35-year-old Zhang Meng failed to get pregnant many times, surgery and traditional Chinese medicine were useless, and she collapsed and cried: why can't I get pregnant?

Recently, actress Zhang Meng, who has not updated her news for a long time, updated a video message on her social platform.

Here's what she wrote, "Next... Think of every failure as a step closer to the baby. ”

And at the beginning of the video, we can clearly hear her crying, "Why can't you get pregnant?"

On the other side of the picture, is the voice of her husband, Korean actor Kim Eun-sung, "If you want to cry, it's okay!"

From this video, it is not difficult to see that Zhang Meng is working hard to get pregnant.

But the process is both difficult and distressing, in Zhang Meng's words, "I never thought that I wanted to be a mother, so difficult!"

01. Difficult to prepare for pregnancy and repeated setbacks

Zhang Meng is 35 years old this year, and before she was trying to get pregnant, she had already realized that she was an elderly mother, so she paid special attention.

For this, she also went to the hospital for a detailed examination.

When doing the ultrasound, the doctor found that there was an irregular hyperechoic area in her uterus, and it was highly suspected that it was a uterine polyp.

Although it was a minor operation, it was really scary for Zhang Meng.

After the operation, Zhang Meng also went to see a Chinese medicine doctor in order to better regulate her body.

The Chinese medicine doctor prescribed her Chinese medicine conditioning for 11 months.

Eventually, the polyp problem in her uterus was perfectly resolved.

But what disappointed her was that even though the body temperature, test strips, and egg monitoring were all done, they still failed one after another.

The successive failures made Kim Eunsheng and Zhang Meng a little unacceptable, so they went one step further to find reasons for themselves.

Even Kim Eun-sung took the initiative to go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination, but the result was that everything was normal.

This means that the problem is still on Zhang Meng's side.

And Zhang Meng puts so much pressure on herself that she can feel anxiety in her life.

So, she went to see a psychiatrist, who diagnosed her with panic disorder and had irregular seizures.

In such a mood, her pregnancy preparation undoubtedly failed again.

In fact, Zhang Meng's emotions were on the verge of collapse, and in the end, the couple came to the hospital again, hoping to find a solution.

After learning about Zhang Meng's condition, the doctor recommended that she go for a salpingogram.

You may not know how painful this test is.

Some netizens gave an explanation, "I think the first pain in life is the contractions of giving birth, and the second pain is to do imaging." ”

During the examination, the doctor found that in addition to the resistance of Zhang Meng's fallopian tubes, there was also stickiness in the pelvis, which was one of the factors that led to her failure to try to conceive.

After learning that she had so many problems, Zhang Meng lay on the hospital bed and fell into tears, "The baby has never chosen me to be a mother, is it because I haven't done well enough?"

Regarding Zhang Meng's difficult road to pregnancy, netizens have expressed their opinions.

Some people said that their experience was similar to hers.

Someone encouraged her to relax and "get pregnant" naturally.

02. The work mode of "desperate Sanniang" may be the root cause

Regarding the matter of "it is difficult for actresses to prepare for pregnancy", Zhang Meng is not the first case.

Hong Kong actress Situ Yuyun was also like Zhang Meng, after getting married, no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't conceive a child, and similarly, she also went to the hospital to receive various examinations and conditioning.

She even underwent artificial insemination (IVF).

But unfortunately, three test tubes were carried out in succession, but they were unsuccessful, which made Situ Yuyun almost collapse.

Fortunately, when she endured great physical pain, she did not give up psychologically, and finally succeeded for the fourth time.

Ariel Lin also encountered many difficulties when preparing for pregnancy, and in three years, she tried natural conception and artificial test tube one after another, but still without success.

In the end, I had to put down all my work and soothe my mood, and I became a mother at the age of 39.

and Yi Nengjing, at the age of 46, because she wanted to have a child, she took an injection to recuperate the whole person's edema.

Zhang Ting was even more tolerant, and he did it nine times in the test tube alone.

Frankly speaking, there are really not a few actresses in the entertainment industry who are "difficult to get pregnant", but there are not many who really dare to say it. Because often such news comes out, some netizens will not sympathize with these actresses.

So, to a certain extent, Zhang Meng is really brave.

From the information revealed by Zhang Meng, it can be inferred that the reason why it is difficult for her to prepare for pregnancy is largely because she worked too hard and overdrew her body.

Because the actress is the anchor, Zhang Meng is not the first person, compared with the novelty of netizens about the "artist anchor" before, it is obvious that she has passed the "best bonus period" when she started the live broadcast.

If you want to do a good job, one is to put effort into it, and the other is to fight for the frequency of live broadcasts.

This can be seen in Zhang Meng's official announcement of marriage.

You must know that on the second day after she announced her marriage, when the popularity on the Internet reached its peak, she and her husband took advantage of the popularity to engage in live broadcasting.

