Why were the two of them divorced again?
A few days ago, Zhong Liti was in a live broadcast when she was unable to control herself and cried.
The beauty cried, and everyone was distressed to see it.
The assistant on the side quickly explained: "My sister was spicy and crying..."
Obviously, netizens did not buy it, and they all questioned: Will it not change marriage?
Seeing this scene, Zhang Lunshuo refuted rumors online, saying that the two had a good relationship, and quickly connected with his wife to comfort: "Because of the pressure of work, I am very aggrieved, and my emotions have not been contained..."
Seeing Zhong Liti's grievances, his eyes were full of distress: "Wife, you are the best, you are already very good." ”
Xu is the long-accumulated grievance broke out, Zhong Liti almost collapsed:
"We are very happy in marriage, we will scold for as long as we are together, don't put so much pressure on him."
Loved for 8 years and married for 7 years, this sibling love with a difference of 12 years should have been the envy of everyone.
But they seem to have been controversial since they got married, and they haven't stopped until now. As a last resort, Zhong Liti had to personally refute the rumors, and this marriage turmoil was stopped.
【1】
When I first met Zhong Liti, Sister Pickpocket was attracted by the pure and beautiful appearance in "The Legend of the Mermaid".
At that time, it was not an exaggeration to describe her as a country and a city.
Unfortunately, beauty is beautiful, but the emotional experience of the goddess has always been embarrassing.
After two failed marriages, she raised her three daughters alone and went through the most difficult years of her life.
In order to make ends meet, she resumed her career, took her daughter with her, and went around day and night.
However, her busy and tired life did not extinguish her longing for love: "I have never given up on love. ”
She met him in her life.
At that time, Zhong Liti was already a well-known female star, while Zhang Lunshuo was just an unknown young actor. The two people who were originally parallel accidentally sparked love in the show.
When they first met, Zhang Lunshuo felt that everything was arranged by fate.
In order to capture the heart of the goddess, Zhang Lunshuo is full of tricks and surprises. Pretending to be a furry bear, he created a chance encounter, which made Zhong Liti very happy.
The heart-shaped necklace hidden in the bowl, this kind of little romance, I don't know how many people cry sweetly.
Will carefully help her choose the cheongsam, "Anyway, I brought the card today" boyfriend Li.
Gradually, the two also got along day and night, and their relationship slowly warmed up.
I thought that the two could be together logically, but Zhong Liti gave up. Although she has intentions in her heart, the child is her weakness, and she is afraid that the other party will not accept it.
Zhang Lunshuo is well aware of her concerns, but he still chooses to accompany him and take care of her heart.
Although she is 12 years younger than Zhong Liti, she seems to have an endless gentleness towards the people she likes.
He understood that the child was Zhong Liti's concern, so he was willing to become a caring daddy and clean up the room for his eldest daughter before and after busy. Getting along with the little daughter, the warm picture is like a bond between father and daughter.
Little by little, Zhang Lunshuo proved everything with love and action.
Bravely proposed to Zhong Liti and proclaimed their love to the world.
He knelt on one knee and raised the ring in his hand, like a princess and knight in a fairy tale: "Will you marry me?" ”
Happiness came too suddenly, but Zhong Liti still hesitated: "I am a mother of three children, 12 years older than you, or three marriages, can you think clearly?" ”
Zhang Lunshuo said: "I don't care, I am sincere with you, I don't have a car or a house, just if you don't dislike me..."
The sincere confession completely knocked Zhong Liti's heart, and the two also entered the marriage hall.
However, how sweet they are, how unfavorable the outside world is. Some say that they are too far apart in age and are destined for divorce. Some people also say that Zhang Lunshuo is just for the money and does not really love her.
In the face of these rumors, Zhang Lunshuo replied appropriately and touchingly: "When you reach a certain age, when you have a family, this relationship is very valuable." ”
The sibling relationship with a difference of 12 years seems unreliable, but it has been lived happily by Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo.
After marriage, Zhang Lunshuo became the family's life housekeeper and was extremely careful.
And Zhong Liti also put away the edge of the past, became a virtuous helper with peace of mind, and became a happy little woman.
【2】
But I don't know when the marriage of Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo has always attracted everyone's groundless suspicion.
But thinking about it, Zhong Liti's failure to spell for many years seems to have become the biggest hidden danger of this marriage.
