Ranking
A few days ago, I read Xiaohongshu talking about junior high school, saying that the baby was in the top five, top three, first and so on in the class, and said that she was in the first grade, I couldn't help but wonder, didn't I let the ranking be ranked for a long time?
Not only do you not let the ranking, but now you don't even tell how many points in the final exam are, which is a good name. So it's really hard to say what position your own baby is in the class, let alone the grade.
What's more, is there any distinction between elementary schools and this thing? Easy to learn, simple to test, judged to release water, you say seventy or eighty that must be poor, but 98 and 100, must reflect what ugly Yin, it doesn't mean much.
All kinds of articles are calling a "watershed" in the first grade, a "watershed" in Koko, where is the watershed, do you think I don't look like a watershed?
This little thing in elementary school, this little test, no matter what grade, is far from being a watershed. If the grades are relatively good and stable, there is no need to be complacent, and feel that it will be a good student in the future; Erratic grades always fail to get a full score, and don't jump to conclusions about where the baby is almost meaningful.
Even if it is seventy or eighty, whether the child will go to secondary school in the future, I don't see it necessarily, there is still room to catch up or even counterattack, the situation is undecided, and it is still too early to say.
The reason is simple – elementary school grades are indeed deceptive.
In the "double reduction" environment, in fact, listen carefully in class, do homework well after class, and do not need to review much, mathematics and English in primary school classes can easily get high scores.
Does this mean that mathematical thinking is good? Can it show that you have strong English test taking skills? I think not, but it can show that the child's attitude is very serious and the study habits are acceptable. Of course, this is also a very important quality.
Writing this article is not a parent of an excellent student in diss elementary school, but just a wake-up call, because the grades in the primary school class are indeed deceptive, there are several things that are not taken seriously, and it is easy to suffer losses in junior high school.
1. Develop good study habits and attitudes.
Children who can do well and stabilize in primary school must first have good habits and attitudes, and this, in middle school, will play a more important role.
Whether it will be or not, it is a good attitude to listen carefully to the teacher's lecture and carefully follow the review.
It is a good habit to leave homework and do it, and then rest and play again after doing it.
Learning is for oneself to learn, responsible for oneself, don't learn to be aggrieved, but also have to put forward conditions and ask for things, this is a good attitude.
It is a good habit to figure it out in time, do not ask the teacher, think deeply, and find similar topics to do yourself.
In this way, there are a few basic items, insist on requirements, form habits, and the lower limit of children's grades is at least kept.
2. Thinking should be up, and memorization learning should be taboo.
Of course, after going to middle school, primary four subjects, language, and politics are all strongly related to memorization, so junior high school eliminates laziness, as long as you are willing to work hard to memorize, the results will not be too ugly.
But there is always mathematical physics, and now this trend, rote memorization is not the trend, even in the liberal arts, you need the ability to think deeply, and the ability to connect widely with materials. Simply put, you need to use your brain.
In high school, it is still purely back, then it is not optimistic.
Although people's IQ is innate and has different talents, we don't know whether the so-called "whole brain development" is reliable since childhood, but there is always something to do.
The simplest operation, starting from the lower grades, do some math problems for the baby every day, and engage in some discussion and discussion of humanities topics.
There is no time, just a question, don't be too difficult, the child has thought about it, can explain it to adults, thinking has been exercised, not to say that it has to be very fancy, persistence is the most important.
Find ways to make the child's brain move, be flexible, don't die dogma, whether it is for learning or life, it will be of great help.
3. English cannot be satisfied with the lessons.
If you want to say that elementary school does not learn Olympiad, in fact, it is okay, because it does not affect the learning of mathematics in junior high school.
Those who have not studied Olympiad, as long as they can follow it well from the beginning in junior high school, they can learn mathematics well. Those who have learned Olympiad must also study well in junior high school, otherwise the middle school entrance examination will die ugly.
But if elementary school does not learn English in this year, or only learns English in the classroom, junior high school will be very passive. Because although they are all English with Chinese characteristics, there will still be a relatively big leap between middle school and primary school.
And these years of in-class English, in fact, is also fashionable, extracurricular reading, vocabulary, listening reserve is not enough, purely according to the primary school in-class progress, the exam will be very uncomfortable.
What's more, learning a language has an age dividend, and the words you know at a young age are just beginning to memorize a little bit in middle school, and the time cost cannot be consumed, after all, there are still so many subjects waiting to be learned.
I have a friend's baby who took the middle school entrance examination last year, and her science talent is very good, and she is close to full scores, that is, she suffered a blood loss in English. I have been making up English for three years of junior high school, but it always feels like a drop in the bucket.
Therefore, even if you don't register for classes in primary school, try to listen to the audio and read the original version as much as possible, no matter how you do it from a young age, it will be much easier later.
4. Read more books and reserve more.
Although our children do not read books now, I still advise parents of primary school students to guide or support their children to read more.
Whether it is literary books or popular science books, reading more, storing more knowledge, and storing words will be a huge help to the middle school career.
You said that the Tiannanhai North has a chaotic look, superficial understanding of some literature, history, geography, physical and chemical life... Whether there is any point, responsibly speaking, a wide range of knowledge is definitely useful, and it has a plus effect on later learning.
In addition to reading, there are actually more ways, documentaries, news, social practices and so on. The times are different, dead study textbooks, I don't know anything, I can't be a top student.
5. Keep a low profile and don't be ostentatious.
Although the kind of primary school learning attitude is serious, the score of science is close to the full score, the probability of going to middle school is also okay, but parents should still adhere to a relatively low mentality.
100 points in elementary school, maybe because the paper only has 100 points of simple questions, if you come out of the 150-point puzzle paper, you will know that the gap between the children is amazing.
It's hard to know that the children who are not among the best in elementary school will not suddenly jump up in middle school. Some babies start late and start low, but they can't stand the amazing acceleration.
So the grades in primary school are good, I personally suggest, don't keep saying outside, what my baby class is in the top three, the top ten in the grade... Easy to the back...
Learning is a long-distance run, and every time people look back, they will find some embarrassments, some regrets, some gains and losses, and some sorrows and joys on the way.
After all, elementary school is just a warm-up, good or not, turn your head, and you have to continue to run forward. It doesn't matter how many names there are, being able to run down physically and mentally is a victory.
I really can't run, my parents help me rest, walk the whole way, love to rank the first row, how can it be harm!?
After all, in the end, I have to rely on the baby to support my parents and wander home!
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