During that time, she and her husband worked 24 hours a day, and they had to work more than 18 hours alone, which can be said to be extremely crazy.

Even in the initial stage of preparing for pregnancy, she did not let go of the heat and work.

And the price of her "desperate Sanniang" way of working is undoubtedly huge.

In her recent video feed, the problems that arise during the preparation stage for pregnancy are the workload of work, which makes her body in a state of injury all the time.

By the time she realized this, the situation was quite serious.

Fortunately, this time, she was not stubborn anymore, but decided to suspend the live broadcast in order to welcome a new member of the family.

03, Zhang Meng, who is regrettable, may not be a pity

Finally, let's go back and talk about Zhang Meng.

For many viewers, she is really a regrettable actor.

In 2007, Zhang Meng was 21 years old.

This year, she first cooperated with Ren Xianqi in the MV of the online game "Zhu Xian", and attracted the attention of the audience for her role in Baguio.

then signed a contract with the company and got the third heroine in director Lu Chuan's masterpiece "Nanjing!Nanjing!", starring in the TV series "The Wind and Rain of Life", and a love movie in which she played the heroine.

No matter how you look at it, her road to showbiz has started absolutely smoothly.

After that, she met Yu Zheng and starred as Concubine Zhen in the court drama "The Pleiades of the Firmament".

Wei Zifu, who made a cameo appearance in "People's Scheming", made her beautiful to a new height in just a few seconds.

Since then, her acting career has been like a hanging, from the eccentric Zhou Ting in "The Moon Knife at the End of the World" to the moving Hai Lanzhu in "Beauty Without Tears", she has interpreted it very well.

Whether it is appearance or acting skills, Zhang Meng has her own label in the circle.

Coupled with good luck, it looks like it's about to become a first-line flower.

But her actions directly ruined everything she should have.

One is her "low emotional intelligence".

This statement mainly depends on two things, the first is that she called He Jiong "uncle" on "Quick Book".

At that time, she was on the show to build momentum for the new drama, but I don't know if it was out of the intention of "pretending to be small", or the effect of the show, in short, this title made many netizens unacceptable.

Some netizens once criticized her for "low emotional intelligence", and there is no lower limit for eyeballs.

The second thing is Yu Zheng's connotation essay.

Probably means that he wants to invite the other party to make a cameo, but the latter just feels that he is popular and doesn't want to make a cameo.

And Yu Zheng's direction is also very clear, netizens speculate that it is Zhang Meng, after all, Yu Zheng has worked with her several times, and the role that really makes Zhang Meng pay attention to the audience is also given by Yu Zheng.

If it is really as Yu Zheng said, as a gift of knowing the encounter and not repaying it, there is no one in this operation!

The second is that Zhang Meng insisted on plastic surgery.

Regarding why she went for plastic surgery, in the show "I Am an Actor", Zhang Meng once revealed herself.

In the 2012 version of "Dragon Babu", Zhang Meng played Wang Yuyan in it.

At that time, the audience had many opinions on this drama, among which the more concentrated one was "Zhang Meng couldn't support the role of Wang Yuyan because she was not beautiful enough".

But in terms of appearance, Zhang Meng is also a classical and delicate beauty.

However, Zhuyu is in front, from modeling to acting skills, Zhang Meng does have a gap between Li Ruotong and Liu Yifei.

As a result, she experienced "cyberbullying" for a long time, and she also had doubts in her heart, feeling that she was an ugly girl.

Coupled with the emotional twists and turns, she felt that she had to have plastic surgery.

Since then, her appearance has changed, once natural and pure, but slowly becoming stiff, and the apple muscles are visible to the naked eye.

For such an Internet celebrity face, film and television resources will naturally not favor it.

In "Actors Please Be in Place", Yu Zheng once said that when filming "Yanxi Raiders", he originally wanted to leave the role of Concubine Chun to Zhang Meng.

But when I saw Zhang Meng's face and towering nose, I lost this idea.

He was saddened by Zhang Meng's plastic surgery, and Zhang Meng also regretted his actions.

Since this stage, Zhang Meng has also said goodbye to her acting career.

Begin to accept your new self, your new life.

fell in love and married Kim Eun-sung, and she seems to have found an ordinary lifestyle.

In the live broadcast room, she has a degree of speech, and she is proficient in various live broadcast routines, and she has a new direction of struggle.

And in the emotional world, she also found the man who loved her and tolerated her.

In Zhang Meng's video, we can see Kim Eun-sung's love for her.

Accompany her to soothe her mood and face the dilemma of preparing for pregnancy.

Perhaps all this gave Zhang Meng some comfort to her already lost acting career, and also made her not feel pity, but felt down-to-earth.

Now, although Zhang Meng has encountered problems in life, I believe that with such a person with her, she will slowly relax herself.

Finally, I wish her what she wants!

(Movie Rotten Tomatoes Editorial Department: An An)