The once perfect lady Melody officially announced her divorce, why did everyone applaud?
Last Friday afternoon, Melody (stage name Yin Yue, real name Liu Gongxian), an old acquaintance of "Kangxi is Coming", announced her divorce without warning, ending her 17-year marriage.
▲ She and her husband Wu Yuqi married in 2006 and have two daughters.
Announcing this news on social platforms is an artist to explain to the public, but also pleading with the media and the public to respect privacy and space, saying that the parties will not respond to the details of the divorce.
▲ Agent Wang Zhenni was asked about this and was also silent.
Looking closely at the text part, it is emphasized that "the gap between the personalities and ideological concepts of the two sides is too large", "they have tried", and "they have always come to an end, since they have to face it".
In matters such as official divorces, artists in Taiwan Province often use words and sentences in more detail. At the beginning, Zhang Qingfang's draft divorce statement contained wording that "the differences between the two parties cannot be overcome" (we have written, here to review), and another notice of Liu Yurou's divorce said that "various concepts are incompatible".
In contrast, mainland artists always like to use "gathering less and leaving more" and "ending peacefully" as reasons to explain to the public when they separate, and then express "still friends" on Weibo.
There are also some cases of combining artists and businessmen, sending their respective lawyers to appear and issue a joint statement, saying what gratitude for the good times they have spent, thank each other for their efforts, and continue to get along happily as parents and friends in the future, and raise children together... These high-sounding words did not hinder the subsequent tearing to the dark.
In this comparison, Melody is full of sincerity between the lines, but her decision to divorce surprised everyone.
For a long time, Melody in the eyes of the public has always been the image of a noble lady with Hemei, she talks about family trivia, husband and children on the show, and shares some happy and joyful daily life on social platforms.
▲ In early June, she was still excitedly announcing the holiday, and she couldn't see that she had something in mind.
The colleagues she worked with, her friends, were also ignorant of the matter.
▲ Lin Xinru, who has a very good relationship with her, was quite surprised when asked about this.
▲ There is also Shen Yulin, who hosted the program "Hot Noisy Shop at 11 o'clock", who also did not know.
It can be seen that the divorce may have happened quietly without everyone.
Just a few days before the announcement of the divorce, Melody's social platform posted a photo of visiting Machu Picchu, Peru, Peru, with her two daughters, and a letter to her daughter, slightly leaking some clues.
"Because we understand the challenges that this generation brings to women, we must be gentle and sensible, we must be strong and insightful, we must be beautiful and maintain, we must also be smart and thoughtful, and we may be independent but know how to be soft and hard." Well, we... Is it easy? ”
"As a woman, 'courage' is indispensable, when others can't see you, you have to have the courage to see yourself first and accept yourself."
"I will definitely remember to love myself well!"
At that time, someone in the comment area asked, "Don't you need to leave a little place for your husband for a whole heart?" "Now that the answer is out, it really doesn't work.
Although she has not seen a trace of her husband "Mr. Wu" on her social platform for a long time.
▲ The last mention was almost three years ago.
▲ The group photo has not been popped for a long time.
But in April last year, she appeared on the radio program "Huh! Where did I say" interview, also mentioned that the couple had a good relationship. When she put her hand on her husband's hand, his husband immediately responded with a ten-finger clasp, which is a rare thing for Mr. Wu, who has always been known for being "wooden and ruthless".
In November last year, when she was interviewed by Taiwan media, she even mentioned that she had been married for 16 years and would not put pressure on each other:
When asked about "divorce", her answer was, "There is no way to suspend [divorce] now, I am still afraid of suspension", "Of course I need him very much, he needs me too."
It can be seen that the relationship between the two parties has really changed and even reached the step of divorce, which is what happened in this short period of half a year.
At the beginning of the new year, she wrote, "Looking forward to all of us being brave and better ourselves in 2023", it can be regarded as a message for the public and for herself.
Congratulations to Melody for doing it, as she puts it, "stepping out of your comfort zone is often about getting to know a different version of yourself":
It is simple and easy to stay in place and live the cycle day after day, without feeling the pain of jumping out of the comfort zone, but once people are clearly aware of what kind of life they want to live and are no longer willing to be an ostrich, it is the moment to make a choice to change.
In fact, about Melody, her family background, her debut experience, her husband's in-laws, as a noblewoman, why so many people love her, our previous article has been written in full, click here to review.
Today, let's focus on the reason why Melody officially announced her divorce and the comment area was clapping.
