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Wen 丨 Edited by Twilight Snow
I don't know how many people still remember the former "first brother in the music world" Sun Nan?
Sun Nan, the singer of that year, knelt down on one knee in public to propose to a well-known actor to buy a red girl, and the two had known each other for less than 24 hours at this time.
After marriage, with the help of Buy Hongmei, Sun Nan stepped forward and became a top figure in the Chinese music scene, but he chose to cheat and divorce, abandoning his wife and son, while Buy Hongmei attempted suicide and almost collapsed.
The two have been divorced for 14 years, and now the red girl has not remarried, so what happened to the "scumbag" Sun Nan?
24-hour flash marriage
When Buy Hongmei and Guo Donglin stood on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala together, Sun Nan had already made small achievements in the music industry.
In 1993, the 23-year-old Buy Hongmei entered CCTV not long after graduation, and participated in a sketch at a party on CCTV, and it was also in this year that the Buy Hongmei played a supporting role in the movie "The Man Who Chased Death".
Although it has appeared on the stage of CCTV, after all, it is only a small work, and it has not made the red girl have any achievements.
But no one knows why, such a little-known little person can turn over after a year.
In the 1995 Spring Festival Gala, after the sketch program "Something You Talk" began, Guo Donglin performed on the stage, and then another person walked on stage, this person was Buy Red Girl.
No one knows how to buy a red girl on the Spring Festival Gala, but under the influence of Guo Donglin's fame, buying a red girl ate a wave of dividends, and then began to have a little fame.
Not long after that, Buy Hongmei cooperated with Guo Donglin again in the sketch "Something You Call Me", but the cooperation with Guo Donglin twice did not make her popular.
At the same time, Na Ying's fellow disciple Sun Nan also became a very famous singer.
In 1991, 22-year-old Sun Nan was admitted to the Central Song and Dance Troupe and successfully entered the art academy founded by master Gu Jianfen.
Although Sun Nan was not as famous as Na Ying at that time, he was actually not bad, and he also participated in music festivals with Andy Lau, Wu Qixian and others, but no one knew him.
1995 was a very important year for them, this year bought a red girl on the Spring Festival Gala, and Sun Nan also exploded at this time.
This year, Sun Nan's previous album "We Are All Heartbreakers" 10 songs, all sought after by the audience.
Six of them were covered by Andy Lau, Li Keqin, Gu Juji and others, and the original author Sun Nan became well-known.
Sun Nan's creative ability and musical ability are widely recognized, and he has become a leading figure in the Chinese music scene in the mainland, and has appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, becoming a brother in the music scene.
In 1997, when he named his fourth album "Meet Sun Nan", he knew that he wanted to make his name go abroad and go to Asia.
A year later, Sun Nan and Alan Tam sang a song "Friends" on stage together, so far, Sun Nan's reputation reached its peak, and the real "brother in the music world" was confirmed.
At a party held by CCTV in 2000, Sun Nan met Buy Hongmei, and he immediately decided to be with Buy Hongmei.
And buying a red girl, originally a fan of Sun Nan, she has no resistance at all in the face of the pursuit of idols.
I've seen flash marriages for a few months, I've seen flash marriages in a few days, and who has ever seen a flash marriage in less than a day?
Sun Nan saw that the love he was pursuing was hopeful, and immediately knelt down in public to propose marriage, although the red girl was surprised, but the surprise was only excitement and excitement.
If you can marry your idol, I am afraid that no one can refuse.
When Sun Nan knelt down to say the vow, Buy Hongmei was already fantasizing about a happy life in the future, but she didn't know that musical talent and private life could not be compared.
Great fission after marriage
After marriage, Buy Hongmei gave birth to a daughter and a son for Sun Nan successively, and the Buy Hongmei here worked hard to take care of the children at home, but Sun Nan over there was doing something fishy outside.
In 2007, Mai Hongmei just gave birth to a son, and Mai Hongmei simply returned to the family and became a housewife.
But Sun Nan still needs to work outside to make money, the husband and wife often do not meet, and over time there is not much emotion to speak of, only that touch of family affection.
