The movie "Hidden in the Dust" suddenly caught fire, and some people said that this movie was well filmed, paying attention to the lives of low-level farmers and seeing humanistic care; Others say the film is amplifying suffering and unrealistic. As a woman who has lived in the countryside, I just think that Cao Guiying is too bitter.
Cao Guiying hunched, limp, shaky hands, urinary incontinence, no fertility, is regarded by the villagers as a "plague god". Because she could not have children, she could not even marry, and could only live in the shack behind her brother-in-law's house, suffering from her brother-in-law's white eyes.
At her brother-in-law's house, she not only had to starve and freeze, but she also had to be beaten. She said that when she was a child, she gave the madman a steamed bun because she sympathized with the madman, and as a result, she was beaten up by her brother-in-law. Maybe her leg was mutilated at that time.
Not only her brother-in-law, but also other people in the village did not want to see her. She went to the neighbor's house to watch TV, accidentally peed on the stool, and was told by the neighbor. Later, when she wanted to watch TV, she only watched it in the neighbor's yard and never dared to sit in the house again. She was sitting at the entrance of the village, and there was a child playing in front of her, and she just wanted to play with the child, and the child's family rushed over and took the child away, saying that there was "dirty stuff".
But fortunately, Cao Guiying, who is as bitter as a bitter melon, met the thick and honest Ma Youtie, adding a little sweetness to her life.
In fact, Ma Youtie is also a bitter person. Like Guiying, he lived with his brother and sister-in-law, working for his brother and sister-in-law day and night, but he even had to look at his brother-in-law's face when he ate a mouthful of food. Because the nephew wanted to marry his daughter-in-law, the brother-in-law felt that Ma Youtie was a burden and wanted him to move out, so Zhang Luo married him.
Guiying's brother-in-law also felt that she was a burden and wanted to throw her out. In this way, two people who were regarded as a burden by the family got married under the mediation of their brothers and sisters-in-law. They didn't have a wedding, they didn't have a banquet, they just took a wedding id photo.
Guiying, who lived with low self-esteem and anxiety, originally had no hope for marriage. But from the wedding night, Ma Youtie lit up the light in her life and gave her hope.
On her wedding night, she was urinary incontinent again. She sat nervously on the bed, carefully covering the sheets beneath her. After Kema Youtie knew that she was wet, he got up and loosened the charcoal fire, added a few pieces of charcoal to it, and then turned his back. In this way, he gave Guiying dignity.
Ma Youtie never hated Guiying. They went to the store together to collect seeds and fertilizer, and the other people in the store joked that Guiying had peed his pants, and There was iron and immediately took off his coat to put on Guiying. Later, he went to the city to pull furniture for his nephew, and when he saw the coat on the street, he thought of buying one for Guiying so that she could both keep warm and cover her ass. Sometimes, he even washed Guiying's wet pants.
Because of the demolition of the village, they were thrown out of the dilapidated house. In order to give Guiying a stable home, There is iron ready to build his own house. He pulled the mud and made bricks with the mud himself; He went to the shepherd to ask for the grass to weave mats for the roof. Guiying said with emotion: "I never thought in my life that I could live in my own house and have my own home." ”
You Tie not only gave Guiying a home, but also gave her love and romance. He caught a fish in the river and gave the first bite to Guiying to eat; The hen laid the egg, he was reluctant to eat a bite, and boiled the poached egg to supplement Guiying's nutrition. He pressed the mark of the flower in Guiying's hand with wheat and said to make a mark for Guiying so that she would not be lost. In the summer, they lay on the roof to sleep, and in order to avoid Guiying falling, there was iron with ropes to tie the waistband of their pants together.
People who are very bitter in their hearts can fill it with just a hint of sweetness. Once Guiying, he felt that his fate was not as good as a donkey, after the donkey with iron was beaten by his brother, there was also iron that hurt it, but Guiying, no one ever felt sorry for her. But now, there is iron to give Guiying respect and love, so that Guiying's life is full of hope.
Unfortunately, seeing that life is getting better and better, Guiying is sick. Guiying fell ill on the bed, still worried about the iron that worked in the field. She struggled to deliver steamed buns and eggs to Youti, only to faint on the way and fall into the river. After Youtie learned of this news, he went down to the river to pick up Guiying, who was already cold and stiff, and shouted "Guiying" twice.
After Guiying's death, Youtie sold the grain, paid off the credit for buying seeds and fertilizer, and then released the donkey that had been accompanying him. The people in the village said to him, "Now that you have a house and food, it is good for a person to save land." You tie listened to this, looked back at everyone and left.
He returned home, looking at Guiying's posthumous photo made of a marriage certificate photo, while silently eating an egg. On the table, there was an empty pesticide bottle. There was iron lying silently, holding a donkey made of grass by Guiying.
At the end of the film, the iron-fed livestock are taken away by the nephew, and the house built by the iron hand is torn down, because there is a fifteen-thousand subsidy for the demolition of such a house. At the end of the film, it is written in a single line: There is iron and a new life with his nephew.
But I'd rather believe that there is iron to find his Guiying. For Youtie, Guiying is also his light, Guiying is gone, his light is gone, what is the point of his life?
There was iron before marriage and a life of numbness. He had all the strength and was tired every day, but he still became the poorest person in the village, living in his brother-in-law's house. After marriage, there was iron or the same iron, but with his own strength, he had his own house, food, and the desire to go to the city to make waves. All this is because he has Guiying, Guiying is gone, all this is meaningless to him.
A person who has never seen the light, even if he has been living in darkness all along, he will not feel that there is anything wrong with it. But having seen the light, that dark life is an inhuman torture.
Although the end of their deaths may seem tragic, from their point of view, it may be a relief and fulfillment. After all, they had romantic, warm, happy moments. Even if the world is suffering, they have love and hope in their hearts, so they have the courage to face life, and they also experience the sweetness of life.
In fact, in reality, there are many people like Guiying and Youti, and I hope that every such person can meet the light in his life and get the warmth and happiness in life.