#相差十五岁, two very different people
The marriage of Melody and Mr. Wu has actually been written differently from the beginning, the growth environment and background of the two parties are different, and the age difference is 15 years old, and the personalities of the two are also very different.
Melody (Liu Gongxian), born in the United States on January 16, 1979, is the standard ABC.
▲ When she was a child, she (pictured right) looked exactly like her mother (pictured left).
▲ A standard ABC tone is her characteristic, and it is also the point that many people love her.
Melody has talked more than once about the love story of her grandfather and grandmother. The grandmother from a rich lady in Shanghai gave up everything in the family without hesitation and married her grandfather, who was an air force, followed the sea across the sea to Taiwan Province during the war years, lived in a dependent village where the conditions were not as good as before, and gave birth to two sons, but I didn't expect that just three years after marriage, my grandfather died in a plane crash.
The young widowed grandmother did not slump at this point, and in the past she began to work hard to find a job to make money, pulling her two children to grow up, until the children became adults, remarried, and the family immigrated to the United States.
▲ Grandma's famous saying, "To live is to be beautiful!" No matter how good the day is, be beautiful! It's respecting yourself! You don't take care of yourself, who will love you? ”
▲ Ten years ago, Melody posted photos with her grandmother and grandmother on Weibo, and both of them were super well maintained.
Later, Melody's father Liu Zongyuan married his wife in the United States, branched out, gave birth to three daughters and a son, Melody is the eldest in the family:
▲ A group photo of a family of six last year.
▲ The picture below is a photo with her mother sent on Mother's Day this year, can you see that Mother Liu is in her 60s and about to run to 70 years old?
Melody undergraduates with a UCLA (UCLA) double major in international community and political science:
In 1999, she participated in the Miss LA Chinatown pageant and won the title and Miss Photogenic.
▲ It's just that this coronation photo makes the "most photogenic lady" less photogenic...
After graduating from university, 22-year-old Melody gave up a job opportunity that could have had a good future in the local area and chose to return to the entertainment industry in Taiwan Province.
▲ Because her grandmother and Zhang Aijia's mother are good friends, she once went to Hong Kong to visit Zhang Aijia, but unfortunately there was no result in the end.
▲ Until she met Zhang Xiaoyan, Miss Xiaoyan became her nobleman, gave her a job opportunity, and gave her a stage name, Yin Yue.
▲ After so many years, her relationship with Miss Xiaoyan is still as good as ever, enough to see that she knows how to be a person and knows Entu.
In August 2002, Melody signed with Fenghua Records (founded by Miss Xiaoyan and her late husband Peng Guohua in 1995), and specially hired producer Huang Shujun to train and record her for nearly a year.
At about the same time, Tao Zhe, his ex-boyfriend who had been in love for six years, released the album "Black Willow Ding", which is considered the pinnacle of his personal music career, which contains a widely sung song, "Melody".
▲ Many years later, Melody clarified in Kangxi that the song was actually called Sara Lee (a certain cake brand) at the time of the demo, so it was not a single specially written for her to some extent, but her name was used throughout the final text, why not another kind of deep love.
In July 2003, after successful training, her debut and only album, Melody of Love, was released.
▲ The album cover is highlighted by her slender beautiful legs.
▲ He also collaborated with Fan Yichen on the song "Love in the Adriatic Sea".
▲ And ex-boyfriend Tao Zhe sent a large flower basket plus handwritten cards at the new album release.
Perhaps, as Tao Zhe said in the handwritten card, "this road has just begun, and it will be challenging from now on", singing is obviously not Melody's strong point, she began to switch to the theater circle, and also appeared in several works that impressed the public.
▲ Like "Live on the Left, Stay Right" directed by Wang Weizhong.
▲ There is also Tian Xin, a somewhat white eyed and cute English teacher in "The Ultimate Class".
However, shortly after filming "The Final Class", Mr. Wu, who had only been dating for a few months, took her to Bali for a vacation, and then faced the sea and knelt down to propose to her.
▲ The line during the proposal said, "I'm 40 years old, and I finally know why God made me wait so long, just so that I can meet you now." ”
Speaking of Mr. Wu's background, there is not much information on the Internet. I only know that his name is Wu Yuqi, 15 years older than Melody, Leo, a wealthy family, and he is engaged in the import and export business of computer screens.
He is the eldest and only son in the family, and has four older sisters, and you can imagine what an environment this is in which he was pampered and raised.
▲ Wu Yuqi's mother Wu Baoqin (left) and second sister Wu Yumei (right).
