<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 Women are mothers, men are fathers? </h1>
Some time ago, Huang Yi, who had experienced two failed marriages, not only complained that he was "marrying the wrong man on the wrong flower palanquin" in the fifth season of "Spitting Conference", but also joked that Qin Hao married Yi Nengjing, who was more than ten years old, and "married the wrong flower palanquin to the right wife".
Huang Yi's ridicule made the guests present laugh.
Qin Hao laughed awkwardly throughout the whole process, not knowing what he was thinking in his heart, but Yi Nengjing, who was not present, was angry, and directly dissed the "Spit Conference" program party did not respect women:
"Is it a terrier for a woman to be bigger than a man?" Why are men older than women? Women are big is mothers, how come I haven't heard that men laugh at daddies? As a party, I do not accept this stem, and the person who writes the manuscript please respect women! ”
Yi Nengjing not only said it very right, this kind of straightforward and refreshing nature, but also very angry with Xiaobian, Xiaobian wants to give Yi Nengjing a thumbs up for all women!
Not only the entertainment industry, but also the examples of "old husbands and young wives" that we see in ordinary life have gone, and there are many years that can be young wives and fathers, and there are not a few who can be grandfathers.
Among the young wives and grandfathers, the most famous nature is 82-year-old Yang Zning and 28-year-old W Fan, 68-year-old Murdoch and 30-year-old Deng Wendi!
There are too many young wives marrying their fathers, and the pure and invincible milk tea sister Zhang Zetian married Liu Qiangdong, the boss of Jingdong, 21 years old, so that the fans' glass hearts were broken, and the so-called purity turned out to be nothing more than "submarine needles"!
Mass-produced young model net red Fang Yuan, married to the 22-year-old "former king of heaven" Aaron Kwok, was actually trumpeted by netizens as a "superior" success, is it not Guo Tianwang's "old cow eating tender grass" to get cheap?
"Heavenly King" a sentence "shoes are not suitable" kicked the old love bear Dailin for many years kicked away, in front of people with the little petite wife show love, with the same frame as the mother-in-law who is smaller than himself, but also by netizens Zan more tender than the mother-in-law, really the teeth are going to be broken!
Whether these "old husbands" who are older than the young wives have been ridiculed as "fathers", the public naturally has a scale in their hearts!
So Yi Nengjing, there is no need to get angry and get angry.
Unveiling the skin of the ridicule, Huang Yi's words are not "blessings", not "envy, jealousy and hatred".
Because, in the entertainment industry, several well-known couples whose "wives are much older than their husbands", except for Yi Nengjing and his wife, basically have no romantic ending!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 There must be something hateful about the poor</h1>
This includes, first of all, Huang Yi, who is "pitiful and hateful, fifty steps of laughter and a hundred steps"! She is also 8 years older than her second husband, Huang Yiqing.
In 2001, Huang Yi became popular for playing the cute "Li Yuhu" in "Marrying the Wrong Flower Car". At that time, her boyfriend was Nie Yuan, who played the lover "Qi Tianlei" in the play.
Inside and outside the play, the two are united, envious of others, if Huang Yi can really combine with Nie Yuan, she will not have the future "crying drama can not act enough" two marriages!
Who knows that this period of people blessing good feelings, but there is no result of yin and yang mistakes. After that, Huang Yi and Yang Yi, known as the "Little Prince of Sauna", had a 5-year relationship, and even reached the stage of talking about marriage, but broke up because her boyfriend split his legs Huo Siyan.
Huang Yi, who was anxious to recuperate after the breakup, actually "flashed marriage" with her first husband, "financial talent" Jiang Kai, who had known her for only 41 days, but this marriage lasted less than a year, and it was "one shot and two scattered".
What Huang Yi did not expect was that this was the beginning of her "nightmare" in life.
After the divorce, Jiang Kai smeared Huang Yi everywhere, saying that the reason why the two divorced was because Huang Yi cheated, and also scolded Huang Yi as an "obscene cat", openly saying on social networks: "The biggest regret in life is to meet you, and the happiest thing in life is to flash away!" Obscene cats will never forget to steal. ”
After Huang Yi and the first "scumbag" ex-husband "financial talent" Jiang Kai "flashed marriage and bleached", they did not learn any lessons, and hurriedly took a rich second-generation boyfriend Huang Yiqing, who was 8 years younger than her.
Due to the accidental pregnancy of "wiping the gun and misbehaving" during the love, Huang Yi had to marry Huang Yiqing, but he did not expect that this was coming out of a dung pit and entering another grave!
