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Foreword: In 2008, the Wenchuan earthquake made people across the country hang their hearts and always care about the situation there.
The earthquake separated many people from their loved ones, but natural disasters were merciless, when a 22-year-old girl was rescued by a 40-year-old uncle, and it was because of this that a marriage was promoted.
So after 15 years, what kind of life are the two living now?
There is nothing to repay, and I promise to do so
In the marriage between Ba Shuai and Sha Ou, the sweetness has been rising, and Ba Shuai's care for Sha Ou makes her deeply feel that marriage is not only the sublimation of love, but also the source of happiness.
Love stretches, and the arrival of her daughter Ba Qing doubles happiness. Two years later, the arrival of their son made them both sons and daughters, and the envy of others was overflowing.
Whenever Sha Ou is mentioned, Ba Shuai is always full of praise, saying that she is not only beautiful and moving, but also extremely kind. However, when talking about Ba Shuai, the corners of Sha Ou's mouth curled slightly: he is indeed handsome, a reliable and reliable person, but a little less romantic.
On Women's Day, her husband sent bouquets and lipsticks, while Ba Shuai was special and sent a rice cooker; 520 In this romantic moment, he was pleasantly surprised again and sent a pressure cooker to express his deep emotions in a unique way.
Such a straight man, although not very romantic, is very attentive, he will remember every day related to them, although the gifts are always "unexpected".
Despite this, the sand gulls could only sigh, after all, they were for the child.
Ba Shuai explained seriously: "I am the representative of affordable men, hey!" It can be seen that Ba Shuai is actually innocent, he just thought of the actual needs of their family and chose such a gift.
In daily life, Sha Ou occasionally ridicules Ba Shuai for not being romantic enough, which is only part of the story. However, Sha Ou is also very aware of Ba Shuai's carefulness and care.
Once, Sha Ou inadvertently said that he liked selfies very much, so Ba Shuai silently remembered it in his heart, and prepared a professional selfie artifact for Sha Ou on Sha Ou's birthday.
Ba Shuai doesn't like to socialize, as long as he has time, he will go home to accompany his wife and children, and in their arms, he feels truly grounded and happy in his heart.
When they participated in the variety show "Mamma Mia", between recording the show and waiting, Ba Shuai was always by Shaou's side. If he blinks and suddenly can't find the sand gull, he will look around and ask the others, "Did you see the sand gull?"
Many people even mistakenly think that they are still newlyweds because they see the scene of the sweet interaction between the two of them.
Sha Ou is good at cooking, so he is in charge of cooking, while Ba Shuai takes on other household chores. When it comes to educating children, Sha Ou is good at singing and dancing, while Ba Shuai is very good at broadcasting and hosting, and they each perform their own duties to make the family harmonious.
So, there is a scene as follows: the children find that when they are sent to school by their mommy every morning, the car will play light music, and when they are picked up by their dad in the afternoon, they can hear the solemn pronunciation of the three characters in the car.
Earthquakes are relentless and lives are fragile
And when it comes to how the two people met, we have to talk about the year of the Wenchuan earthquake.
Sha Ou chose to go to Sichuan on his graduation trip, when other friends were resting in the hotel, Sha Ou wanted to go out alone, and when he was eating in a restaurant, an earthquake suddenly occurred.
Inexperienced, she wanted to burrow under the table, it was a person who suddenly dragged her out, his face was covered with dust, but at this time Shaou felt that he was like a light.
He rushed out of the restaurant with the sand gull, but the huge shock made it more difficult for them to escape, and the sand gull was terrified, at this time the man hugged her, broke through all obstacles, and finally, they reached the safety zone.
The sand gull wanted to thank him, but when he looked up, he couldn't see him, so he waited for him here.
Beneath the rubble, Ba Shuai struggled to the death, providing a slim hope for the immobile elderly and children, and no matter what happened, he always firmly believed in love and hope.
Although he sometimes felt powerless, he did not give up and chose to rush forward again and again in this catastrophe.
When Ba Shuai found the sand gull again, she stood in a relatively safe corner, anxiously watching the dust slowly disperse from the ruins. He gasped and said to her gently, "It's okay if you're okay, I'll come back after transporting this batch of wounded." ”
And when Ba Shuai returned to the ruins, he saw a scene that made people break their souls: collapsed buildings, trapped people, and constant shouts, all of which made him despair.
However, he didn't give up because he knew what else he could do for his siblings.
How many times has loss and hope been the opposite of getting along with the two, so that life and death cannot be calmed down and take away the best, but today is great. Tears outside Ba Shuai slipped into the rescue to save the landslide, and they were all grateful to Ba Shuai.
She thought with relief that it was already the sun setting when Ba Shuai came back, and he couldn't help but want to share what he had just seen and heard with Sha Ou.
In the communication between the two, Sha Ou knew that this man's name was Ba Shuai, and this person was 18 years older than herself and unmarried.
She thinks that this uncle is a kind person, because Ba Shuai is a local, and in the following days, he often brought things to Shaou, and with the help of the aid station, Shaou got together with his friends.
On the day of leaving, Ba Shuai also sent them to the station, and Sha Ou reluctantly got on the train.
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After returning home, Sha Ou often paid attention to the reconstruction process of Wenchuan, and her heart was full of gratitude to this life-saving benefactor.
As time passed, her contact with Ba Shuai became more frequent, and a deep affection gradually developed between the two, and during an unexpected trip, Sha Ou came to Ba Shuai's city, hoping to meet him again.
However, this time she did not meet her expectations, and her heart was very low.
Back home, Shaou confides in her friends about her emotional distress, who believe that she is simply mistaking gratitude for love and dissuade her from making hasty decisions.
But Sha Ou couldn't listen to her friend's advice, and was very firm that this was what she thought of as love, and she was not only grateful to him.
After much deliberation, Sha Ou decided to bravely confess to Ba Shuai. However, to her surprise, Ba Shuai rejected her with the affection of brother and sister, and Sha Ou did not give up, she melted Ba Shuai's defense line with gentleness and persistence, and finally won his heart.
After a period of understanding, Sha Ou's parents gradually recognized Ba Shuai's character and acquiesced in their relationship, and the unhindered love made the two feel sweet, and they decided to spend the rest of their lives together.
On the day he went to get the certificate, Ba Shuai once again confirmed Sha Ou's determination, and Sha Ou's firm eyes convinced him, and the two firmly walked into the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau.
In 2010, 24-year-old Sha Ou and 42-year-old Ba Shuai officially married and began their happy life.
This love story that has gone through twists and turns proves that time can give birth to the deepest emotions, just like Sha Ou and Ba Shuai, they fall in love over time and eventually become married.
As many years passed, they were getting happier and happier, and those who had doubted them and wanted to wait for the drama to happen closed their mouths in astonishment.
There is no fixed pattern for marriage, the important thing is that the two people get along well, and the most important thing is who holds whom.
The author thinks
Now Sha Ou and Ba Shuai have experienced seven years of itching, although there is not much news about them, although quarrels are inevitable in life, but with their sincerity, their lives must be happy.
In love, age and distance have never been a problem, and only sincerity has always been able to move people, and since ancient times, only sincerity has won people's hearts.