According to news reports, Melody and Wu Yuqi met through the introduction of their second sister Wu Yumei.
▲ Wu Yumei (left), Melody (center), Wu Yuqi (right).
Wu Yumei is a frequent visitor to Taipei Vanity Fair, married to Xue Zhiwei, a wealthy Jewish businessman who came to Taiwan Province to develop, and the four-star international business of the trading company founded by the family is distributed throughout Southeast Asia, Europe and the United States.
▲ As a celebrity in the city, Wu Yumei often attends major events with exaggerated hairstyles and conspicuous special leather Hermes bags, and there are good-looking mixed-race children standing next to her.
▲ Melody's Instagram focuses on Wu Yumei's son, daughter and daughter-in-law, all of which are private accounts.
At the end of 2012, Wu Yumei, who was seriously ill, passed away. The following year, her son, Jeffrey David Schwartz II (JD), married his girlfriend of 11 years, Raquel Chow.
▲ Zhou Yun is a rich woman, but she is also self-reliant, rising from a reporter and weather anchor to an anchor of era news. Her father, Zhou Xinyi, is one of the sons of Zhou Chen Yushu, once the owner of the most famous music theater in Ximending Town, and had an affair with Xuan Meifeng, which almost caused family turmoil at the beginning of the millennium.
▲ Zhou Yun and JD have been in a relationship since they were students, and the reason why they chose to marry shortly after their mother's death is because Jews believe that "this is the continuation of a new life".
As for Wu Yumei's husband Xue Zhiwei, he married actress Juna in 2017:
▲ Tanna, who was 51 years old when she got married, is worthy of being a yoga teacher and her state is perfect.
▲ Although her sister died, at the wedding scene of her former brother-in-law, Melody and Mr. Wu still joined hands to congratulate her. Melody pedals Roger Vivier pearl shoes and Bvlgari snakehead bag, full of luxury.
In the early years, there were rumors on the Internet that Melody's husband made his fortune by this former brother-in-law, and some netizens came forward to refute it at that time:
▲ It is mentioned that Mr. Wu also returned from the United States.
Carefully inquiring the company information publicly available on the Internet, you will find that the four-star international operated by Xue Zhiwei, in addition to Wu Yumei, there are other members of the Wu family in the initial shareholder capital list: Wu Yuhua, Wu Yuzhen, Wu Yuqi.
▲ In January 2013, it should be that after Wu Yumei's death, the company underwent a round of changes in the list of directors and supervisors, and Xue Zhiwei replaced Wu Yumei.
▲ It changed again in 2017, and the Wu family left one after another, becoming replaced by Xue Zhiwei's son and daughter.
In the early years, the report also mentioned that Wu Yuqi's fourth sister was Wu Qiaoling, a singer who had withdrawn from the music scene.
▲ Wu Qiaoling's album style that year was quite bold and hot. There are reports that her father, who is American, has been working part-time as a singer with her sister since she was 14 years old, completing her studies part-time and studying part-time. According to Wu Yuqi's family are all "Yu" characters, either Wu Qiaoling is a stage name, or in fact has nothing to do with them, but suffering from the age, I really can't find more detailed information to support it, just looking at the photos, and Wu Yumei looks quite similar.
#一场看似幸福的梦幻式闪婚
Because of Melody's hearty personality, we often hear various stories of her and her husband on the show, praise and spit, of course, there are more complaints than praise.
Melody once said that Mr. Wu can chase her because she can really chase, she goes to Thailand for a vacation, the other party will fly to Thailand, she goes back to Los Angeles to visit relatives, the other party will accompany her back to Los Angeles, in short, running around the world.
▲ But once you enter marriage, this scene of "chasing a wife for thousands of miles" no longer exists.
As for the opportunity to bring about this marriage, it is also full of superstitious laws. Her parents would initially worry about whether such a large age gap would be inappropriate, but reports at the time said that her mother found someone to approve the eight characters and found that it was "several generations of marriage"...
The man's second sister, Wu Yumei, also came out and said, "Father Tuomeng bride's surname is Liu":
▲ There are rumors on the Internet that Mr. Wu was married before, but there is actually no news source. My sister once said in an interview that my father regretted not seeing my brother get married before he died. I think Wu Yuqi should have delayed getting married late until he was forty years old, and he couldn't wait to catch Melody.
And Melody himself said, "The first time I saw him, I felt a sense of déjà vu."