Some time ago, Zhong Liti's mother-in-law suddenly started a live broadcast, and many people watched and asked about the topic of her daughter-in-law's pregnancy.
Unable to resist everyone's questioning, the old lady looked gloomy, and said in a hurry: "I don't want to get involved in their affairs, alas, they will deal with it themselves..."
In a few words, I couldn't stop the disappointment and helplessness. This is not the first time that the old lady has revealed her regrets about not having a grandchild.
In "The Woman I Love the Most", Zhong Liti once asked what if there are no children?
The mother-in-law looked lonely: "Without children, I will be very sorry and unhappy in my heart." ”
He even complained to others that his daughter-in-law was old, and his dissatisfaction was overflowing.
In the face of her mother-in-law's birth, although Zhong Liti was full of grievances, she still sincerely "guaranteed".
Outdoor high-altitude challenge, the first reaction is not fear, but regret that I did not give birth to grandchildren to my mother-in-law.
Gradually, having a child seems to have become an obsession that cannot be erased in her heart.
She started drinking soda, not eating meat, and trying to prepare for the birth of a baby through external forces.
When she participated in the Venus show, she heard that sitting on a red sofa could give birth, and she bluntly said that she wanted to spend the night.
The road to seeking a child is not easy, she tried to do test tubes and cooperate with doctors to condition her body, resulting in a blessed body. Regardless of self-safety, she is ready to be an older mother, but she can't wait for a child.
Zhong Liti's experience is distressing. Similarly, the failure to obtain his wish for many years has also become a lingering regret in Zhang Lunshuo's heart.
As soon as the two got married, he was looking forward to the arrival of the child, crying together, begging for the child to come, which was moving.
But in fact, compared to whether he has children, he is most concerned about Zhong Liti's health.
I feel sorry for all the effort and bitterness she has put into her children, and tell her: everything is just right.
Even in the face of everyone's prompting, Zhang Lunshuo still firmly believes that without children, life has to be normal, which can't help but make people sigh.
【3】
Seeing Zhang Lunshuo and Zhong Liti, it couldn't help but make Sister Pickpocket think of another loving couple, Zhang Duo and Chen Songling.
Married for 12 years, from the unfavored sibling love, to the "model couple" in the eyes of everyone today, their emotional road is not gentle and rainy, but also faced wind and waves.
Chen Songling was unable to give birth because of tubal surgery. Whenever someone asks, why don't you want a child?
Zhang Duo always takes the responsibility entirely on himself: "Maybe it's mainly me, I never know how to educate children..."
Every word and deed is full of favoritism and love for Chen Songling, and he is full of security.
When Zhang Duo and Chen Songling welcomed their mother to "our home", her mother sensitively corrected: "I am welcome home."
Zhang Duo teased quietly, "If you say so, I'll buy you a ticket and go back first." ”
During the meal, Chen Songling was forced to eat bread with garlic.
Zhang Duo said directly: "People don't eat, you always force people." ”
Whether a person loves you or not is hidden in the details.
Although they are all trivial matters of life, Zhang Duo will understand that these "trivial things" will make his wife feel wronged. He will be warm and relieved, telling her that as long as she is herself and express herself authentically.
In the show, Chen Songling tried to communicate the idea of adoption with her mother-in-law, but unexpectedly, her mother-in-law's eyes turned red and she choked: "This topic is too painful." ”
Chen Songling also felt guilty for not being able to give birth and depriving her mother-in-law of her natural pleasure.
Zhang Duo told them:
"Everything that happens to us is a good thing, there is no bad thing, everything is the best arrangement."
In Zhang Duo and Chen Songling, Sister Pickpocket sees the best state in a marriage, which is not a lifetime of romantic passion, but full of righteousness.
In the darkest moments of Chen Songling's life, Zhang Duo illuminated her dark world like a ray of light. Warm her, heal her, encourage her to rediscover herself.
On the long road of life, they have already crossed the storm and become an inseparable part of each other, and the bond that maintains this relationship is by no means maintained by having children.
However, in the marriage of many people, they have escaped the ordeal of strong winds and waves, but they have lost to the small daily life of ordinary life, which is inevitably embarrassing.
Life is a practice, and marriage is the biggest dojo, and Sister Pickpocket hopes that all the people who love can find good people who walk along the way in this practice.