Love is a person's coming-of-age ceremony, as long as they have fallen in love, a person will understand life and life, but different people's attitudes towards love are also different, some people fall in love for marriage, and some people fall in love is a game life. But they all have a very unforgettable first love, in the first love, everyone is very serious, but some people's love, after entering the palace of marriage, harvested love, and some people parted ways, running for things, so that love becomes an unforgettable pain. Even if they are in love, some people become extremely strong after love, but some people have since become depressed and have a fear of love.
Xin Xiaoqi is such a person, after the failure of love, she became afraid of love, on the road of love, has been difficult, has not found the right person. But in the course of her life, she did meet the right person, that is, Fei Yuqing, but she was wrong and passed by. Until now, perhaps, she will not feel how wrong that decision was, because she still has not reflected on love, nor has she thought and summarized love well, still on the road of love, looking for all she has, still looking back at every step she has taken, still immersed in loneliness, such an attitude towards love, not so much eternal youth, but rather trapped by love, obsessed with love.
She was a precocious person, at the age of 14, she fell in love with a boy, who was his brother's comrade-in-arms, and at that time, Fei Yuqing also deeply liked her, persistently pursued her, and sent her a quilt and snacks, but she secretly allowed others to enter the marriage hall after ten years of love with the big brother she liked when she was fourteen years old. It seems that love is perfect, but the ending is unexpected, and soon after marriage, the other party said to her: "I have no feelings for you." Subsequently, the two separated, and Xin Xiaoqi fell into a emotional breakdown. It can be said that such love has buried hidden dangers at the beginning, and love must be liked by both parties, and both parties pay for each other. Looking for someone to find someone they like, the other party also likes their own people, and can not be wishful thinking.
After the divorce, she began to avoid love, even unwilling to face love, imprisoned herself in the cage of emotion, but people always have to contact the outside, you hide from others, but always can not prevent others from pursuing you, at the age of 37, she fell again in love, a small 15-year-old fan chased her, under the fierce pursuit of the other party, she agreed to interact with each other, she once said: "Men on this virtue, talk about love is good." At this time, it can be seen that she is still passively liked, and she has some broken jars and broken meanings, thinking that love has been injured once, and there is no real love. But she was still moved by love, reading this little boyfriend in the United States, and then, the difference between the feelings of the two slowly appeared, the age difference between each other was too large, the thinking was biased, one mature, one naïve. At this time, we look at it again, this kind of interaction is actually not love, but a passionate act of blind enthusiasm for idols.
She resolutely broke up with the other party, and, she once said: "In the future, I can no longer fall in love with my much younger man." "It's just that she said it herself, but then forgot, after experiencing the interaction with some people, she quickly fell into a love again, at this time, she was already a half-old Xu Niang, revealing that she was in love, the other party was twenty years younger than her, such an age, can already be a mother and son. At present, 57-year-old Xin Xiaoqi has not announced her marriage to her little boyfriend, but she has not publicly said that the two broke up and probably maintained a relationship, so it shows that the two can still get along, and there is no major contradiction. For a woman, such love is not perfect, but it can also be said to be satisfactory.
After that, she wrote a book and recorded her love journey in the book, she said, in addition to singing to soothe the hearts of fans, at the same time, my feelings are also a necessary university question in this life. She still hasn't figured out her love, and she's still confused. She said she was very committed to every love and was very focused, but always hurt deeply every time. He also said that after breaking up with his 15-year-old boyfriend, he almost suffered from depression. By her own admission, she is always attracted to young boys and feels that in love, age is not the problem, it is the personality. However, we are relieved that she finally said that now, even if there are people with hearts, I do not rush to follow the feelings, and love needs reason. And her approach still makes us doubt her doubts about love, that is, she said, don't deceive yourself, let love stay in the ambiguous stage is very beautiful.
This is only to talk about love and not to get married, perhaps, for some people, such love is the most beautiful, do not have to worry about divorce, do not have to have family constraints, can not consider having children. But for a happy life, for direct love, such an attitude, is not the correct attitude of love, with the increase of age, once the two emotional differences, in the end, is still abandoned, at that time, the age is a lot, there is not even a person to accompany, at that time, a person will eventually grow old, it is also a very miserable thing. Find someone who loves you, have a child you like, and live a happy life as a family, this is beautiful love.
Text/House Slave