Turning a blind eye and pretending to be deaf and dumb can be a good fit for a hundred years

#Marriage Handbook #My grandfather and grandmother had a great relationship, and although they were white-haired old people, they always held each other's hands when they went out. Although they were arranged marriages, they loved each other all their lives. In the beginning, because the two were not very familiar, there was often friction in life. Grandfather went out to do business for many years, the two gathered less and left more, and the contradiction gradually resolved. Grandfathers and grandmothers have a way of getting along.

1. Turn a blind eye. For the small trifles of life, such as whether to squeeze toothpaste at will or squeeze from the bottom to the head, they never get bored with each other, one person does what he wants, the other person follows the rules, all in their own way, but turn a blind eye to the actions of others.

2. Pretend to be deaf and dumb. For the other party's opinions, those who are unwilling to listen to or cannot accept them will never say it back in public, and only pretend not to hear it at that time. And when he heard it, he did not get angry and hurt people, but chose to remain silent, and then explain the reason after the matter was over.

3. Look at each other's advantages more, compare your own shortcomings, and you will not be able to bear to tangle with each other's shortcomings.