In modern society, the number of single men and women in China has approached 200 million, and the number of single women is about 90 million. However, in the face of single women who do not want to marry and have children, the criticism and discussion of them in society has reached a climax. Let's walk into the world of Hua Mei, Xu Min and Gai Qi together, and feel their inner struggles and dilemmas.
Hua Mei - A lawyer from a rural area, she faces ridicule and pressure from not getting married
Hua Mei, who was born in rural Shandong, is 35 years old, but she is still single. As a successful lawyer, she is full of confidence, but she cannot escape the ridicule and pressure of society. At every gathering, relatives and friends constantly urged her to find a partner and start a family. Hua Mei knew in her heart that she did not need a man to prove her worth, but the expectations of society and traditional family concepts made her feel restrained, making her confused and doubting her choices.
Xu Min, a radio host with a Beijing hukou and an RV, can't take the step of getting married
Xu Min is a 28-year-old radio host with a Beijing hukou and an RV and a successful career. However, family outlooks weighed on her. As the only daughter in the family, she endures her parents' insistence on traditional values, and they are eager to see their children happy marriages and happy families. Xu Min knows in her heart that marriage is not the whole of her life, but she also hopes to find a partner who truly understands, supports and relies on each other. However, she found herself troubled by the complicated marriage market environment and could not easily find the right partner.
The Dilemma of Marriage Choice: Ethical Concepts and Family Pressures
Hua Mei and Xu Min's plight is not unique, and it reflects the deep problems in Chinese society in terms of the concept of marriage. In the Chinese family, traditional ethical concepts make marriage a symbol of social value, while non-marriage is seen as rebellion and rebellion. The existence of the pejorative term "leftover woman" is a further discrimination against single women. However, as times have changed, more and more single women are becoming aware of their right to choose and be independent. They began to question the constraints imposed by traditional family concepts and began to redefine their life path.
Gai Qi - a 40-year-old university teacher who successfully got rid of the single and reduced the conditions for choosing a mate
Unlike Hua Mei and Xu Min, Gai Qi is a 40-year-old university teacher who successfully escaped from the single and entered the palace of marriage. However, surprisingly, Gaige voluntarily lowered her requirements for mate selection in the process of finding a partner. She realized that being too demanding would only limit her options, causing her to be unable to find someone who really suited her. Therefore, she began to pay more attention to the matching of inner resonance and emotions, rather than the conformance of material conditions.
With the change of social concepts and the awakening of women's sense of independence, can the difficulties and pressures faced by single women be alleviated? How should we view the limitations of traditional family concepts on individual choices? Let's think and discuss together, and strive for everyone to be free to choose their own lifestyle.
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