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My name is He Jingxiu, female, ethnic Han, married woman, fifty-six years old this year, with twin sons; I have long been upgraded to become a glorious grandmother.
Now there are grandchildren and one granddaughter each, four years old and three years old, all of them have been rounded by young children, it is I who usually take care of them, it is me who leads the grandchildren to play, it is me, it is all me.
Nowadays, the state has opened up the three-child birth policy, and our sons and daughters-in-law are all resolute supporters, all of whom have expressed their resolute response to the call of the Party Central Committee, as long as the economic conditions permit, all of them are full and handed over to me to take, which is equivalent to creating a family kindergarten, and the whole family supports me as the head of the kindergarten.
Since I was a child, I have been a woman shrouded in an aura of happiness, I am the eldest sister, there are two younger brothers below, my father is very spoiled for my little sponge, and the degree of favor even exceeds that of the younger brother.
Of the three children, I was the worst in school, and my two younger brothers had good academic performance, all in the top few of the class.
My parents' favorite is indeed me, I am very well-behaved and sensible, helping my parents to do housework early, reducing their burdens a lot, and I am a capable girl among children of the same age.
They were very nice to me, making new clothes, making good food, the first thing that came to mind was me, and the children envied me.
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At that time, we lived in a bungalow.
In the 1970s and 1980s, whether in the city or the countryside, there were very few buildings, basically bungalows, I had three main rooms and two boxes in my home, which were relatively spacious, there were not many children in the family, and the children in the neighborhood loved to come to our home to play.
Although, at that time, the feudal ideology was more serious, men and women interacted carefully, on the street, in the park, young men and women in love can only be hand in hand, if there is further action, by the police and civilian joint defense team or street picket team aunt caught, inevitably sent to the police station for education, the unit or home no one to take, you crouch there!
People's legal awareness is relatively weak, catch some normal interaction of men and women, do not do well, will be hung on the neck of a sign, written on the stinky hooligans and other insulting language, tied to the hands of the rope, some people pull, some people knock on the gong, let people watch, this kind of activity is called "parade street".
There are many good-looking men and women, wandering the streets leading to insanity, and suicide abounds.
Children below junior high school are not involved in male and female defense, belong to the green plum bamboo horse, two small unsuspecting age. The Tang Dynasty romantic poet Li Bai's poem "Long Gan Xing" describes it this way: "Lang rode a bamboo horse and went around the bed to get green plums." Cohabitation in the long dry, two small guesses. ”
Our family conditions are better, I am more generous, the children who come to play, seduced by the candy I share, and have a good relationship with me.
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Boys and girls in junior high schools have a sense of youth that they do not understand, and some desks deliberately appear on the "three-eight line".
Only the children who grew up together in the neighborhood still interacted together, and the children in other places came to bully us, and the boys would stand up and protect us, as our flower protectors.
As soon as they graduated from junior high school, the students went their separate ways, and only a few particularly excellent children or well-off families would continue to study. At that time, the admission rate of the college entrance examination was seven or eight percent. Those who have no hope have already made plans and found their own way.
Our family is also relatively open-minded, my parents invested a little money in me, rented a small commercial auxiliary in the commercial street, and sold some clothes or something.
I still have some business acumen, and the business is OK, although I am an unemployed youth, I earn more money than most of my classmates who work.
Time flickered to the twenties, young men and women of this age should talk about marriage; I am a small rich woman, mixed good can not look at our kind of freelancers, mixed poor, we can't see.
Parents tend to find a person who works in a state-owned enterprise and serves an iron rice bowl, and the second half of his life is guaranteed.
Picking and choosing, I fell in love with the neighbor boy Wang Jian.
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After graduating from junior high school, Wang Jian entered his father's transportation company as a driver.
After several years of honing himself as a big truck driver, at that time, drivers were a popular profession, not only to make more money, but also to run around the country, free travel, people envy and jealousy.
The two families are both familiar with each other, and the two of us are considered to be young plum bamboo horses, and soon promoted to the procedure of marriage; after marriage, Wang Jian confessed to me that he liked me very early and had a crush on me for many years.
Now that he has fulfilled his wish to marry me, he is naturally very fond of me.
The Wang family to his life, it is a single pass, they have two big sisters in the family, he is old and young, we are a very favored couple.
He went to the sports car, I went to do business, and when I got home, my mother-in-law had already cooked a meal, brought it to the table, and waited for me to come back, which was really happy!
Homesick, too close, are a community, raise your legs to arrive, you say cozy or not?
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Soon I was pregnant, and both families were very precious; one was a single passer, and the other was the only little sponge.
The child in my belly is also angry, there is no pregnancy reaction at all, should eat, should drink, like no one else; the old woman and mother-in-law give the fort nutrition soup every day, do not drink it, the weight is rubbing upwards, the fat are about to deform.
To the hospital for a check-up, the twins, can make the two families happy bad, however, the doctor warned that the nutrition is too much, the future is not good, which eliminated the habit of the two daily fort nutrition soup.
After three months of danger, my shop is still open, pressing a lot of goods, the two old ladies do not do it, there is no way, I have to hire someone to do it.
I went to the store to see, the old man is not at ease, someone is to follow, let me be bitter smile, with the passage of time, the two families upgraded to a strategic height, a round of a day, twenty-four hours on duty to watch me; even Wang Jian came back, have to stand on the side, not allowed to get close, afraid of hurting the child.
Wang Jian dared not be convinced, and there were two old men, no matter how big people were, they should fight, so that Wang Jian saw that I was cautious, it was really a happy trouble.
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As soon as the child was born, the two families rushed to see it.
It wasn't until my brother gave birth that the situation changed, and my mother had another task to see her grandson.
When the child goes to school, isn't it the next generation? The child goes to the grandmother's house every day without going to the grandmother's house, and the grandmother lets the study run to the grandmother's house, and the two families run back and forth, not good at learning.
Can't control, no way, just right, real estate reform, with the sale of commercial housing, I do business and Wang Jian sports car income is OK, I am ready to learn the story of "Meng Mu three moves".
I bought three apartments in the same unit in one go, Chinese pay the most attention to buying a house and land, we are also planning ahead, to the sons also buy a good house, just in case, we can still earn some, loan points can also afford.
Far from grandma and grandma's house, the two sons calmed down and studied hard, and went all the way to college.
After graduating from college, it didn't take much effort to join the work, it was all clearly arranged by their two uncles.
My two younger brothers studied well, mixed well in the unit after graduating from college, both are leadership status, and the nephew's things naturally come to strength.
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The two children are married, the birth of children is smooth and smooth, the children are also harmonious and beautiful, and there is not much to worry about.
There is a little problem, come back from work, come to eat and drink every day, who let the original purchase of a house near Na, a unit, come and go conveniently.
The grandchildren were both in charge of us, and the children would only play with their mobile phones when they came home. They were as if they were giving birth to a child for our old couple
It is also a happy trouble! I don't know when it will be...