It can be seen that before the impulsive flash marriage, Melody may have hesitated, but at that time, she was limited by the secular measurement system, thinking that women to get married and start a family when they reached a certain age, rather than struggling in the entertainment industry where there was no hope, but Mr. Wu was also a good choice, a rich child, full of sincerity, an "honest person" in the traditional sense.
As for the four older sisters above, given that Melody herself grew up in a family of three older sisters and one younger brother, maybe she really didn't care too much about it...
After proposing, the two got engaged in Los Angeles, where they entertained Melody friends and family, and then returned to the glass church in Ritz-Carlton, Bali, for the wedding.
▲ In 2006, when overseas weddings were not so popular and the local wedding market was not well developed, Melody did everything herself in order to be perfect.
▲ I even accidentally broke my hand and tied a bandage to finish the wedding.
▲ As for the diamond ring, due to the age, the information reported is not necessarily accurate, some news said that the diamond ring is a four-carat set of 13 broken diamonds, and there are also reports that the second sister Wu Yumei revealed that the diamond ring is 4.8 carats, because it is her brother's lucky number (why don't you buy the woman's lucky number when you propose).
#婚后努力做最完美的阔太
Growing up in a traditional Chinese family, receiving the most traditional marriage and romance education, Melody with such a high emotional intelligence naturally knows what Kuota should do?
The first task is to pass on the family.
But because she is "infertile" to some extent, the first four years of marriage are hard to try, do test tubes, artificial insemination, spend money, not to mention, but also mental and physical pain.
▲ She said that her husband's family did not put pressure on her, but she wanted to be a mother and gave herself pressure.
▲ Occasionally hard mouth outside, go home and cry silently.
Fortunately, he finally got his wish and gave birth to two baby daughters.
Later, she wrote her hard "child-seeking experience" into "Roll Over! Lady" in the book, it also became the beginning of her return to the entertainment industry.
▲ When promoting the new book, my husband also specially sent flowers to support.
As for the second thing that the wives have to do, they are willing to be the husband's right arm, help deal with small and small matters, take care of the family, and become the CEO of the whole family.
Plenty of social situations to play with:
▲ and Lin Xinru, Lin Xilei, Zeng Xinying.
Not only that, Melody also went into the kitchen, out of the hall, made a good dish, and "grabbed the man's stomach":
▲ Just for Mr. Wu's praise, as if all the hard work is worth it.
It can be seen that although the name is a noble lady, in fact, she is more like the chief housekeeper of the family, and she is responsible for everything to the end.
▲ She joked that she was a "kneeling woman" who wanted to serve her husband, children and dogs.
But what about husband? Not having to take on any household chores, and even when Melody came home late from work, calling her wasn't to care when she was coming home, but to look for pajamas.
# Looking at the joke-like complaints, there is a lot of bitterness hidden in it
Over the years, Melody has revealed her thoughts many times on shows or interviews, such as the implicit discrimination she encountered when she returned to work.
▲ As a noblewoman and a woman, you have to be questioned "why do you want to come out to work".
But whether it is from the early years of "Kangxi is Coming" or the current host of "11 o'clock hot noisy shop", the most complained about Mr. Wu, some may be due to the effect of the program, and some may be from the heart.
From Melody's description, you can see several characteristics of Mr. Wu, no emotional intelligence, not very good at taking care of other people's feelings, selfishness, selfishness, mom bao, as if the whole world revolves around him for granted. And these characteristics become points that need to be overcome and tolerated by the wife in marriage.
1. White eyes, self-proclaimed "men who do not lie".
For example, he will describe Melody's body shape as M&M beans during pregnancy, which may be just fun and ridicule for some couples, but for artists and stars who are very concerned about whether their bodies are out of shape, it is inevitable that there is more psychological pressure.
For example, he obviously wanted to praise her for getting better, but blurted out, "The first two weeks looked a little tired, a little wrinkled, and the nasolabial folds were very deep":
For example, he exaggerated his surprise at the fact that she is 40 years old:
After she posted old photos to recall how young the two were at the time, she replied "less angry and more sleeping":
In fact, it is fun and emotional for the couple to tease their mouths, but sometimes it is too straightforward, and it can easily become the beginning of a quarrel.
▲ Of course, Mr. Wu's white eyes have never been only to his wife, but also to public social situations, which embarrasses Melody every time.
Second, Mabao, as Melody said, "No matter how well trained, as long as a man returns to his mother, he will automatically become his mother's son", not to mention her husband, a man who has four older sisters and has been praised by the stars since he was a child.
