"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
Foreword: "The First Time" is a film released in Chinese mainland in 2012, written and directed by Han Yan, starring Zhao Youting, Yang Ying, Jiang Shan and others. The film tells that Shi Qiao suffered from memory loss and could not exercise vigorously since childhood, in order to let Shi Qiao leave no regrets in his limited life, his mother did not hesitate to make up one dream lie after another to meet her daughter's dream; in this process, Gong Ning, played by Lu Xia, created romance for Shi Qiao step by step, and at the same time, he also came out of the heart demon step by step, and was finally infected by Shi Qiao's simple love.
This movie shows the importance of family, friendship and love in a person's growth process, experienced the death of his mother, the madness of his father, the dissatisfaction of his lover, Lu Xia felt confused, he did not know how to go in his next life, borrowed rock to vent his emotions, sadness and anger combined with dissatisfaction with the heart of the devil, with the subsequent contact with Shi Qiao, Lu Xia was slowly moved by this simple girl, found himself who was once full of blood, and also found his own life direction.
In real life, we may not encounter a fairytale life like The Poetry Joe in the play, but Lu Xia's experience is what most of us have experienced, and the unbearable pressure in life is on a person's body, making ourselves the most hated look they have ever lived.
Today, let's first analyze how Lu Xia gradually changed from a hot-blooded teenager to a rebellious youth, and what kind of coincidence allowed him to meet Shi Qiao, let go of his entanglement with his father, and walk out of the pain. In my opinion, Lu Xia's rebellion and disorientation can be analyzed from both the outside and the inside, and in the third part of the article, I will analyze how he got out of his heart, let go of the knot, and found the direction of life.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
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First, let's talk about Lu Xia's life background. Lu Xia grew up in a loving family environment since he was a child, his mother's gentle and virtuous, his father's family, so that Lu Xia has been full of sunshine since he was a child, at the same time, he also has a rock dream, and his mother is the biggest pillar of his pursuit of rock dream, for his own dream, but also for his mother's expectations of himself, Lu Xia has been working hard to persist.
In my opinion, Lu Xia's own living environment has created his own goodness, but once he loses the pillars he has been around since childhood and loses the support of his family, Lu Xia will become vulnerable.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
Secondly, there was a rift in his relationship with his girlfriend, and the love that met for several years was contradicted because of the difference in the backgrounds of the two sides. Peng Wei wants to go abroad, but Lu Xia wants to stay in the mainland to continue to mix, Peng Wei does not want to see the teenager she once loved has now become like this, so she wants to give up this relationship, and the failure of this relationship has also become an important factor in Lu Xia's loss.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
In the end, Dad's incomprehension, lack of support, and the pressure to play Gong Ning caused Lu Xia to completely find the direction of life. At this time, the music he created was nonsensical, grumpy, and without any tenderness, and then, gradually, he was lost in the world of himself, unable to find the meaning of effort.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
In my opinion, the sudden departure of my mother was an important external factor in Lu xia's rebellion. On the road of pursuing the dream of music, my mother has been encouraging and supporting Lu Xia, and such a strong support suddenly left herself, her spiritual pillar suddenly collapsed, life could not find the meaning of effort, just walked her own rock road, but did not know what to do, under the double blow, from blood to rebellion, lost herself.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
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First of all, in the case of her mother's death and her father's imminent madness, Lu Xia's emotions could not be vented. Although Lu Xia has a group of like-minded friends around him to support him, the existence of his family is irreplaceable. Without the company of her family, Lu Xia was lonely. In unexpected circumstances, when exposed to Shi Qiao, the mechanical script life was even more repressed by his own nature, and every day around Shi Qiao to "make a scene" and live according to Gong Ning's living method, which was even more dissatisfied.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
Secondly, under various pressures, he did not want to play Gong Ning again, and proposed to break up with Shi Qiao, but the pressure of life made him have to agree to the conditions of Shi Qiao's mother and continue to play a life that did not belong to him, he gradually became bored, and once again he almost exposed his fate to have an unfair heart of fate.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
In my opinion, both internal and external factors are important factors that cause Lu Xia to change from a hot-blooded teenager to a rebellious teenager and thus lose himself. In our daily life, relatives are an indispensable part of us, family affection is irreplaceable by anything, of course, there will be unexpected situations, at this time, we can only accept it, open their own new life, and can not blindly fall into it, unable to extricate themselves, destroy themselves.
