Wen | Zhuying
Gu Jiayi and Lin Hongnian finally divorced, before Lin Hongnian always wanted to divorce, Gu Jiayi has been unwilling, that is because she really loves Lin Hongnian and wants to maintain their marriage.
At that time, her heart actually still had a bit of luck, hoping that Lin Hongnian still had feelings for her, but with the accumulation of time and the accumulation of disappointment, finally Gu Jiayi said: "Let's divorce." ”
At that moment, Lin Hongnian couldn't believe his ears, and he vainly saved it, turned around and was very excited to tell his good brother Zhang Weiguo that he was liberated and free from then on.
I think if Gu Jiayi saw Lin Hongnian's appearance, she would not have asked those words before the divorce, breaking her heart.
child
Lin Hongnian and Gu Jiayi have a daughter.
But not biological, is an adopted child, the name is Gu Lin, although the child did not have the surname of Lin Hongnian, but the child's name took the surname of the two people, it can be seen that Gu Jiayi is Ai Lin Hongnian.
For so many years, the couple has not conceived a child, and they have raised Gu Lin as their own daughter, whether Lin Hongnian is sincere or not, but at least Gu Jiayi has cultivated Gu Lin as his own daughter.
Gu Lin likes to paint, and Gu Jiayi is desperate to let her daughter go to Beijing to learn to paint and make her happy.
But Lin Hongnian has always attached great importance to the idea of his mother-in-law, as long as the child's grandmother does not support, he does not support the child to go to Beijing to learn to paint, Lin Hongnian is so flattering to his mother-in-law, but also he was penniless to take care of his mother to see him a big factor.
Therefore, Lin Hongnian is actually very snobbish, who helps himself more, who has a heavier voice in this family, he will turn to whom.
When Lin Hongnian and Gu Jiayi first got married, Gu Jiayi wanted to move out and have her own independent space, after all, Gu Jiayi was very unhappy to live under the control of her mother since she was a child.
And after getting married, it is also normal for the two to have a small family together.
But at that time, Gu Jiayi did not agree with Gu Jiayi moving out, saying that there were so many rooms at home, and Lin Hongnian had no parents, so Gu Jiayi did not have an in-laws, and there was no need to move out of her mother's house without her in-laws to get married.
Hearing the idea that Gu Mu did not want her daughter to move out, Lin Hongnian ignored his wife's feelings and directly told Gu Mu that they would not move out and live with Gu Mu, and also said that Gu Mu would be his mother in the future.
In fact, at that time, Lin Hongnian had just gotten married, and he needed to please his mother-in-law, and he had no money and no job at that time, and he had no friends in Nanjing, even if they moved out as a couple, he could not afford to rent a house, so the best way at that time was to live in his mother-in-law's house.
Lin Hongnian's abacus was actually very refined, and later with the help of his mother-in-law, Lin Hongnian also had a decent job, slowly became famous, had money, and later moved out to live, because he could afford to buy a house at that time.
So from the very beginning, Lin Hongnian was a hypocritical, selfish and snobbish person, but Gu Jiayi did not see his true face until the divorce.
The truth
Gu Jiayi loves Lin Hongnian and has a very important place, that is, the truth about the child.
Gu Jiayi is a Chinese medicine doctor with excellent medical skills, she knows a truth, but she is still willing to bury this secret in her heart, until the divorce did not tell Lin Hongnian.
The secret is the truth about why the couple has been childless for so many years.
Before Lin Hongnian had always thought that the lack of children between them for so many years was because of Gu Jiayi's problem, thinking that if it were not for this reason, Gu Jiayi would not have found him to marry such a person who had nothing, so Lin Hongnian, who wanted money, recognized the fact that there were no children.
But the truth of the matter is not so, no child between them has never been Gu Jiayi's problem, on the contrary, Gu Jiayi has long known that Lin Hongnian has fertility defects, but still firmly and desperately married him, the reason is very simple, because she loves Lin Hongnian.
So there is no child between them, Gu Jiayi has actually always defaulted to her own problem, because she is worried that if Lin Hongnian knows that it is her own problem, she will not be able to hang on to her face, and there will be a psychological shadow.
So for so many years, gu Jiayi has been taking a lot of medicine for Lin Hongnian, and has done a lot of conditioning, but there is no effect, and finally Gu Jiayi is actually not so persistent, and the two adopted a daughter.
Originally, Gu Jiayi thought that it was very happy for their family to live like this, but slowly she found that Lin Hongnian seemed to have changed and become very selfish, but she was not sure whether Lin Hongnian was originally so selfish, or whether she slowly became so selfish later.
Until Gu Lin was beaten at school, Lin Hongnian used Gu Lin's incident to ask for compensation from the other party, and afterwards he also proudly showed off, in the face of Lin Hongnian's hypocrisy and selfishness, Gu Jiayi finally said the decision to divorce.
After the divorce, Gu Jiayi told Lin Hongnian the truth about not having children, saying that if he really wanted a child, it was best to go to the big hospital to see.