He can't bridge the bridge between his wife and mother, and even helps:
As long as she travels with her husband and mother-in-law, taking children becomes her business alone. What about my husband? Accompanied my mother-in-law for a massage.
Her mother-in-law once asked her, "Why is my brother (Mr. Wu) all gray in hair?" and she was so angry that she wanted to answer, "My hair is also gray."
Third, not understanding compassion, not caring, intrinsically selfish, is putting oneself in an absolute central position.
As early as when Melody was still in confinement, her husband Mr. Wu returned from a business trip, and the first thing he did was say "I'm tired, I'm going for a massage", so he patted his butt and left.
The children grew up a little, and when he left home for a business trip, he only said goodbye to the children and did not say goodbye to his wife, making her suspect that he was invisible.
▲ Although Xiao S said that "there are so many actions, it's hard to be invisible", in fact, this is the wife's accusation that she is not valued in the family.
At the end of the day, Melody minds that after changing her identity to become a mother, her priorities in the family have been gradually decreasing, but her husband is indifferent to this:
Take the story of the "peaches" she often examples, as a wife and mother, you need to consider the preferences of your husband and children, but who has asked her what kind of peaches she likes to eat? In the end, the mothers seem to have the function of automatically disposing of garbage, and it has become a processor for rotten peaches.
Fourth, transfer contradictions and shift responsibility.
Mr. Wu sometimes pretends to be pitiful in front of outsiders, as if he is submissive by her:
Sometimes she played prestige in front of her family, shouting that she would do this and that, so angry that she finally ate in the kitchen without going to the table:
Even in the matter of parenting, her husband will consciously or unintentionally clear his responsibilities and dump the black pot on her.
#所谓的 what is behind the "art of mastering"
But oh, despite all the complaints, Melody didn't seem to think about divorce in the past, and she had accepted the established marriage model.
In the eyes of outsiders, she married a rich son, became a noblewoman, lived in a mansion, and had favorable living conditions.
▲ They live in a mansion in Xinyi District overlooking Taipei 101, which is almost 283 square meters, and the decoration cost nearly NT$10 million.
Although Mr. Wu does not understand fun, he has also known to give gifts to make his wife happy over the years:
▲ Also signed "Your humble servant".
▲ Generously provide credit cards.
Others praised Melody for her "skill" and her husband for being controlled by her.
▲ Alex and Li Yongxian once wrote the foreword for her, constantly praising how good Mr. Wu is to her, and willingly playing the role of a good husband in public, and the two are perfect complementary. About the couple Alex and Lee Wing-han, we have also written before, click here to review.
Watching her Facebook live broadcast in the early years, I will also sigh: Mr. Wu really loves her. From beginning to end, voluntarily acting as a humanoid handheld stand, occasionally shaking his hands, and not making a sound:
The paparazzi followed the daily photography, and also took pictures of Mr. Wu helping their mother and daughter take a group photo:
▲ The posture is slightly perfunctory.
Melody has also published a book about marriage, using the title of the book, "The Three Elements of Happiness: Shut Up, Smile, and Empty" as a solution to marital problems.
▲ Of course, if you can, add a little alcohol.
The chapters in the book are basically a series of self-strategy books such as "don't skimp on praising Mr.", "intimacy needs to be maintained", "don't complain, change", "don't be jealous with your mother-in-law" and so on.
Melody also really believed that she had trained her husband well:
Melody boils this down to the fact that "men love to be called at home."
Many capable and intelligent women are addicted to "husband-taming" and feel that they can tame men with their own skills, but what is behind the "husband-taming technique", is it really that women are enough to manipulate men?
Of course not, even if there is a "husband-marrying" to decorate the façade of this marriage, it still cannot change the fact that men are inferior to women, and the main body of this marriage has always been men.
Just like she wrote in her book "Don't skimp on praising Mr. Chen", she did exactly that, often expressing gratitude and love on social platforms, maintaining her husband's face, and providing emotional value:
Even if he said bad things about his husband on the show, he was afraid that his husband would be angry, so he didn't forget to throw a flying kiss and show his love.
Occasionally the two quarrel, but because they forgot, they turned their heads and reconciled. After all, if you expect your husband with low emotional intelligence to bow his head and admit his mistake first, I am afraid it will be even more difficult:
It can be seen that behind the so-called "husband-taming technique" is women's self-dissolution, giving labor, energy, self-achievement, achieving men, and achieving family.
#女性在婚姻里到底要什么?
Melody kept telling herself that the key to a marriage was lower expectations, tolerance, and understanding.