In the final analysis, Lu Xia is still too obsessed, and the unexpected death of his mother is a hurdle that Lu Xia has never been able to cross in his heart, and this hurdle has hindered Lu Xia's desire to continue his life.
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The first step: fake drama really do, go deep into "Gong Ning": in the process of playing Gong Ning, enjoy the innocent feelings brought by Shi Qiao to himself.
Under the guidance of Shi Qiao's mother, Lu Xia will live herself step by step into Gong Ning, integrate herself into Gong Ning, and cooperate with all the small things of Shi Qiao, perhaps just for money at first, but day after day, Lu Xia is slowly moved by the simple feelings of this little girl, Shi Qiao is a simple girl, and Lu Xia is a complex person, the two meet, fake drama is really done, and slowly open her heart.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
Step 2: Accept Love: Infected by Shi Qiao's love, I want to keep up with Shi Qiao's footsteps.
Lu Xia's chaotic and bad life is in stark contrast to Shi Qiao's simple life, and in the face of this boy who is both familiar and strange in front of him, Shi Qiao contacts Lu Xia with the greatest kindness.
Can I call you Lucia? My bad boy .
Remember the taste? I said it would always remind you that our love is real.
Although Lu Xia knows acting well, in the whole process, this relationship with Shi Qiao repairs the emotional trauma after losing his mother. Finally, when Shi Qiao told him that he knew that he was not Gong Ning, Lu Xia had actually made a change at this time, and slowly accepted all the kindness around him.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
Step 3: Re-recognize love: All love is the embodiment of goodwill and the power of support.
People who have passed away don't necessarily just bring grief to others, right?
For example, you, Gong Ning, after you left, you still gave me hope for life.
Now, hope is going to become a reality, right? Lu xia.
Can I call you Lucia? My bad boy.
After giving Shi Qiao a perfect stage in life, Shi Qiao smiled and left this world. When she left, Lu Xia realized that she had fallen deeply in love with this girl, at this time, Lu Xia knew that not all feelings are material exchanges, true love, in fact, is a two-way run, you give me a movie ticket, I invite you to eat a meal so simple.
At the end of the film, Lu Xia finally opened a concert of his own, and the theme of the concert was: commemorating The Poetry Joe.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
In my opinion, what really pulled Lu Xia back from the edge was the appearance of Shi Qiao, and it was also the appearance of Lu Xia who gave Shi Qiao a perfect life. When a person no longer chooses to oppose himself, no longer chooses to give up the kindness of the people around him, he can notice the most beautiful scenery around him.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
The film actually tells us that no matter which one of family, friendship and love is lost, it will bring great harm to our lives. However, life will inevitably have all kinds of accidents, we should learn to let go, learn to be relieved, start again, and start a new life. After all, life still has a long way to go, and everything can be expected.
"The First Time": Talking about the life enlightenment brought by Lü Xia's journey from rebellion to getting out of the heart demon 01, Talking about the external factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and losing himself: Lu Xia's mother has always supported his rock and roll dream, the sudden death of his mother has left him without a spiritual pillar, and his father's behavior has also made him lose his original fantasy about the family. The separation of the family makes a teenager lose support and gradually lose himself. 02. Talk about the internal factors of Lu Xia from hot blood to rebellion and self-loss: the inner loneliness and dissatisfaction with the real world, everything he has disappears in an instant, resulting in dissatisfaction with fate. 03. A brief analysis of how Lu Xia regained the confidence in life under the influence of Shi Qiao, untied the knot, and lived again.
Conclusion: In our lifetime, there will be all kinds of accidents, and love is an important factor that supports us to go on. Whether it is family, friendship or love is an indispensable part of our life, it is precisely because of the existence of these loves that we have the value of life and we have the motivation to want to become better!
Proper relaxation, understanding of relief, having love, embracing love, life will become simpler, happiness will be easier!
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