As a melon-eating crowd, it is difficult for others to understand what role Huang Yi, who is 8 years older than her husband, plays in Huang Yiqing, who is obviously immature.
I only know that after a short period of sweetness, she was not only abused by Huang Yiqing in marriage, but also derailed, and the private photos of no horse were also full of internet, as well as various black materials. Even after the divorce, it was still "polluted" by Huang Yiqing and netizens, entangled, and its reputation plummeted.
It was not until July 2020 that Huang Yiqing was sentenced for sucking D into a small iron house, and only then did he implement Huang Yiqing's "scumbag" personality, and Huang Yi's reputation improved, getting rid of her ex-husband's comeback on the variety show, and having kung fu to complain in the "Spit Conference".
Throughout Huang Yi's love history, it is a typical "love brain" without emotional intelligence, looking at people is relatively superficial, men have money, men are handsome, and a few sweet words can play with her between the palms.
In her comeback dating variety show "Suddenly Heartbeat", the 43-year-old, unexpectedly, was blinded by a few obviously flattering romantic love words, and chose to be the first date.
Unexpectedly, the other party was another "scumbag" with a history of marriage and unclear sexual orientation, who almost came out of the grave and entered the coffin pit!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 You can't forget independence when you throw yourself into love</h1>
The entertainment industry was once very sweet, and the last divorce ended with Ma Yili, the article couple, coincidentally, Ma Yili is also 8 years older than her husband.
The love of Ma Yili's parents has a profound impact on her concept of love.
When her parents were young, they both went to the countryside to know the youth, and after the two sparked love during their labor, they insisted on naked marriage despite the opposition of their families, and from then on, they were in love with each other, sharing happiness and suffering, holding the hand of their son and growing old with their son.
Therefore, in her heart to find a lover is far more important than to find a rich person, this is precious in the entertainment industry, many female stars dream is to marry into the giants, there is Also Fan B Bing's famous saying "I am the rich".
Ma Yili also learned independence from her parents: you can't rely on men for everything, you can't make men look down on you.
In 1999, just over a year after graduating from acting, Ma Yili, who was round and jade, beautiful and moving, and tender, was introduced to Guan Hu, a director who was already famous, and became a lover.
With the help of Guan's father and son, Ma Yili starred in a series of blockbuster film and television dramas such as "Black Hole", "Xi Shi Eye", "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3" and so on, which laid the foundation for Ma Yili's position in the show business circle in one fell swoop. It is worth mentioning that also shines in "Black Hole" is the actor Liang Jing.
In 2005, Ma Yili and Guan Hu broke up due to personality incompatibility, after which Guan Hu turned his head and fell in love with Liang Jing, and soon got married.
After breaking up with Guan Hu, Ma Yili, who was already a popular star in 2005, met a newcomer who was still studying in Chinese opera and played a small supporting role in the TV series "Jinyiwei".
At that time, Ma Yili was twenty-eight or nine years old, both young and beautiful and mature temperament, a star and money, and was the hunting object of the article of the female chaser.
Ma Yili, who just broke up with Guan Hu and is still recuperating from emotional injuries, also appreciates the talent of the article, plus the age is not small to become a family, and gradually was attacked by the article, and the two received a certificate in 2008.
After marriage, the two supported each other and set a new high in their careers, Ma Yili became popular because of her starring in "Struggle 2", and the article successively starred in popular film and television dramas such as "Snail Residence", "The Naked Marriage Era", "Thirty-three Days of Lost Love" and became a first-line student.
Maybe "men get bad when they have money, and the family flowers don't have the fragrance of wild flowers" at work, maybe It is the nearly forty Ma Yili youth is no longer there, maybe this is the "seven-year itch", and the passion that was once there has disappeared.
In 2014, the article was exposed by the media about Yao Di, who played a couple and a couple in "Naked Marriage Era" during Ma Yili's second pregnancy. The image of a good man in the article plummeted, and Yao Di was spurned by netizens as a "little three", and since then, the acting careers of both of them have stagnated.
Although Ma Yili forgave the article at that time with a sentence of "and do and cherish", the rift of the marriage of "cheating" is difficult to repair once it occurs, it will be a permanent thorn between husband and wife, usually hidden, once the wind blows, it will stab both sides of the body.
Sure enough, 5 years of time has not smoothed out the scars of the past, coupled with the media or other reasons, in 2019, Ma Yili article low-key divorce, the two maintained face, no tearing things happened.
I believe that two people have truly loved each other, although love has become a thing of the past, the past has become a memory, but the same life is also a precious experience, can not be afraid of today's departure, and do not make yesterday's efforts to get together.