It was also emphasized that only she and her husband were in the same boat:
She believes that they accepted the real each other, "the gentleman accepted her who was kind and nervous, and she also accepted him who spoke too bluntly in private to make him angry and funny":
But time is changing, and so are the state and mood of both spouses.
▲ When I saw the news of Selina's divorce, I felt it, and now it seems that it may be the reason why she and her husband made the same choice.
No one can guarantee the longevity of marriage, not even a wife who knows how to "control a husband".
▲ The matter of "whether the values are the same" that was originally used to judge the choice of a mate will slowly change in the long marriage process, and it has become the sentence in the divorce statement at the beginning of the article, "The difference between the personalities and ideological concepts of each other is too large."
Back at the beginning of her marriage, Melody still had the thinking of a little woman, and she once said in an interview, "Just lean on him when the sky falls."
But these years of marriage will make women soberly realize that men are unreliable.
▲ She stressed that children will not be allowed to watch princess fairy tales, will not let them form the idea of "female weakness" and "waiting for someone to rescue", and the happy ending in fairy tales is never the real ending.
The decision to flash marriage may still be too hasty and impulsive, so I have been compromising and self-cultivating, comforting myself that my married life is to tolerate and understand each other.
But the times have changed, and today, women have a strong ability to make money and socialize, so that they are still like in the past, to blindly provide emotional value, reproductive value, do a good job of housekeeping, and even dissolve themselves to please men, which is almost an impossible task for a thoughtful, subjective woman.
They will seriously think about what they have done perfectly, but what do they get in marriage?
One name, one offering, the so-called family integrity and harmony?
As Melody wrote to her daughter at the beginning of the article, "The challenges that this generation brings to women, we must be gentle and sensible, we must also be strong and insightful, we must be beautiful and maintain, we must also be smart and have ideas, and we may be independent but know how to be soft and hard." Well, we... Is it easy? ”
Once a woman has the identity of a mother, it seems that she automatically assumes all the responsibilities:
▲ But no one is born to be a mother.
▲ Even if the child is diagnosed with severe myopia (almost amblyopia), he must first suspect whether it is a problem during his pregnancy, full of self-blame and collapse.
Sometimes I even have to take care of my husband as my other child:
▲ Fan Shaohuang's wife Jia Xiaochen also issued a similar complaint on Weibo in the past two days.
Melody may have tried to convince herself that marriage exists to acknowledge the imperfections of both parties, to be constantly tested and challenged, and to lead the family ship forward as a parent and partner of the child:
But there is no way, no matter how many times you brainwash yourself, the days are lived by yourself.
If you are really unhappy and can't continue, then you have to face reality after all, facing the reality that the pace of both parties is no longer consistent.
And this is why this time Melody divorced, all kinds of voices are cheering for her.
First, she is not fooling herself, she is living authentically, listening to the true voice of her heart.
▲ The two on the picture have experienced divorce.
Second, people love her for herself, and they have never been a blessing. She is her, a real woman, with thoughts, independent thinking, and definitely the ability to get out of adversity.
▲ Love her "contrived" cute appearance with an ABC tone, and no longer have to find a tax return as an excuse to ask her husband for leave.
Third, be happy that she doesn't have to be stuck in marriage anymore. In the Internet era, she has enough ability to create wealth and a happy life for herself and become her own subject.
Melody also used her life experience to break the myths of some young girls.
The idea that marrying an older, resource-rich man can be done once and for all is itself an inconclusive gamble that may sacrifice a woman's ego and the ability to reinvigorate. It's good to meet those who support outward wandering and encourage careers that depend on survival, but what if you encounter tied hands and feet and want to be raised as canaries? How to have the courage and confidence to break free from this prison?
In contrast, Melody has maintained her perfect figure and first-class condition over the years:
While taking care of the family and children, you also have to take care of your career (hosting programs, podcasts, publishing books, participating in events, shooting fashion magazines):
Thinking about the future career prospects, even if she doesn't talk about her husband or family trivia, she still has a lot of topics to talk about, less the shackles of marriage, but it seems that there are more possibilities, and the situation is very good.
Melody tells us with practical actions that women who have the courage to live their lives will make people can't help but applaud.
The world has changed, and sooner or later women must understand that they are the ones who take the initiative in life. Never wait for others to give you happiness, but learn to save yourself.
Author: Su Yibai
Editor-in-charge: Miss H
Produced by: Miss Lan and Miss Huang
The text is original, and the picture comes from the Internet