Lin Hongnian did not believe that it was his problem at first, but Gu Jiayi said it so seriously, so he was a little worried about going to the hospital for examination, and the result was told that it was a congenital birth defect, and the doctor comforted him to face the reality.
Such news made Lin Hongnian very disappointed, he did not have his own children in this life, he was very sad, and he did not expect that Gu Jiayi would suffer in silence for more than ten years.
Rock sugar gourd
Before the divorce, the husband and wife ate a casual meal together, Lin Hongnian invited guests, and during the meal, Gu Jiayi asked Lin Hongnian a question.
It was the problem that made Gu Jiayi more determined about her decision to divorce, and she also regretted that she was easily married to Lin Hongnian when she was carried away by love.
Gu Jiayi asked, "I would like to ask you if you married me because I was a Nanjing hukou, a local, and the family conditions were not bad, or because you liked me as a person?" Anyway, it's going to be a divorce, you tell me the truth. Because I think Lin Hongnian you are really selfish sometimes, I don't know if you were originally so selfish, or if you slowly became so selfish later. ”
As a result, Lin Hongnian said: "Your questioning is always like this, going around, I will explain it to you simply and clearly, what you mean is to ask me if I liked you as a person or whether I wanted to see your family conditions." Is it? ”
Gu Jiayi said that is almost what it meant.
Lin Hongnian didn't even think about it, and said: "Your family background is part of your own conditions, understand?" ”
The meaning of this sentence is very clear, meaning: If you didn't have money, I wouldn't marry you.
But Lin Hongnian is so hypocritical, he does not directly say money, but cunning that Gu Jiayi's family background is also part of her person, he likes this part, but this part is Gu Jiayi's own condition, this is sophistry.
Gu Jiayi's meaning was not that he did not understand, but he was so hypocritical that he loved her.
Gu Jiayi asked him in a different way this time, saying: "Then if I am an orphan like you, have no friends in Nanjing, no money, no good job, and a rented broken house, will you still marry me?" ”
This time Lin Hongnian was finally willing to tell the truth, he said: "Do you want to listen to the truth?" I'm sure I won't marry you, because love without a material basis is like a mess of sand that will pass away with the wind. ”
Lin Hongnian told the truth about his marriage to Gu Jiayi, that is, Tu Gu Jiayi had a house in Nanjing, a stable job, a good family background, and could help him gain a firm foothold in Nanjing, and he did not love Gu Jiayi.
But in the face of Gu Jiayi's question this time, he said that love without material basis is like a plate of sand that will pass away with the wind.
What a hypocritical and chilling statement.
The material basis is of course very important, but it is also very important to have feelings between the two, and Gu Jiayi has never been Tu Lin Hongnian what married him, if it is really tu what, it is tu ai, but Lin Hongnian deceived her for more than ten years, Lin Hongnian has never loved her for more than ten years, and the sentence "I loved you" is a satire and a joke.
After listening to this sentence, Gu Jiayi said very bitterly: "According to your logic, I should not have married you in the first place, no wonder you gave me a rock sugar gourd when you got married, just a rock sugar gourd." ”
Saying this sentence, Gu Jiayi regretted her marriage a little, because how happy she was at that time, when she ate that rock sugar gourd, it was so sweet, because that day she was going to marry the person she liked, so everything was sweet.
But after many years of marriage, I learned that Lin Hongnian only gave her a rock sugar gourd, not because she was poor, but also because she didn't love.
When Gu Jiayi was young, she fell in love with her brain, and for love, she married Lin Hongnian, who had nothing at all costs, and gave him a home, and then Lin Hongnian slowly mixed well, and became more and more famous, and made more and more money.
Gu Jiayi found that Lin Hongnian seemed to have changed, but at this time Gu Jiayi saw clearly that Lin Hongnian had never changed, he had always been such a selfish person, and he was only blinded by love, and he would agree to marry him because of a rock sugar gourd.
In fact, women can understand the poverty of men when they are young, but poverty and perfunctory are two different things.
Gu Jiayi actually did not regret marrying love because of a sugar gourd, but because a sugar gourd married the love she thought.
But if there is a little love in it, she will not be so sad.
Many men will feel that they are very poor when they are young, and they can't give what their beloved girls want, in fact, they don't want much, it is your intentions, it is your wholehearted love, it is a rock sugar gourd full of love, not a perfunctory rock sugar gourd, and it is not full of lies and selfishness.
In the end, Gu Jiayi chose divorce, which I think is a very correct decision, because this kind of man is really not worth it.
And Lin Hongnian can no longer find a woman who loves him more than Gu Jiayi after divorce, even if Lin Hongnian can marry a younger and more beautiful woman later, but it is not worth Gu Jiayi, who was desperate to marry him with nothing.
Because the love at that time was pure and sincere, and now Lin Hongnian is middle-aged, unable to have his own children, and the girl who is willing to marry him figure out what he does?
And he didn't have the heart of this person, so in the end Lin Hongnian would only lose the woman who loved him the most in the world.