What a coincidence, it seems that we have a deep fate!" I also said happily.
"I was looking for a house close to you. In the future, it will be more convenient for you to come to our house. The cousin smiled mysteriously.
A few days later, my cousin's family moved into their new home. I also often go to their house to sit and chat, chat with my cousins and sisters-in-law, and tease my niece. Our relationship is closer than ever.
One day, my cousin-in-law suddenly said to me, "Obviously, I want to talk to you alone." ”
I was a little surprised, but I followed her to the balcony.
"What's the matter?" I asked with concern.
"Obviously, for more than a year, you have supported me through the most difficult period. I want to say thank you. The sister-in-law said seriously.
"Sister-in-law, you are too polite, this is what I should do. I laughed.
"No, if it weren't for you, I would probably be leaving my family. It was you who saved me, and more importantly, you forgave me for my mistakes. The sister-in-law said with red eyes.
"Don't blame yourself anymore. That's all in the past. I comforted.
"Obviously, I really appreciate you. From now on, I will always support you. If you encounter any difficulties, you can come to me for help. The sister-in-law said solemnly.
"Sister-in-law, I feel very happy and satisfied with the support of family members like yours. I say from the bottom of my heart.
"We are all very fortunate to have you as a great benefactor. Obviously, I will always treat you like a brother. My sister-in-law also said.
"I will always treat you as my dearest family. I laughed.
This conversation has taken my relationship with my sister-in-law to the next level. I know that no misunderstanding or difficulty can stop the affection between loved ones. My family is the most precious sustenance in my life.
Since then, my cousin's family and I have become more and more harmonious. We often eat and chat together, and my cousin and sister-in-law often come to my house to sit down. Every time we get together, we feel the warmth of life. This is my happiest home.