While working outside to make friends, Sun Nan met Pan Wei, the host of the golf tournament.
During the period between the two, Sun Nan not only saw the unique temperament of the host on Pan Wei, but also felt that Pan Wei was the one who understood him best, and with just one look, Pan Wei knew what he wanted to say.
Looking at the mature woman Pan Wei in front of her, although she had been divorced twice, she could not see any traces of years on her face, and then thought of the red girl in her family, Sun Nan began to regret that she did not meet Pan Wei earlier.
But what now? Do you want to divorce and be with Pan Wei? But buying a red girl has just given birth to a second child, which is too unhuman.
So Sun Nan decided to treat Pan Wei as a junior, although they had no reputation, they were very happy together.
Sun Nan and Pan Wei's relationship gradually warmed up, and they became more and more bold, from meeting secretly in the past, to entering and leaving the hotel together at will, as if they were the original match.
People have to pay for their actions, and it didn't take long for entertainment reporters to photograph Sun Nan and Pan Wei's personal friendship, and the news of "Sun Nan's derailment" was known to everyone for a while.
Despite this, Mai Hongmei is still unwilling to give up this marriage, but says that as long as Sun Nan is willing to admit her mistakes and stop dealing with Pan Wei, she can get away with it.
But Sun Nan took the initiative to choose divorce.
After the divorce, Sun Nan thought that she was sorry for buying Hongmei, so she chose to leave the house cleanly, leaving her 5 houses and all her assets to buy Hongmei.
Sun Nan was finally able to communicate with Pan Wei in an upright manner, and not long after the divorce, he married Pan Wei back home, but the red girl who bought it collapsed to the point of almost killing herself.
Imagine if you just gave birth to a second child, nausea and vomiting every day, bloated, looking at your deformed body, but waiting for the news of your husband's cheating, forcibly choosing to forgive but still being divorced, what kind of mentality would it be?
Buy Hongmei went out alone to the beach, and after thinking for a long time, she decided to walk into the sea and end her life.
Fortunately, when she touched the cold sea, she thought of the future of her two children, and she could only endure her own failed life for the sake of her children.
Buy Hongmei originally thought that she had at least two children, but she didn't expect Sun Nan to come and take away custody.
In 2010, three years after the divorce, Sun Nan regretted leaving the child to Buy Hongmei, so she took Mei Hongmei to court, demanding that the custody of the child be taken away.
This is tantamount to taking away the last hope that the red girl has left in the world.
Fortunately, in the end, the court only awarded her daughter to Sun Nan, and her son still remained by the side of Buy Hongmei.
To this day, although Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei no longer love each other, they still love their two children together.
Other people's mistakes should not bear the consequences themselves
After a long time, Buy Hong Mei finally figured out that life is her own, and she should not make herself decadent because of other people's mistakes.
So Buy Hong Mei also started her second relationship, she found a new boyfriend Li Beiping, and was photographed by reporters.
No one knows what identity this Li Beiping is, but it should only be a small role, because he participated in an entertainment talent show in 2013 and was eliminated.
Since then, no love life of buying a red girl has been exposed, until recently, there were rumors that buying a red girl was with another boyfriend, Sun Yulun.
As for Sun Nan, the abandonment incident in 2015 made him angrily scolded by the whole network, and then Sun Nan tried to sell misery to win sympathy and restore his reputation, but the audience did not pay for it, and it was clear that Sun Nan was putting on a show.
Since then, Sun Nan has fallen from the altar, and although he has been participating in various activities to this day, he has changed greatly, and not many people still like him.
Even in his social feed on September 10, only 29 people were willing to interact with him.
Learn the law by case
Now Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei each have the custody of a child, which is the most appropriate judgment from a legal point of view.
Article 1084 of the Civil Code stipulates that the relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, children remain the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are directly raised by either parent.
Although custody is not uniform, their love for their children is unchanged.
Write at the end
There are too many scumbags in the entertainment industry, so finding a partner must not only look at appearance or talent, the inside is the most important.
I hope that buying a red girl has really found a home and lived the second half of her life in peace.
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