Moreover, the two of them are also their two children, going around, and it is not impossible for them to reunite for love in the future.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >04 Love must also have dignity</h1>
In fact, in the entertainment industry, there is also a famous couple, which is very similar to the situation of Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing.
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing are the hands of mainland film emperors and Talented Women of Taiwan, while Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin are a combination of handsome men from the mainland and hong Kong goddesses.
More coincidentally, the former Hong Kong goddess Hong Xin is also exactly 10 years older than her husband, mainland actor Zhang Danfeng.
Hong Xin's marriage to Zhang Danfeng, a small student in the mainland, is also Hong Xin's second marriage.
But Hongxin's emotional history is much more complicated than Yi Nengjing's, if Huang Yi just looks at men's vision is too poor, then before meeting Zhang Danfeng, Hong Xin is a literal "scumbag harvester".
Hong Xin's parents divorced from childhood, the family is very poor, at the age of 10 began to work to supplement the family, then the dream was to become a designer when he was older.
However, the trajectory of fate always changes in inadvertent coincidences.
In 1990, Hong Xin, who was born beautiful, entered the show business circle under the recommendation of director Chen Xinjian, and a year later, because of his participation in "Magic Road Hero Love", he became a girlfriend with the Hong Kong sister Cai Shaofen at the time, and this girlfriend introduced Hong Xin to Liu Luanxiong, the fiery big boss who played with her at that time.
In Hong Kong at that time, the so-called Hong Kong J beauty pageant was a feast for the rich to hunt for beauty, Liu Luanxiong was one of the hunters, and Hong Xin's results could be imagined.
Since then, Hong Xin has begun the process of harvesting scumbags.
In 1996, hong xin, who was only 25 years old after leaving Liu Luanxiong, married a wealthy businessman Huang Guoliang and divorced a year later, and her ex-husband was notorious for being arrested and imprisoned in the J-yuan.
During the period of hidden marriage, Hong Xin met Mo Shaocong again and fell in love.
In 1999, Hong Xin was photographed with Lai Changxing again, and was exposed by the Hong Kong media as Lai's mistress. Mo Shaocong used this as an excuse to break up with Hong Xin, and at this time, Hong Xin was already pregnant with Mo's child. After Hong Xin gave birth to his son Mo Haolian, Mo Shaocong refused to admit that he was his son.
In 2011, the 30-year-old Hong Xin climbed the board of directors of the mainland's rich superstar pictures, Deng Jianguo, did not want Deng to show love in front of him, and turned around and married a 19-year-old daughter.
After that, Hong Xin and the 10-year-old Hua Xinfu second generation Chen Xunyuan, a 7-year-old actor, borrowed money and did not pay back the "old Lai" Guo Lixing for a period of time, so that Hong Xin has been in contact with six boyfriends, but one than a "scum".
After breaking up with Guo Lixing, Hong Xin finally ushered in his "highlight" moment, and in 2005, he fell in love with his current husband Zhang Danfeng, who was ten years younger.
From the process of Hong Xin harvesting scumbags over the years, especially after having children, it can be seen that she really wants to find a reliable man to marry, so that she has a home to rely on, a safe harbor, and unconsciously the standard of mate selection has been lowered again and again.
Perhaps for this reason, the big beauty star was captured by the unknown eighteen-line student Zhang Danfeng, and the two married in Hong Kong in 2009.
After getting married, the two people in the eyes of outsiders are very affectionate, and in 2014, they also had a lovely daughter, and the family of four was happy.
In 2015, Zhang Danfeng also ushered in a turning point in his career, playing a key supporting role in the phenomenon-level TV series "Flowers and Bones" Dongfang Yuqing became popular, and since then the film has continued to be contracted.
In 2018, Zhang Danfeng served as the male number one in the TV series "Lonely World", and he made a small fire.
In 2018, the media broke the news that Zhang Danfeng had derailed his agent Bi Ying.
Netizens have dug out various "melons" of Zhang Danfeng and his agents for Hong Xin's unworthiness and unevenness.
Although the evidence is conclusive, although Hong Xin deleted all the microblogs related to Zhang Danfeng for a while, Hong Xin, who is 10 years older than Zhang Danfeng, finally chose to stand with Zhang Danfeng to help her husband calm down the storm.
I think she really doesn't want this hard-won home to fall apart, so she can seek perfection! Can just forbearance really be exchanged for happiness?
After the storm, the agent Bi Ying resigned, faded out of the sight of the two, and life seemed to return to normal and sweet.
But do not want to in the end of 2020, another wave, on December 15, the Hong Kong media broke hongxin, Zhang Danfeng has divorced, but for the sake of Zhang Danfeng's future, temporarily not open to the public.
On the same day, Hong Xinfa's family of three took a group photo with the same tour, breaking the rumors of divorce, and on the 21st, the media photographed a family of 4 having dinner in a restaurant, and the picture was quite harmonious.
On the first day of the Lunar New Year (February 12, 2021), Zhang Danfeng even posted a photo of the husband and wife of three, giving everyone a New Year's greeting and puncturing the rumors of divorce.
Hong Xin's feelings have experienced so many twists and turns, and finally found their own happy home, here should not consider whether to marry or climb high, nor should we consider the age gap.
I hope that Zhang Danfeng cherishes the people in front of him, I hope that Hong Xin will not wronged himself for love, love cannot be humble and equal in order to last, I hope that the two will walk and cherish!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >05 Can love stay fresh for a long time? </h1>
Compared with Huang Yi, Ma Yili and Hong Xin, Yi Nengjing is indeed very lucky, although she has had a failed marriage, she has no unfortunate emotional experience.
Yi Nengjing's first marriage can be called a fairy tale of "talent and beauty".
Yi Nengjing debuted at the age of 16, writing lyrics, composing, publishing books, acting in movies, and achieving good results in duoqi development, and is a famous talented woman; her ex-husband Yu Chengqing was born into a rich family and is also a famous musical wizard.
In 1986, the 18-year-old Yi Nengjing and the 25-year-old Yu Chengqing met, and the two entered the palace of marriage in 2000 after a 14-year love run.
Yi Nengjing once described the relationship between the two in his 2002 essay collection, "Last Words of Life and Death", as follows: "In my lifetime, in my lifetime, I must live one more day than you." I will help you bury, so that you can rest assured, not suffering from loss, and then I will accompany you again."
These words, to this day, are still moving and convincing.
We believe that at that time, Yi Nengjing must have been in love with Yu Chengqing, not deliberately showing it for the sake of publishing a book. It's just how beautiful and sweet love is, and how ironic it is when it is lost!
Unexpectedly, the feelings of living and dying together deteriorated within a few years.
In 2008, Yi Nengjing and Huang Weide "held hands with the door" photo broke out, Yi Nengjing cheated on the fact that the marriage was hammered, Yi Nengjing's good wife and good mother's people were gone, and in 2009, Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing officially divorced.
Fortunately, there was no "bad artist" at the beginning, otherwise Yi Nengjing would also come back with Bai Baihe and Li Xiaolu.
After the divorce, Yi Nengjing met her current husband Qin Hao when filming "Rock Hero", and in 2015, the two entered the marriage hall.
After marriage, Yi Nengjing once said in an interview: When Qin Hao began to chase her, she was very resistant, she was so old, and she had children, and all kinds of rumors on the Internet were very difficult to hear, and she did not think that Qin Hao could withstand these negative news, but she was eventually moved by Qin Hao.
After marrying Qin Hao, knowing that Qin Hao likes children, Yi Nengjing ignored the danger of elderly mothers and insisted on having a child for her love. After a few years of marriage, the two are still in harmony and sweetness.
Although Yi Nengjing is ten years older than Qin Hao, she is still the person who is favored in marriage, and under the nourishment of love, she seems to live as a happy and happy little woman.
More than 50 years old, but still active in "Sister Lang", "I am an actor" and other variety shows, singing and dancing vitality, not only skin tight, full of collagen, dressing is also to take the route of youth and girlishness, at all, not by the years to lower the value, still a proper big beauty, Qin Hao's vision of choosing women is really amazing!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >06 Love is the hand of the son and the son grows old</h1>
Four pairs of showbiz "female and male" couples, although the experience is different, the ending is also their fate, but some are the same: in such a couple combination, the woman is always the party who loves each other, and once she encounters betrayal, she is also the most hurt party. In the common life, we must also endure more gossip than the usual couples, and it is not easy to work together to be honest.
If the young wife marries the "old husband", it is mostly out of the woman's admiration for the man and falls in love, or she has ulterior motives to seek "money" and "get on the throne", so it is difficult for the public to believe that it is true love!
Then "big wives marry young husbands", more is the woman for love, put aside the worldly and moral shackles, desperate, like a moth to the fire of the grandeur: or sweet with the son and the old run to the light, or squander the precious youth!
Beautiful love is always desirable, but the result is often unsatisfactory, like a flower in the mirror, a moon in the water, illusory, and cannot be grasped.
So, if you have such a feeling in front of you, still cherish the person in front of you!
If it's true, age is not a problem!
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